SNEAKY BOYFRIEND.

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@Kandae11 (36837)
January 1, 2018 9:59am CST
As I watched the New Year's Eve celebrations on television last night, I couldn't help remembering my very first New Year's Eve party and my very first boyfriend. On that memorable night many years ago, he took me to a crowded house party. It was an exciting time for me, but was spoiled by his regular disappearance for long intervals. Two days later I was informed that he was seen having the time of his life with a young lady at another house party just a block away. Seems he had taken two of us out that night - that explained his absences and the reason why he took me home just after midnight. Do you recall a New Year's Eve that was memorable in some way - whether good or bad? How did it go for you on the last evening of 2017?
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@Tampa_girl7 (25677)
• United States
1 Jan
What a jerk he was.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
He didn't think so - his excuse was that he was 'helping out a friend'.
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@sjvg1976 (18386)
• Delhi, India
1 Jan
Seems he though he won't be caught
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
Rather silly of him - he was well known in the area.
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@sjvg1976 (18386)
• Delhi, India
1 Jan
@Kandae11 hope so he didn't try the same things afterwards.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
@sjvg1976 He didn't have the opportunity - we went our separate ways a month or so later.
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@andriaperry (50558)
• United States
1 Jan
No none as memorable as yours. Happy New Year!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
Happy New Year to you and yours.
@LadyDuck (156900)
• Switzerland
1 Jan
Not the best boyfriend you could find for sure. He surely thought it was nice to make two girls happy.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
He told me she didn't have a date so he was 'helping her out'. From what I was told, he was having a whale of a time - 'helping out'.
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@LadyDuck (156900)
• Switzerland
1 Jan
@Kandae11 It sounded like he was one of those boys who love to have many girlfriends at the same time.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
@LadyDuck Yes, he was .
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@peachpurple (12875)
• Malaysia
2 Jan
Nothing special for me but yours was special
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
Not the kind of special I appreciate.
@moffittjc (42957)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Jan
For the past 18 years, I have spent New Years Eve at Disney World with my family. Each and every time it has been wonderful and memorable. And I can't think of any time in the past where I haven't had a great New Year's celebration. One that does stand out though is the NYE of 1999. Remember how everyone was so worried about Y2K and what would happen if our computers and technology all crashed? I remember being at a big party with my wife that night and everybody was glued to the TV that night waiting to see what would happen to all our computers, electrical grid, technology, etc. It turned out to be no big deal in the end, but it was kind of funny that we were all so worried!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
Oh yes I remember 1999 - that was memorable yes. A lot of people were very worried. Disney World for the past 18 years ? - that should be a lot of fun.
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@moffittjc (42957)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Jan
@Kandae11 Spending a week at Disney from Christmas Day through New Years Day has become our family tradition ever since my daughter was born.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
@moffittjc Is that usually done by a lot of people in that area?
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@1hopefulman (28358)
• Canada
1 Jan
Wow! He was busy? Did you continue dating him?
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
It was hard to shake him off, but I eventually did. He was good at excuses.
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@1hopefulman (28358)
• Canada
1 Jan
@Kandae11 He was slippery but hard to shake off. I wonder if after he took you home, he went and took the other girl home?
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
@1hopefulman Usually those parties go until the morning. He was rude enough to tell me that at least he was with me when the clock struck midnight. But then, he took me home and went back for another four or five hours of partying - with the other young lady.
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@DianneN (77860)
• United States
2 Jan
I hope you dumped him immediately!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
He was difficult to dislodge at first, but he finally got the message.
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@DianneN (77860)
• United States
2 Jan
@Kandae11 What a stinker! Good riddance to him!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
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@SAM774 (3726)
2 Jan
oh man.... what a jerk he was...
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
He attempted to justify his behavior.
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@SAM774 (3726)
3 Jan
@Kandae11 wooo.... Justify his behavior??? What was your reaction then??
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@Kandae11 (36837)
7 Jan
@SAM774 I was not convinced.
@YrNemo (12638)
7 Jan
OMG, what was wrong with that guy? What happened to him in the end? (I am curious if he ended up with too many girls!)
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@Kandae11 (36837)
7 Jan
He seems to have been a collector and found it hard to let go of any of his collections. I managed it in the end - but he was difficult to dislodge.
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@YrNemo (12638)
7 Jan
@Kandae11 Oh dear... (very strange personality! good on you for breaking free from a type like that!)
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@JudyEv (123138)
• Bunbury, Australia
2 Jan
What a horrible thing to do. He had a lot of nerve didn't he?
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
He certainly did.
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@JudyEv (123138)
• Bunbury, Australia
2 Jan
@Kandae11 I hope you dropped him like a hot cake - or had he already dropped you by then?
@Daelii (5591)
• United States
1 Jan
what a dirty dog!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
He felt what he did was justified.
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@Daelii (5591)
• United States
2 Jan
@Kandae11 im so sorry! but it seems like a funny yet sad scene in a movie!
@Happy2BeMe (74744)
• Canada
1 Jan
Sadly a lot of us have met jerks like that especially in our younger years of dating. Last night was a quiet evening at home watching movies.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
1 Jan
Mine was a quiet one too, today will be busier with friends and family dropping by.
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@Happy2BeMe (74744)
• Canada
1 Jan
@Kandae11 that will be nice. Enjoy your time with them.
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@marlina (73885)
• Canada
7 Jan
Jerk!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
7 Jan
Perfect description.
@BelleStarr (38216)
• United States
7 Jan
He was a loser and I hope you dumped him after that night.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
7 Jan
I tried to, but he didn't make it easy. I finally got rid of him.
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@nela13 (6857)
• Portugal
2 Jan
What was his idea?! What a silly thing to do...
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@Kandae11 (36837)
7 Jan
I suppose he also wanted to brag to his friends about his New Year's Eve exploits.
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@PainsOnSlate (20254)
• Canada
2 Jan
That's creepy he was dating two people, I was in bed before the ball dropped on the television, when we were younger we would go to parties but not now...
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
NowI prefer a quiet night at home on New Year's Eve.
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@shaggin (36845)
• United States
2 Jan
Oh wow that is terrible what he did. Some people think its cool to brag to their friends about juggling two women I find it disgusting!
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
I can well imagine the amount of bragging that went on.
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@snowy22315 (47061)
• United States
2 Jan
Interestingly, I had a memorable New Years Eve once at Disney World as well. It was a fun place to be. I remember Kevin Bacon and his brother played on Main Street I didn't think they were that great. I had a fun time at a friend's party once on New Years too..we played charades.
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
Kevin Bacon is a musician as well?
@Oshobu (689)
• Nigeria
2 Jan
I've never attended any before... All celebrations are done at home here... It always full of of fun
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@Kandae11 (36837)
2 Jan
These days. I prefer home celebrations.