People Come And Go

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Edgewood, Maryland
December 21, 2017 2:33pm CST
I think about my life and how many people come and go in it and how much relationships matter and sometimes we dont realize it to its to late. I used to have a lot of people in my life and there not here anymore maybe by death marriage or circumstances just sometimes I set back and think about the people I encounter in my life and lost also sometimes its hard to take.
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@RasmaSandra (16585)
• Riga, Latvia
21 Dec
My late husband and I used to discuss how strange it felt to realize we are both orphans. Then it seemed so odd that we had no parents. Now that he is gone and I am all alone it is the strangest feelings. Thank heavens I have my cat Sid.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
21 Dec
i was always affaird of being alone
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@RasmaSandra (16585)
• Riga, Latvia
21 Dec
@bigshow9773 I have no choice so I must get used to it.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
@RasmaSandra i understand its still sad
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@skydream (1146)
• Agate, Colorado
21 Dec
It's weird to think about. Since I'm planning a wedding I think about people I used to be close to who I would have had as a bridesmaid or at least been invited and we don't even talk anymore it's weird to think about.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
sometime it hurts because you and that person think your friendship is forever or you will never stop talking no matter what happens in live
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@LeaPea2417 (19142)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Dec
@bigshow9773 That has happened with two of my gal pals from school. I always thought we would be friends but they were the ones who drifted a part from me. I was the one who had to look one of them up on Facebook and contact them to see how they were. And the other one, I was the one, who just this Christmas Season , sent a Christmas Card , saying how I hope she and her family were well. She sent me one back saying it was good to hear from me, but if I hadn't sent the card, I would have never heard from her again. If I hadn't contacted the other friend on Facebook, I don't think I would have heard from her either. Why, is it , that I am the one who has to try to keep the relationships going? Do you feel that way?
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
@LeaPea2417 people dont feel as strongly as you do about the realationship every person i ever encounter i held the friendship high an i tried to keep it strong
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@kritis (598)
• India
22 Dec
It hurts when you think about such things..some people came in our life we thought they will be with us forever but after years gone when we look back it seems just a myth..the bestest friends once which make our day are not even know where they are..it hurts alot.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
no doubt it hurts but sometimes i wander what if i made different decisions what would have been between me and the person that is no more in my life
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@kritis (598)
• India
22 Dec
@bigshow9773 Ya it would be different..totally different..but don't you think it's strange that somebody enters in your life changed your life...lots of love, care, happiness everything is going in right direction and still we ended up having no more talk with him/her..becoming strangers who know each other better than anyone else..and still missing them..
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• Edgewood, Maryland
28 Dec
@kritis because sharing with someone imtimate thoughts and feeling then they betray you
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@Hannihar (29721)
24 Dec
I have learned that the hard way. When I moved to Israel and learned Hebrew at this one place I met a lot of people but then a lot of them left the country. I was very hard but nothing I could do about it. Now, I have made friends with people I know will stay here and not leave. It is hard to say good bye to some people.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
24 Dec
sorry to here that
@Hannihar (29721)
25 Dec
@bigshow9773 Thanks William.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
25 Dec
@Hannihar no problem
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@theBlock (2615)
• United States
22 Dec
@bigshow9773 Hello, my name is Tim! Oh, I feel you on this. As we get older our relationships with others start to wane. But most of the time the ones close to us are forever deepened. I wish you peace....
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
no doubt bro its just hard deal with sometimes thanks for your comment i will add u so i can follow u and comment on your post
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@theBlock (2615)
• United States
22 Dec
@bigshow9773 Pleasure to chat with you
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• Edgewood, Maryland
28 Dec
@theBlock u to have a good one
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@Angela150 (958)
• London, England
22 Dec
Yes people do come and go.
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• London, England
22 Dec
It is awful when loved ones pass away.
• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
it sucks i miss a lot of my old friens
@lalyvc (36)
• Lima, Peru
23 Dec
I know it's hard, but we have to learn it is life. People enter and leave our lives and it's part of growing!
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• Edgewood, Maryland
23 Dec
no doubt but it sucks
@dodoazo (17329)
• Philippines
22 Dec
That is life. That is the reality. But the point of our existence to enjoy life to its fullest. And there are so many things that we could do. If you are a Christian, just follow Jesus Christ when He said, "That which ye have seen me do even that shall ye do." Missionary work is one, bringing people back to Christ. Be active in your Church. Do humanity work, among others.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
thanks for your comment
@LeaPea2417 (19142)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Dec
I feel the same way.
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• Edgewood, Maryland
22 Dec
i wander were people are that i used to deal with and what are they up to
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@shubhu3 (14286)
• New Delhi, India
24 Dec
That's reality and that's how life is. Not everyone stays by your side. We need to accept, appreciate who is there and be investing towards them.
• Edgewood, Maryland
24 Dec
it is were it is i always looked at it like that
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@shubhu3 (14286)
• New Delhi, India
25 Dec
@bigshow9773 I agree.
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@sugartoes (39276)
• Greencastle, Indiana
27 Dec
life goes on we we lose friends we make friends god puts people in our lives for HIS reasons not ours.