How can we expect them to behave normally?

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United States
January 1, 2018 9:03pm CST
I'm probably the anomaly when it comes to prisoners. I feel great sorrow for them, and I always have. Many of these people were brought up in an abusive home. The were beaten, raped, told they were no good all their lives, add this to the fact they were not taught basic compassion or any life lessons, and it's crazy that we expect them to grow up and act normally. I'm not saying they shouldn't pay for their crimes because if they hurt someone they should be in prison. I have two points though to add to this: One, just like the man in the video states, why can't we catch them early, surely we could set up a program in all levels of school to catch the problem and provide them whatever it is their parents wont. People would yell about the money, and yell about how it's not up to the schools to bring up children, but think of the money saved in the future and lives saved from abuse and murder. What if we pay ten thousand a year now and save 40,000 later, it's a win win for everyone. Babe Ruth was a huge trouble maker in youth, and his dad put him in a Catholic type school. The priests there did not believe boys were bad, and they could all be saved. They loved and taught and helped them to get ready for real life. They had a 95% success rate. Why don't we have a thousand of these schools now by private organizations that can be monitored. It's crazy! My second point is that over 90% of prisoners leave prison at some point, and they are no more ready for the real world than before they went in. I read on Wikipedia that 70% will commit more crimes and go back into the system within five years. So let's train these people with the knowledge they need to have empathy for themselves and others. We need training programs by the thousands. It's all well and good to punish joebob for hurting people, send him to prison where he will learn to hurt people even better than before, and send him back into the world and expect him to behave correctly. It just doesn't work. There are many who want prisons and a lot of them, because it's hugely profitable, and they don't want to stop earning money in their greedy pockets. We should remember that every horrible person alive today was once a precious baby. Please watch the video. He says it much better than I do.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
2 Jan 18
Huge topic. It certainly depends on the crime. Schools can only do so much. If a student requires more than a behavior management class, he or she is placed in another facility.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
4 Jan 18
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• United States
4 Jan 18
It would take a huge commitment from the government and citizens to change this problem. I think we need to create a panel of experts to come up with a plan and a panel of experts to put it in action. Hopefully, one day something can be put in action.
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@Madshadi (8849)
• Brussels, Belgium
2 Jan 18
It to mention that some are innocent too. I am all for improving prisons and changing how prisoners are treated.
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• United States
4 Jan 18
There have been many proven innocent after lengthy confinements, and their whole lives are ruined. It's really sad.
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@Madshadi (8849)
• Brussels, Belgium
4 Jan 18
@misunderstood_zombie no amount of compensation can make up for their lost lives. That’s sad indeed
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
2 Jan 18
You brought up a lot of really good points especially the last few paragraphs. I think they need more rehabilitation before sending people from jail back out in the world. I think a lot of people could benefit from being helped when they are young. Sometimes it’s even just finding the right medicines to help them with hyperactivity or depression etc.
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• United States
3 Jan 18
That's true, many of them have mental issues.
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Jan 18
He's right. If we can do something about the early years, the first sentence will never be written in most cases, and the amount then we would save on housing prisoners would decrease dramatically. However, it's catching that person in the early years that's the hardest to do.
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Jan 18
@misunderstood_zombie Sometimes it's too late even then. Consider how many of those shootings we hear about, whether school or restaurants, as I've heard a few of those, the people who know them never suspected that part of their nature.
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• United States
3 Jan 18
I think it would be hard also, but once they get in trouble would be a large indicator.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
12 Jan 18
As long as prisons are privatized and for profit, nothing is going to change. It's why guys are doing long sentences for possession.
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• United States
14 Jan 18
@teamfreak16 It's really sad that the people who just want the money don't mind who gets hurt. It's sad all around.
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@YrNemo (20261)
2 Jan 18
I don't know much about this topic to say anything. I have seen evil people who stay in power and prosper almost forever while some innocent ones got framed. Then there are those who did bad and didn't care if they hurt others... They left the prison/jail, only to do more crimes, hurting others and eventually getting back to prison/jail. (I am not sure I know the difference between those two.)
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• United States
4 Jan 18
You're right, there are so many who don't care who they hurt, and only care about themselves.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
5 Jan 18
For many especially when it comes to rape they did come from an avusive home. Many were abused severely. I just wish that these abusers were caught and while on prison are demanded to get counseling and retraining as well as the kids especoslly if theirs have to as well. I know it costs $$ but to help break the cycle some and prevenrt maybe yrs of trauma PTSD etc it is really worth it