Why Loyalty Unreliable?
By Dodo Azo
January 10, 2018 12:23am CST
It's a general knowledge that finding faults is easy. Why? I am a friendly person. I have so many friends. We are closed and intimate. Unexpectedly they're critical and find fault in me. And they started to keep a distance from me. I don't understand why. Our best of time, our happy camaraderie, and everything that makes our friendship binding and strong in an instant falls apart. Are they not loyal? Are they taking advantage of our friendship for the sake of their personal business agenda or whatever?
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Those are not real friends, they are being friendly to you so that they could get what they want. They don't get what they want, they make your life miserable by making false rumors and sorts. Mom has told me this once, you can be friendly and lovely but you can never trust them with your problems or secrets. Rare gems are hard to find specially in this time. People change from time to time. They say bull crap things about you so they can cover their own faults! and make you LOOK BAD instead.
@Hannihar Circumstances. Job, financial issues. Would you like to take from your friends if you were financially not well off? I would not. I prefer financial institutions. In so far as friends are concerned, I would not put them to that test. I would fear that if they refuse I might hurt, or if they strain too much for me, I will hate me. My attitude. That is why I virtually broke away with all my friends when I was facing financial problems.
We all need friends but finding a genuine and true friend is really hard as you cannot judge the genuineness of a person by face. But, according to me a real friend is tested in bad times. If they leave you then, they were never your friends. Moreover, friends are there to accept you the way you are not to customise you how they want you to be or just leave you. As they say," A friend in need is a friend indeed."
@JSAph8888 What an ideal profile statement! That is good. Are others could follow it too? I have been trying to do it. It makes me so much time to realize that. I know time heals. There is a saying to that effect. It says forgive them but don't forget their faces.