Its funny when the table turns!

@ricki_911 (19047)
Toronto, Ontario
December 15, 2017 5:40pm CST
I had dated this guy who is 28 and has 4 kids. I have dated people with kids before. The diffeeence is the baggage aka the ex. Iam not raising anyone kids, not payi g for someone elses kids and really my view is if i have kids with this man he couldn't support them. So i broke it off. It actually shows how irresponsible he is and i do believe my friend was right after talking with her. This guy regularly talking to and his ex sending him pictures not of the kids. His ex caused the drama with cas (lied claiming he abused the children then now has a new boyfriend). Yet, sending him inappropriate pictures. So when he asked me why. I was honest i said iam not dealing with his baggage. His ex being one and 4 kids. He never has money due to child support, he hands money to this ex like its candy (she asks he gives) and again iam second (put the past in the past). My view was if i had a child by accident no way would or could he support this child and in no way am i supoorting him,and his baggage. He went on this rage about it. Funny how its different when the tables turn. I just said he is not moving in with me, and iam not paying when we go out. He constantly whines he has no money and his dad does his budget. Whereas iam 29 , own my car, rent and pay my bills. Iam so much mite independent and mature to handle that. I started to realize today if it went further of the burden on me. So he's gone now thankfully.
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• United States
16 Dec
You made the right decision. But the kids should take presidence over the exe or anyone else so he has it mixed up. And when the kids are grown he will pay in other ways.
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@ricki_911 (19047)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec
I agree. He should think of the kids but he is not. He is thinkong his wx so he eithee think he has a chance with her.
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@allen0187 (32597)
• Philippines
16 Dec
Good for you.
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