Cutting ties

@ricki_911 (19567)
Toronto, Ontario
January 14, 2018 1:40pm CST
A girl i was thought of being friends since young kids i have cut ties. She thinks her parents owe her something. She is the only child , doesnt drive and doesnt support herself. I bumped ibto her dad who said they are selling their family farm so her and her boyfriend can buy a house. I literally stood there staring at him. I go really because i spent alnost 10 years savings got a doenpayment for a house and my parents wont give me a penny. The fact she uses her parents like this. Sad but we are different part in life. I earn what i have and struggle to do it. But i can say i earned it and i want people in my life who do the same.
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5 responses
@shaggin (37100)
• United States
14 Jan
It sounds like she needs to grow up and learn to take care of herself. That is so kind of her parents to do that for her but I could never allow my parents to do that.
@ricki_911 (19567)
• Toronto, Ontario
14 Jan
Iam the same way. I vouldnt imagine my parents giving up everything for me to buy a house with my boyfriend.
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@Corbin5 (109318)
• United States
14 Jan
There are many who have parents who give them quite a bit regarding houses, cars, and other things. Not sure how much they appreciate all that help, but I hope they do.
@ricki_911 (19567)
• Toronto, Ontario
14 Jan
I couldn't imagine being like that. Especially expecting ny parents to sell their land for the kid. I could see if she actually saved but she has saved nothing. She doesnt even buy groxeries.
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@MALUSE (41182)
• Germany
14 Jan
It's obviously the parents' fault that the woman is like this.
@ricki_911 (19567)
• Toronto, Ontario
14 Jan
In the end yes it is. They kept giving it to her. She blames them because she only has grade 9 education. Onky so muchbypu can blame on your parents.
@jstory07 (68177)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jan
The parents are stupid to do that for her. What is she going to do someday if the parents can not help her in the future. You should be proud that you have made it on your own it makes you a better person.
@ricki_911 (19567)
• Toronto, Ontario
14 Jan
Her parents are in major debt to top it because of her. She is 29 and they drive her to work or make sure she does stuff. Its sad really but selling several acres to buy her a house wmand she is in no way to help them.
@NJChicaa (42181)
• United States
14 Jan
Good for you both for what you have achieved in your life and for dropping that loser. Some people just can’t get up off of their a$$es to go do something with their lives. Maybe they aren’t smart enough to do it. Who knows.