I said I love you even if you are fat!!

@sjvg1976 (18381)
Delhi, India
January 28, 2018 8:12am CST
My wife has become overweight from last 4-5 years. People used to say it on her face but she never cared of it. But recently yesterday she realised it I don't know what made her realised . She told me she going to join a gym. I said what's the need of joining it . She said she wants to reduce her weight now. I told don't need to over think I love her and will love her when she puts on even more weight then she has now. In my opinion I love people for their behaviour not for their physique. What about you ? Do you give importance to the physique or not?
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@LadyDuck (151556)
• Switzerland
28 Jan
No I do not give too much importance to people physique, but losing weight is better to stay healthy.
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Right Anna it's not good to be overweight as it causes many other diseases.
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@LadyDuck (151556)
• Switzerland
28 Jan
@sjvg1976 This is the problem, it's not only a matter of aesthetic.
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
@LadyDuck I need to explain it. May be then she will go to gym with her mind set up that she is doing for her health . Hope then she will go to gym regularly .
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@andriaperry (48349)
• United States
28 Jan
Love is beyond appearance. But being overweight is not good for the body, the heart, so let her go and reduce her weight.
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
I know my wife. She gives more importance for appearance so she wants to reduce her weight to get good appearance not for health concern
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28 Jan
@sjvg1976 It may be good to just let her do what she wants. If it helps her feel good about herself that's a positive thing.
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• Germany
28 Jan
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@weevee18 (526)
28 Jan
For me looks wouldn't really matter as long as I love the person so much
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Absolutely..Even I too.
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@nomus24g (22093)
• India
28 Jan
WOW....that's called Truly-Deeply-Madly in love...
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Yes I am.
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@nomus24g (22093)
• India
28 Jan
@sjvg1976 that should be the motto :)
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
@nomus24g rightly said Tintinfan
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• Trinidad And Tobago
28 Jan
When there is affection and friendship in the relation, love do not see physical failings. Fat people are jolly people.
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
That's rightly said
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@Susan2015 (20385)
• United States
28 Jan
No to me, you either love someone or you don't. Looks fade.
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Physique matters but not much when you live a person.
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@m_audrey6788 (13813)
• Germany
28 Jan
Wow! You`re a sweet husband but woman needs to make a healthy diet because of health reasons I get sick most of the time if I`m over weight
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Hmm..It's essential to shed extra weight as it brings lots of other diseases with it.
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• Germany
28 Jan
@sjvg1976 Yes but it should be done in a healthy way
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
@m_audrey6788 she is yet to join a gym but she has started few exercises at home . She does them for 15 mins or so.
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@mohit459 (11778)
• Haldwani, India
28 Jan
Not for me loyalty matters and person whom I can trust nothing else
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@sjvg1976 (18381)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan
Right Mohit it's all faith which keeps the relationship good.
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@mohit459 (11778)
• Haldwani, India
29 Jan
@sjvg1976 yep.... Good morning!..
@JudyEv (121015)
• Bunbury, Australia
29 Jan
A person's appearance shouldn't matter if you really love them but it is healthier to not be too fat. I think too that people often feel better about themselves and have more confidence if they feel they look good - or at least if they don't look too fat.
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@GardenGerty (97870)
• United States
29 Jan
Lifestyle changes help you be healthy, but a gym is not necessarily required, unless it makes her feel good. She has to love herself.
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@LeaPea2417 (19750)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Jan
That is sweet that you love her the way she is.
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@FayeHazel (17093)
• United States
29 Jan
Bless you for attitude. Yes. People's behaviors and personality is what is worth loving, physique is only a shell. Unfortunately many people feel differently
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@thelme55 (14309)
• Germany
28 Jan
That is good of you to love her the way she is. losing weight is good if it is good for your health.
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@lovebuglena (5800)
• Staten Island, New York
28 Jan
Being overweight may not be healthy. Of course it depends on how much overweight a person is. Not everyone has to have a stick figure or one of a super model. People should embrace who they are. I had a food belly and sometimes, depending on what I wore, people would ask me if I was pregnant. Some, didn't even ask but just said congratulations! Seriously?
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@allknowing (62977)
• India
28 Jan
She is doing it for her own sake but knows you love her all the same.
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@mandala100 (39040)
• Hong Kong
28 Jan
@sjvg1976 Physical appearance is not skin deep my friend and its all passing.
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• Preston, England
28 Jan
I never judge anyone by their natural appearance
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@Corbin5 (102611)
• United States
28 Jan
A person's physique is of little importance to me.
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@marlina (72523)
• Canada
28 Jan
It would be better for her to go down to a healthy weight.
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@Plethos (10246)
• United States
28 Jan
No. Im a little overweight myself.
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