am i wrong??
Bronx, New York
December 22, 2017 12:50am CST
My grandmother complains I dont do nothing in the house. but I make sure the house is clean and there is no dishes in the sink cause I know how she is .one thing I don't do is clean the bathroom and here is why cause when its time for me to clean the bathroom she is hovering over me and yelling and screaming how to do this and how to that and oh you didnt clean it right .the tub could be clean and she just finds something to complain that gets very annoying
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• Bronx, New York
If she is having a bad day then thats mean she having a bad day everyday .cause every night she comes home from work she finds something to curse about. and as soon as she wakes up her mouth is the first thing you hear in the morning.
What is wrong for one person might be right another so it's really hard to say. I think depending on the situation I would do the cleaning well but restrict her access to the bathroom (unless she needs to use it) while cleaning it and I would tell her I didn't want to listen any more to her complaining now that I understand what she wants. Many older people get cranky and they know it. I told a family member once I wanted joyful visits and if they continued to complain about me I would simply stop visiting. I also told them I loved them but needed some peace. They understood and stopped. How's life in the Bronx these days?
You just need to have more patience for your grandma, sometimes elders tend to have a lot of mood swings because of hormonal imbalance, and also try to check also if you are really cleaning ever thing the right way or maybe you just need to improve on that area. Don't stress yourself too much, and try to listen to some of your favorite music it can relax you tho. and put you in a better mood.