Dealing With Hurt

Havre De Grace, Maryland
January 29, 2018 5:22am CST
Last night I talk to someone that must have had emotional issues because she was totally upset over a break up with some dude to the point of shes planning on how to ruin this dudes life. I guess everyone handles things differently but you dont let hard times make your life unbearable to the point you say i cant live without this person or do i want to live without this person. Sometime I wander why people get this way my way of thinking people come and go you have to deal with it no matter what.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
Sadly maybe that person was the only one she had that meant a lot to her. But by doing that act it will only bring harm to her. She needs to move on.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
29 Jan 18
she thinks she will never find anyone else thats why she acting this way
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
30 Jan 18
@William21001 Well, She has to believe in herself. Hurting others isn't the right decision.
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• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
Yes moving on is best option
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
29 Jan 18
Yes that is absolutely right. You cannot control nor ruin other people's life just because that person have caused you so much pain. We are just humans, we don't have the right to put all things on our hands. And saying that we cannot live without the other person is a big no no, people should be strong enough to stand in their own, because no one will help you and love you more but yourself, and that's the lousy truth.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
29 Jan 18
This person would be better off dealing with the situation right away and continue her life without that guy.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
29 Jan 18
you are right i told her to move on many times
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
30 Jan 18
@marlina your right
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
30 Jan 18
As the saying goes, "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned." All that anger and bitterness is normal but it's not an excuse to do something rash and irrational. I had an 8 year relationship that came to a full stop because I found out that he was cheating on me. It was our first year apart. We were in two different countries at that time. Worse, he got her pregnant. At the time, believe me I wanted to do the same thing - ruin his life - but I taught myself to forgive anyway. I've moved on.
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
31 Jan 18
@William21001 He got back to me after 3 long years of silence, said sorry. I said I have forgiven him but wouldn't want to have anything to do with him anymore. I found out from his sister that he must have messaged me because the girl he cheated with, left him for another man. So it was only right that I asked him to leave me alone.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
31 Jan 18
@Theresaaiza he came back because karma bit him
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
30 Jan 18
that the best way move on hurting someone else makes u as bad as him
@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
29 Jan 18
See it is difficult to handle but not impossible. Yes it also feels bad if someone does that. But think and take action after analyzing .
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
29 Jan 18
your right when the time is right you will realize your making dumb decisions
• Mauritius
29 Jan 18
I also face this but i move on and good wife.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
29 Jan 18
this is good your life is good know