Selfish drivers get my goat!

@Fleura (29120)
United Kingdom
January 23, 2018 5:27am CST
And by selfish drivers I mean all those who drive too fast for the conditions, drive too close together, don’t pay enough attention, behave aggressively, and also don’t bother to check their vehicles (tyres, brakes, oil etc.) enough or at all. These days this seems to include just about everybody! It is so true that familiarity breeds contempt. If a person is doing their very first parachute jump, for example, you can bet they will run over their training in their head again and again, check all the safety features, make sure the conditions are just right, check their equipment, make sure they don’t get tangled with anyone else – but if they get in a car every morning it is so ordinary that they do none of these things, even though it is more dangerous to them and other people. This morning there have been several accidents on the main roads around here, but in my opinion most of those were probably not genuine ’accidents’ at all but were more than likely avoidable if the drivers had been paying proper attention to the conditions. Walking Little One to school we could hardly get out of our entrance due to the constant stream of cars coming up the narrow lane, as there is no room for a pedestrian to pass, and they were all trying to cut through to escape the nose-to-tail queue of traffic on the village road, and that was caused by people trying to avoid the jams on the main roads. Now if selfish people drive badly and get themselves injured or killed, that’s just too bad. Of course it’s a shame for the families, especially if they have children. But bad drivers risk not only their own lives but obviously those of others too. But what I’m really talking about today is not just the obvious impact of injuries to other innocent road-users, but all the other knock-on effects. The endless tailbacks, the blocked roads, the hours of delays experienced by hundreds of people, the missed appointments, the delayed emergency vehicles, the hours spent working late to make up lost time, the rearrangements to childcare when parents can’t get to school pick-up in time, the tired and hungry children stuck for several hours in the middle of the night, the huge spike in air pollution caused by all those vehicles inching along at walking pace – yes even the impact on global warming of all those unnecessarily extended journeys! All of this can be caused just because one person wanted to get to their destination a bit faster. Maybe one day this sort of behaviour will be as socially unacceptable as drink-driving has now become. Or maybe self-driving cars will simply force their ‘drivers’ to stay within certain limits. All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2018.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
23 Jan 18
Ooooh, don't get me started! In the last few of weeks the motorway near me has been closed twice due to 'accidents'. The knock on effect can be felt all over Manchester when something like this happens. I'm a firm believer in not only bringing criminal charges against whoever can be found to be at fault but having them compensate every person stuck in the jams. If you can prove you were in the jam (not difficult these days with cameras on phones) you should be entitled to receive your usual hourly rate of pay for the time you're stuck.
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@Fleura (29120)
• United Kingdom
23 Jan 18
That would really be a great deterrent! I also think a simple change in terminology would help. We should stop referring to these situations as 'accidents' at all, as though they are something we have no control over. The reporters should just say 'Some stupid people have crashed their cars and caused a massive hold-up'.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
23 Jan 18
@Fleura Well, indeed! I'm surprised some enterprising ambulance chaser hasn't already thought of any of this. After all, when it comes to 'accidents' at work or in the street there's always somebody to blame according to them!!
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@xFiacre (12595)
• Ireland
23 Jan 18
@fleura Now that was a very long speech, but one that needed to be made and with which I wholeheartedly concur.
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@xFiacre (12595)
• Ireland
23 Jan 18
@Fleura Lost cause I’m afraid.
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@Fleura (29120)
• United Kingdom
23 Jan 18
Why thank you! I just wish we could get our point across to many more people.
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@TheHorse (205637)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Mar 18
Tailgaters and those who make an effort not to let others merge bother me.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
23 Jan 18
people in southern california freeways drive the same during pouring rain as if they were still on dry road. ive seen cars just hydro plane off the road.
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@Fleura (29120)
• United Kingdom
23 Jan 18
I've never seen anyone do that yet; I wonder if their driving improves afterwards?
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@Hannihar (129418)
• Israel
25 Jan 18
It should be socially unacceptable now. I am so tired of those going on the road not caring who they take with them.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
24 Jan 18
My, what a comprehensive assessment of society and interpersonal dependency. Very nicely put. And that's my argument for leaving the city and going back to the rural area to live. I hate traffic jams and I hate the hustle and always being late and key-up with expectant 'when will I get through?" syndrome. I don't know how you do it.
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@Fleura (29120)
• United Kingdom
24 Jan 18
I'm lucky, I have never had a job where I have to be there on the dot. And nowadays I work from home anyway. Of course I still have times when I have to get places by particular times but at least it isn't every day.
• Philippines
23 Jan 18
Some people just can't handle the pressure on the streets. They keep inclining about their right of way.
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@LadyDuck (457973)
• Switzerland
23 Jan 18
I see more and more bad drivers, they use their phones while they drive, they drive too close to the car in front of them and then there are accidents. Our main highway is all the time crowded, this causes a lot of pollution for those who live close to it.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
25 Jan 18
One day soon there will be too many cars on the road anyway. I wonder what the government has in plan for that day.
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@JudyEv (325654)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jan 18
I hate those that tailgate and do so even at high speeds. They are so dangerous.
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