I am about to tell my friend's gf that he flirted with me and wanted to cheat on her

Portugal
December 22, 2017 5:51pm CST
Hi everyone I decided to tell the girlfriend of my friend that he wanted to cheat on her with me I think that she deserves to know even though i dont know her. I will send her the prints of our conversations for her to see with her own eyes Do you think i am doing the right thing? Please share
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7 responses
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
23 Dec 17
She doesn't know you and you don't know her personally. Do you think she would believe you? It's best to tell off your friend not to do it again and you have no intention of having a relationship with him, than telling the girlfriend. Let them fix their own problem and relationship. Better yet, end your friendship with that man.
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• Portugal
23 Dec 17
Yes i ended my friendship with him. But i have proves of what he was telling me you know? I dont think is fair that a girl who is with him since 5 years i think is being cheated on everyday. And if i send her screenshots of our messages she will believe me for sure. Iwould want to know if my boyfriend with whom i was with since 5 years was cheatibg on me. Because i dont think i am the only one with whom he was flirting with.
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• Portugal
24 Dec 17
@toniganzon yes sure i know you are only giving your opinion but me and the guy are not friends anymore so i wont get the chance to meet her you know? I just feel bad knowing that he is a cheater and she thinks he is a saint
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Dec 17
@sweetloveforeve You have a point but then again, even if you have a screen shot of that message. you have no idea what the girl might think. It might destroy you. If your intention is to help her there are other ways. Get to know her, become her friend before telling her off. Or else it would only appear that you are jealous and want to destroy their relationship. That's coming from my own point of view. Then again it's your life, your decision. You were asking for our opinion and I am simply giving mine.
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@rina110383 (24495)
23 Dec 17
You're right. She deserves to know it. I'll be doing the same thing if I was in your place.
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• Portugal
23 Dec 17
Thanks so much for understanding my side i put myself in her place and i would want someone to tell me
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• Portugal
24 Dec 17
@sharon6345 i feel sorry for what happened to you. I will send her screenshots of the messages and she wont know my face because i will tell her the truth using a facebook without a photo.she is 22 years old and i think to myself if i dont tell her she might marry this guy and have kids with him and be cheated her entire life. He cheated his gf before this one and with this one wanted to do the same being with me but i didnt accept it so sure he has other girls and is cheating on her
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• Portugal
25 Dec 17
@sharon6345 yes i will sure tell you. I think i will tell her the truth after these holidays time pass. Would be awful for her to find out just right before the year ends but as soon as the year begins i will have to tell her. She deserves to know.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
25 Dec 17
You should tell her as you should not let her get cheated by him.
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• Portugal
25 Dec 17
Yes even though i dont know her in person but i will tell her by messages and send her screenshots so she will believe me
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• Lucknow, India
23 Dec 17
I think you should talk some bloody sense in your friend first... If that doesn't work then yeah it's totally your call...
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• Portugal
23 Dec 17
Yes he wont change who he is. He wanted to continue flirting with me and be with me. What is unnaceptable
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• Lucknow, India
25 Dec 17
@sweetloveforeve if that girl can't see who he is then it's her peril .
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• Portugal
25 Dec 17
@Rationalwriter peril? What do you mean? I guess she thinks he is a saint actually
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@Shiva49 (26199)
• Singapore
23 Dec 17
You can tell your friend off than tell his girlfriend especially since you do not know her - siva
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• Portugal
23 Dec 17
I told my friend that his action is wrong but he didnt care about it and i will tell her everything. No one deserves to be cheated on forever
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
26 Dec 17
That's so sad. And yes you're doing the right thing because that jerk will do the SAME thing to other women.
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• Portugal
27 Dec 17
Yes for sure he will and if i dont do anything he will keep doing that to his girlfriend
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• Portugal
28 Dec 17
@saritflor yes he should
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
27 Dec 17
@sweetloveforeve Way to go friend and that ### should be ashamed of himself!
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• Kathmandu, Nepal
27 Dec 17
I suggest you to do so, now! Oh! But once please think, why does he want to cheat her over you? Why don't you question to your friend? You can clearly ask your friend on this issue! I think, that would be good to do so, before you send your emails to your friend's girlfriend. Thank you!
• Portugal
27 Dec 17
He wants to cheat on her with me because he is a cheater for sure he flirts with other girls too
• Portugal
28 Dec 17
@creativeaashish i am not with him. We were friends but he wanted to be with me but i refused.
• Kathmandu, Nepal
28 Dec 17
@sweetloveforeve oh! Then, you should tell to everyone! And my question is why are you with him then , after all he cheats to everyone! He might also cheated you! What do you think on this?