Would you accept your ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend again?
December 15, 2017 3:43pm CST
Hi everyone Would you accept your ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend again? My ex boyfriend wanted me back but i didnt accept him back. He was very rude to me when we broke up and we been away for long and i dont feel any love for him anymore What about you? If an ex asked you back would you give him a chance? Please share
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It happened to me, it happened and still happens to many people. In my case, it wasn't wise, but we were accustomed to each other and it was hard to remain alone, that was the main reason why we got back together. However, the reasons why two people break up hardly ever disappear, so we were done once again, for good (hopefully). It really depends on when and why the relationship ended. After a long time, I understand why you refused your ex, I would have done the same.
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I refused him because when we broke up he said that he judt wanted to play with me so after monthes he came and said thathe wanted me back more than once but who guarantees me that he wouldnt just play with me after what he said in the past? Besides he works in a club so you can imagine
Yes but you wanted to give it a second try so at least now you know that it didnt work. If you didnt give it a second try you could be thinking thst maybe it could have worked out and now you know it didnt so. You did what seemed right to you at the time
• United States
There is a reason an Ex is an Ex. Like I heard in a movie, treat an Ex like a tax return. File it away for 3 years then throw it out. But if it has been less than seven years, think back to the way that person treated you. Would you want to deal with that forever more? Your self worth would suffer big time!
• United Kingdom
If I still feel affection and/or love for him, I may accept him back. This also depends on what may have caused our break up in the first place. Some issues including any kind of abuse, infidelity, are no brainers for me, I will never accept the person back.
• United States
Hmmm on the opposite side of this discussion, I know the feeling of being the guy that wants a woman back in his life. It can be rough, especially if it's a first love. BUT if you love a flower, you do not pick it, sometimes it's best to leave it alone to bloom. I've learned my wisest lessons and became more of an adult because of her declining my desire to get back togeter. Now she's with another guy, thankfully he seems like he treats her with care and respect. For the sake of letting her grow happy, I'm happy she found a winner . Plus I've come to terms with the fact that her and I are simply not meant to last. So... if the guy you're speaking of was/is immature... perhaps declining to take him back will help him grow. It helped me to learn many things about my emotions and childish actions. It could be the best thing for him.
You are a very sweet man i am happy to know that sometimes after losing us guys can see our worth actually i wish that happens with the guy i like right now and i hope that you meet an amazing girl that you love and loves you back you deserve it