Why do you think people slam doors or have to make so much noise?

I know exactly what you're saying. I'm trying to get used to shutting our car doors a bit more gently but it's so easy to forget.

Rhonda, you forget that you do it but this guy does it on purpose and then people wonder why they cannot close their doors. I try to close mine quietly. I am far from perfect but on our Sabbath I would like peace and quiet and that guy above us goes to town. He has no respect.

@Hannihar I don't blame you, I hate to hear apartment doors slam, maybe you could talk to the landlord.

I have talked to the guy. He just does not care. He also lies. He told his wife that he helps me all the time. Once when I was one step away from my apartment he came running up and asked if he could help. I waved him away. He is good at causing me trouble though. He had lots of people over and the next day I started to go down the steps with my grocery cart and fell down the steps. After I fell he cleaned the steps. I thought someone put cucumber on the step and saw some in the corner below.

@Hannihar Ugh. Who needs neighbours like that? He doesn't sound a nice man at all.

@JudyEv The apartment above seems to be rented by creapy people now. The one across from us had crummy couple before and the ones that live there now I do not like either.

@Hannihar The thing is they are not going to change this habit soon.Actually they do not want to change.

@silvermist You are right Phoenix and nothing I can do.

I would say that is true about the guy or boy I call him across the way Phoenix.

@Hannihar Sometimes we just have to put up with certain things, no matter where we live.

@DianneN So true Dianne. I like where I live and the surrounding area and have a good place for my scooter and things I wanted here so I put up with it.

You are lucky Dianne. I found that there are good people and bad people everywhere so does not matter where we live. I happen to have here what I love so I put up with it.

Some people in the building have said their doors do not close good so have to slam them.

@Hannihar yes, but it is sometimes impolite to slam a door right in front of somebody whom you have just communicated with.

@ridingbet One time I was at my door and cannot remember if opening or closing and the lady across the way was going in her apartment so I waited to see if she would slam the door like her husband does.

Thanks CountryGirl. I talked to the boy across the way and he let it slip that he slammed the door before he had his daughter but he still does it. I made a noise here to show him what it is like and he went out and slammed it again. I just pray that they will move and we will finally get decent neighbors. The ones before them were not any better.

@CountryGirl31 CountryGirl, people are too much. It so sad they do not see they are in the wrong and play like they are the victim. How sad people can be. I learned that there is no perfect neighbor or perfect world. I wish you luck.

@Hannihar For your sake, I hope they move too. Decent neighbors are hard to come by. Right now I'm in the middle of two a$$holes. One side, they like to throw things over the fence like inflatable balloons and other things. Then demand that we throw them back over. When asked why they didnt just come and get them or better yet stop throwing them in my yard, they replied because they could do what they wanted. So I threw their stuff back to them but not before I popped them. After the 3rd popped ball, they stopped throwing the stuff over the fence. Now on my other side, they are very anal about their white fence. It's a white plastic fence that they actually put on my property. When asked about that, they said they needed the extra 2 inches for their lawnmower to fit between the house and their fence so I figured no big deal, what's two inches. Well then I mowed my yard, had just finished and they came storming out of their house. Screaming at me that I had gotten grass all over there white fence. Said they were going to call the town on me if I didn't clean it off and never do it again. I said go ahead and call the town. When they get here, we can discuss you taking the fence down and moving it since it's on my property by 2 inches. Haven't heard a peep out of them since and they mow both sides of the fence so no grass gets on it. The way I deal with my neighbors though is probably not how everyone should deal with theirs lol.

Thank you scarlet and I agree with you.

Very well put Cahaya.

I believe now since I have spoken to him it is did on purpose and you are probably right out of anger Cheyenne.

That could be but if you had to live below someone that scraped furniture all day when he is there you would not love it either. I want a quieter life but I believe there is not such a thing M. Shafeeq

@Mshafeeq I have acted like them but do not want to be like them. I try to close my door so it does not make noise. Do not know whether the person before me slammed the door or not but I do not do that.

@Hannihar yes I would rather be angry upon them who slam the door all the time. I too don't like noises which disturbs me.