Be Spontaneous!
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
West Haven, Connecticut
January 18, 2018 12:06pm CST
A simple advice to all my loving and careing men, BE SPONTANEOUS!
Dont wait for it to be Valentines day to by your woman or loved ones flowers or take them out to eat somewhere. I know money is tight nowadays but sometimes you can surprise someone even with a simple phone call to let them know how much you care for them etc.
Never let the fire die out and always try to catch your loved ones by surprise with random acts of kindness that come from the heart!
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Jan 18
Thats great, that means he truely loves you and values you Dianne!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Jan 18
This is so true. I really dislike it when people do things monotonously. I love the randomness of things. I like being spontaneous. I like being surprised and I do the same.
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
Yup! It means more when you catch them off guard and make their day etc
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
18 Jan 18
Aww so sweet! 
Very true shouldn’t be a “Holiday” to show careness kind or love.
Very true shouldn’t be a “Holiday” to show careness kind or love.2 people like this
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Jan 18
Thanks, I agree Valentines day doesnt have any value with me, everyday should be valetines day lol
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
19 Jan 18
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Yep most definitely. :) Valentines day is too much hype!
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
@infatuatedbby Its just another way to make money and support consumerism lol
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Well said, my husband invited me to eat out yesterday.@LadyDuck (457809)
• Switzerland
19 Jan 18
@BACONSTRIPSXXX You are right, not having to cook and to clean the table after eating is the best
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
Nice! Those are always the best because food makes everyone happy lol
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
@LadyDuck That too lol
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
19 Jan 18
I agree, it's nice for men to do all those things, and more, on any day not just Valentine's. But, as a female, and someone whos a romantic.. I love Valentine's. Lol
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
I get it, I still buy my wife flowers on V day and take her out to eat etc
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jan 18
That's what I think. Those flowers or dinner or whatever mean a whole lot more out of the blue than on Valentine's Day which like an obligation.
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Jan 18
Yup, Even a simple hey lets take a walk can be refreshing etc
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@shaggin (71663)
• United States
19 Jan 18
I love little acts like that from my boyfriend and friends and family. It doesn't happy often but I really appreciate it when they do. I don't like people spending money on my but there are other ways like you said. A sweet text etc. My man's bring pizza tonight so I will be baking cookies 
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
22 Jan 18
Nice! Sounds like a good night, My wife does that too il order fast food and she will go out her way to get me ice cream or brownies for desert
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! Even the simplest of surprises keep that spark alive. A holiday is a day that everyone shares, but an any day surprise is a special moment they can call their very own.@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Jan 18
Very true it also makes your act of kindness more meaningful
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
19 Jan 18
very well put, i been doing it for 50 years and she still puts up with iti
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
22 Jan 18
Jejejejej Good to hear Bobby! Hope all is well
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
26 Jan 18
My mother is my best friend. What should I give her for Valentine's Day?
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
26 Jan 18
I would take her out to eat just the two of you alone and hold her hand while you tell her how much you appreciate and love her... Il be doing the same lol Im taking my mom out for Sushi and il probably fill her gas tank up to cheer her up, she loves it when I do that for her
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
26 Jan 18
@Spontaneo That sounds epic too, They do that?
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
26 Jan 18
@BACONSTRIPSXXX I thought maybe I would buy my mother a heart-shaped pizza?
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@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
21 Jan 18
Very good advice. Women love this kind of thing.
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