It's your fault your children act that way
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
December 15, 2017 8:28pm CST
My friend was telling me about her nephew and his behaviour.
She was trying to justify his brhaviour. He has been abusive towards teacher, and mouthing off in grade 2.
I told her it comes back to the lack of parenting. If the parents don't teach them right to wrong the child feels it is right.
My younger brother is a ket example of this. He is now 20s and doesn't feel to work or pay bills, steali g is acceptable.
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@1creekgirl (40411)
• United States
16 Dec 17
We can't expect children to behave if they haven't been taught anything by their parents.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
That is what i tried to explain. Buy it is very true.
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it is quite unsettling that some parents just let their kids loose just because they are still young@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
I couldn't imagine not knowing or carrying where or what my kods were doing.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
17 Dec 17
@ricki_911 I think it shows the escape goating act. That's not a good way to handle the situation.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
But allowing it and blaming others shows the lack of parenting.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
Yes, that is true. But it always comes back to the parenting skills
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
@Marty1 i remember reasing something online about it once. But parents are busy being selfish. They don't have time to parent.
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
16 Dec 17
yes. I agree with you. The responsibility lies with parents
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
It does even if this child learns elsewhere parents need toeal with it.
@rina110383 (24495)
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16 Dec 17
Definitely agree with this. The person/s I thought of are my nephew and niece. I have to put the blame on my sister's lack of parenting skills.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
Parents don't take action now a days and expect professionals to do it.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Dec 17
I agree with you 100%! People look at me like I'm insane when I say I love Home Schooling my kids and I love spending time with them. We raised them to be respectful, grateful, to love the Lord and be helpful to others. They aren't perfect of course, no one is but they are good kids!
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Dec 17
@ricki_911 No! They know right from wrong because they have been taught since they were babies.
Home Schooling is the only option in my mind-I have seen and heard too many horror stories as well.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 Dec 17
But they certain wouldn't kick or swear at the teacher. I tried explaining if he learnt that now it has to do with the parents. I would be home schooling after hearing some horror atories
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