Someone Else
By Babes Says
@BabeSays (8576)
Mauritius
January 29, 2018 4:16am CST
I live with my in laws. But my hubby is the only one I get to talk to. No complaining but sometimes it feels bad to stay at home all day. My hubby like to stay at home. He doesn't like going out much.
I get frustrated sometimes staying home having no one to talk to. No social life. My hubby is the only one I can chat with.
Sometimes I want I feel like I want to speak to someone else other than him. I want to discuss and hear other topics. Not same thing all day. How's work? How did it go? How was your day?
Whenever it happens I feel like crying. I feel desperate. Sometimes I feel like I'll go crazy seeing same house same view same everything again. I talk to my hubby about it and there's nothing he can do. I am not well he cannot let me go anywhere alone and when he is free he is tired and needs to rest.
I really don't know how to deal with this.
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15 responses
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
29 Jan 18
ohh thats sad , hope your husband understands
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
29 Jan 18
It is hard to be alone among the crowd. It is harder to live within boundaries. If there is health issues then try to cure it so that you will get freedom to go out. Try to engross with some hobbies or works you like to be. Mylot is a better place to spend your time and interact with people.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
We talked about it so many times and it went bad. He can't allow me going anywhere alone and I have no one I could go with.
He is exhausted from work and he likes to stay home during weekend. If I ask him to go out, he make that grumpy face and I eventually drop the idea of going out.
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@CuriousFellow (588)
• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
I think you need a friend. Then you go out but look for people you can trust. Nowaday you cannot trust any people.
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 18
Do you have a tv in your room? You can find some entertainment at your own room, maybe?
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 18
@BabeSays I hope you can get a house to live with your husband, maybe renting a house? my brother do this.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
2 Feb 18
@wongchoiyee Renting a house isn't our solution. The money goes in waste. Better use that money to buy a land and build our house
@allknowing (130066)
• India
30 Jan 18
I suppose you can pick a topic that you and your in laws like. I am sure you will find one. Try.
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@1creekgirl (40516)
• United States
29 Jan 18
Why can't you talk with your inlaws? Everyone needs contact with other humans. Is there a place you could walk to with other people around?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Jan 18
Why can't you make friends with neighbors?
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@Gita17112016 (3611)
• Trinidad And Tobago
29 Jan 18
I think you are already doing it. You are on myLot and you can meet different people here. For changing the scene try taking some walks if that is possible. Why can;t you talk to the in-laws? Or why can you get a job?
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
I have health issues and cannot work. In law are old people whom you cannot talk with.
@dgobucks226 (34348)
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30 Jan 18
Perhaps you could find a hobby to pass the time. Sorry for your situation.
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@Retnam (61)
• India
5 Feb 18
Sorry to read this. But please dont feel dear friend. Am also like you. My husband tortured from the third day of our marriage. And now am living with my mom. Feeling like no one cares. But being with mom and busy doing any works , reading books and being online makes me take life easy. Also am thanking god for giving atleast some one for us. Many people even babies are left alone and they have no one to care and nothing to eat. Am not hurting you , just said how cruel the world is. Please try to make yourself happy dear... Take care God with you always
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
30 Jan 18
I also live with my in-laws. I can't wait for the day when we finally move in to our new house. For now, it's still being built - slowwwly. Not that my in-laws are horrible people but you do need your space. It's also partly because of the language barrier. They speak Chinese. I don't.
You said you're unwell? Is that stopping you from maybe taking a 20 to 30 minute stroll outside just to breathe some fresh air and clear your head? Maybe develop a hobby?
