Close to giving up but what would that accomplish?

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So, today my mom was sending weird messages. They probably wouldn't seem weird to other people but if you read one of my previous posts, you would know that my mom left and married a guy that hates me and has since had very little to do with me, as her husband hates my guts. Anyways, she sent me a text today asking if I was okay and asked if I was working tonight. I'm always working on saturdays. They are my one night shift a week. Then I asked her why she was sending me weird questions and she replied that she's thinking about going to see a counselor because she has no one that can be objective about the things she needs to talk about. She says she can't talk to me about her husband because I'm never on his side. Um, I thought being her child meant that I was always on her side even if she was in the wrong. (she hasn't been. she just married a guy that acts like a child.) Then she said that she knows she did all of us wrong by leaving and getting married so soon after leaving. I told her there is still time to change how strained things are between us. We've been reaching out to both of them, her and her husband, about getting together and doing stuff but he refuses. Mostly because I'm involved so I told her that I will step away. If he is okay coming to visit my sister and her kids then I will remove myself from the picture to make it easier for everyone. She tells me that would make it worse. So, now what do I do? Do I give up and say whatever happens, happens? I'm just so tired of being the one to try and be the better person. My life is the same as it's been since before she moved out except that I dont see her as often as I did when she lived with me. Anyways, thank you for letting me vent lol. And thank you in advance to anyone that comments on this post.