Afternoon musing.

By Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111948)

United States

January 4, 2018 11:18am CST

Good afternoon.I did not want to do this post. there is one person that I have been following and does not follow back. Not sure why.This been going on awhile and think that it is time for me to have a talk with him.Did you ever get that feeling here.I do. It is no big deal.I enjoy reading his post,comments etc. I do want to have a talk with him to see why avoids me. He is not the only one.One more.Just drop me. Which is fine.Been through this many times. Plus do not want to start any problems.That is me.I know what I am. Thank you for listening. Photo online

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@NJChicaa (115913)

• United States

4 Jan 18

If they don't pay attention to you, then stop paying attention to them if it bothers you.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@NJChicaa your right.Are you getting buried there with the storm?

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@NJChicaa (115913)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@amadeo Totally.

@jstory07 (134238)

• Roseburg, Oregon

4 Jan 18

That is exactly what you should do.

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@much2say (53904)

• Los Angeles, California

4 Jan 18

I don't do the "following" thing anymore . . . I just go as a I see. But if I get to know someone as a friend, no following list is necessary . . . I will be sure to drop by (eventually!).

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@much2say thank you

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (36392)

• Toccoa, Georgia

4 Jan 18

Maybe you should unfollow him if it bothers you.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@LeaPea2417 does not bother me.Nice to know why and accept it.

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@WorDazza (15833)

• Manchester, England

4 Jan 18

Maybe he's not purposely avoiding you. I know I can go a long time not interacting with some people without realising it.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@WorDazza yes your right there.Maybe being a bit foolish?

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@Poppylicious (11133)

•

5 Jan 18

I know that a lot more people follow me than I follow. I try to interact with people who leave comments on my posts, but I find there just aren't enough hours in my day to read everybody else's posts, even when I do follow them.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

yes.So do I

@Kandae11 (53678)

•

4 Jan 18

I take at least a month of reading the follower's posts before I decide whether to follow back - 80% of the time they are no longer seen here before I decide whether to follow or not. I try to be careful so as not to regret it afterwards.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@Kandase11 yes this make a lot of sense.Thank you

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Belle Starr (Iz)

@BelleStarr (61047)

• United States

4 Jan 18

I think we all have members who ignore us even when we read and comment on their posts after a while I just move on and find someone friendlier to interact with.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@BelleStarr yes a good idea there.

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@jstory07 (134238)

• Roseburg, Oregon

4 Jan 18

I do not care about the people I am following or if they follow me or not. I just go into the discussions of nice people like you when I see your discussion. Because you are a nice person and that is all that I care about..

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@jaboUK (64362)

• United Kingdom

5 Jan 18

It should be give and take here - if someone never comments on my posts after me doing so frequently theirs, I eventually stop responding to them. I have a few who when I see their name in the 'most recent' lists, or wherever, I just skip over them.

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

@jaboUK I should do this.

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@Marilynda1225 (79571)

• United States

4 Jan 18

I have people that I follow that don't follow back I don't take it personally and just figure they aren't the following kind of people.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@Marilynda1225 yes.This is more to that.

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@DianneN (246334)

• United States

4 Jan 18

I respond to those who stop by on my discussions. I really never look at my follower list. I'd just let it go.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (305417)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

5 Jan 18

There are a lot of people I don't follow. I hope it isn't personal.

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

@just4him no nothing personal.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

@just4him yes it is.Have a good afternoon.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (305417)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

5 Jan 18

@amadeo That's good.

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@Traceyjayne (1763)

• United Kingdom

5 Jan 18

it is sad ....but please don't worry about it ....new year and new friends to meet ....

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

@Traceyjayne that is for sure.Thank you

@kavinitu (5535)

• India

4 Jan 18

Let go off it, why brother if they don't care about you.

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@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@kavinitu I have to let it go.Start the New Year's on the right foot.

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@snowy22315 (169575)

• United States

5 Jan 18

I don't follow everybody I talk to on here..I do often comment on their posts though..if someone comments on mine, I try my best to comment on theirs.

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

5 Jan 18

@snowy22315 yes good idea

@Madshadi (8849)

• Brussels, Belgium

4 Jan 18

I wouldn’t give this matter much attention. It’s not worth it in my opinion

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@Madshadi your right.Should not let it bother me.

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@Tampa_girl7 (48886)

• United States

6 Jan 18

Only follow those who make you happy

Linda Cann Pearson

@LindaCPearson (2241)

• United States

5 Jan 18

I don't have enough followers to really notice but I don't think that everyone follows everyone who follows them. I hope it isn't that a person doesn't want to follow you for personal or strict religious or bigotted reasons.

@teamfreak16 (43421)

• Denver, Colorado

21 Jan 18

I wouldn't worry too much about it. I follow a few people that don't follow me, and many people that do follow me never seem to read my stuff. It doesn't bother me.

@thelme55 (76477)

• Germany

4 Jan 18

I have stopped following mylotters. When a person comment to my discussion, I will interact with him or her.

@amadeo (111948)

• United States

4 Jan 18

@thelme55 yes a good idea

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