Are you OPEN to be a ‘GHOST BRIDE'?

@Shavkat (137189)
Philippines
January 9, 2018 9:43pm CST
There are so many cultures that it wasn’t untold in public or in society. Some people might find it strange or weird. In a Chinese culture, there is so-called ‘ghost bride.’ I was watching a video blog about this practice. As claimed, if a couple has a son died and unmarried. They will try to find a bride to be married to him despite being dead. This ‘ghost bride’ will be devoted to her dead husband and the family of her dead husband will provide wealth. It sounds unbelievable but such a practice still exists up to this date. Do you think it is a practical way to have wealth in exchange for being a ‘ghost bride’? Have you heard about this kind of practice? Image Credit: pixabay.com
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@rebelann (111073)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jan 18
I have heard about it but I do not know anything about it. Would you want to be a ghost bride?
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I think I am exempted from this practice. The reason, there is no 'ghost husband.' If I am a woman, I will not do it. I would rather be free and live to the fullest.
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10 Jan 18
@Shavkat What Exactly Ghost Bride means. IN BRIEF I am an Indian struggling to understand it.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
@SohanESS I am sorry. I can't translate into the Hindi language. You can try to check this link
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Jump to: navigation, search This article is about the Chinese practice of marriage among deceased individuals. For this practice in other cultures, see Ghost marriage (disambiguation). Part of a series on the Anthropol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 18
It would be okay if there is no horror will happen. Lol. But who wants to not have wealth?
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I think it is fine. The downside, you will never get married and be an old maid for the rest of her life.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
@JustBhem Yes, my dear friend. She will never have a love life for a lifetime. It was like a nun in a convent.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 18
@Shavkat Oh, really? Is that how it works?
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@vandana7 (98711)
• India
10 Jan 18
I thought nuns were supposed to be wedded to Christ. Isn't that similar?
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@vandana7 (98711)
• India
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat I do not agree that they sinned any more than us, if we denied them the liberty to go their way. Everybody, including me, sometimes feels the need to be helpful, and other times no such need. The institution should welcome me when I am in that mode rather than make it a permanent garb.
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@vandana7 (98711)
• India
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat Practices would be different ..invariably.lol. They have traveled from one place to another with other factors. lol. I am not ok with nuns being committed to Christ, and we saddling them with responsibilities. They can be given the task of organizing help, not giving help. Everybody needs to help themselves and if possible help others. That said, I have spoken to somebody who was ordained, and she sounded extremely calm to me as if she was ok with it. I am ok if they are ok. If they are not ok with it, we should not force them to remain in that wedlock / commitment for life because of our expectations. Feelings change.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@vandana7 I do agree that feelings can be changed. There are some priests didn't remain faithful to God after being ordained. At some point, they had committed a sin and violated their vows to God.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
10 Jan 18
Is that the same with the movie of Kim chui, right?. So it's a real culture of chinese, very interesting to watch and know how it works. I'll give you an answer to your question if I am willing or not after I watch the movie. haha
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat Yeah.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
I haven't watched the movie of Kim Chiu. I think the film is quite not the same because it was being created in a horror genre.
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@rheicel (7068)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I haven't seen the movie with Kim Chiu but she said it's true there were some Chinese did this way back for the favor of good fortune of the bride.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I had seen Kim Chui's film trailer. It seems there are some twists of the real story of a 'ghost bride.' But then, it appeared to a horror-type genre.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@rheicel I hope I can watch it. Regardless, it is nice that I had known such practice though.
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@rheicel (7068)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat Yes, it's a horror movie shown in November for Halloween.
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@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
I'm guessing you already watched the movie of Kim Chiu? hahaha! I haven't seen that movie. Only the trailer.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@JSAph8888 I am so excited to watch it. I am fond to the horror genre. I am so ready to twist my mind with Kim Chiu's horror movie.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
I haven't watched it. But I got an idea from her TV interview. The film was transformed into a twist of the horror genre. But then, I had checked some facts about it and it does exist in isolated cases. Moreover, I would love to check the movie once released on youtube.
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• Philippines
11 Jan 18
@Shavkat Hahaha! That's why I still don't have the courage to watch it because the trailer has a creepy scenes. And I don't want to watch any creepy or horror movie as it might appear in my dreams. You said that it has a twist of horror genre so, I am not going to watch it. Hahaha
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
2 Sep 18
I guess I watch ine lical movie about it. There were of course other things added to the story to make it more interesting. It also depicts how the wedding vows to be broken by consulting to monks in nepal who perform a ritual to break the wedding curse.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
2 Sep 18
I do think that films need to put some scenes to make it more appealing. Honestly, I find it weird with such practices.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
2 Sep 18
@AmbiePam (85273)
• United States
10 Jan 18
Quite frankly, it sounds insane.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I do agree with you. It is insane to embrace such practice.
@Aquitaine24 (11651)
• San Jose, California
2 Sep 18
Ihave heard of this.I can't remember the tv show,maybe CSI ,had an episode where a woman was forced to be a ghost bride.I think she was killed in the episode--can't remember for sure.
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
10 Jan 18
I think if you are a woman who had no hope of a living husband this might be fine but obviously, you won't have any children.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
I agree. You have a point. If a woman doesn't have the desire to get married and wanted to embrace the singlehood, then it is fine for her to be involved in such situation. That is, a 'ghost bride' and follow the norms of being like it.
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@WriterAI (5373)
• Bulgaria
10 Apr 18
I hear about this practice for first time. I have never heard about this practice until your post. So thank you for sharing. I agree that it could be a practical way to have wealth in exchange for being a 'ghost bride' but it is disturbing. The 'ghost bride' might wish to have her real life with a real man and it's preferable.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Apr 18
That's a good point. It seems strange to be involved in such practice. But then, we can't blame some young women who take the chance of being a ghost bride.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Apr 18
@WriterAI I do agree with you. We really cannot deny the fact that marginalized people that exist.
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@WriterAI (5373)
• Bulgaria
11 Apr 18
@Shavkat Probably they have no other money choice and money option for their life.
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@peachpurple (13880)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 18
This custom was practiced in ancient China days but not 8n modern era
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
I heard it is during the ancient times. However, some Chinese people who are elite still do practice it.
@Shivram59 (31659)
• India
10 Jan 18
@Shavkat Really?? This is the first time I have heard about this tradition.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
It sounds strange. Some Chinese people still practice this.
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
10 Jan 18
@Shivram59 I was also trying to find the origin of this practice. You can try to check this link
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Jump to: navigation, search This article is about the Chinese practice of marriage among deceased individuals. For this practice in other cultures, see Ghost marriage (disambiguation). Part of a series on the Anthropol
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@Shivram59 (31659)
• India
10 Jan 18
@Shavkat Okay.It's really strange.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Jan 18
Never heard about this kind of practice
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
11 Jan 18
It sounds weird, right? I also had the same feeling when knowing such fact.
@db20747 (43425)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
20 Mar 18
No, the woman will be alone!! Unless she needs wealth, she may do this for a while then she will eventually get married!!