Worried about this.

@JustBhem (70601)
Davao, Philippines
January 30, 2018 1:38am CST
I was bombarded by the fact that for this month's bill, for sure I will be the one to shoulder it again. No one in the Family circle gave me any amount to at least lessen my responsibility. But I wanted to cry. My sister in law gave me 700 pesos as their share for the electricity bill and still, it's not enough. We should pay half of the bill. But since they have issues with their financial, as ever the bad one which is me will have to shoulder the amount. And I still want to cry. I have all the bills right in front of me. Anyway, I hope you will have a good one.
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@Sreekala (34314)
• India
30 Jan 18
It is really hard to meet the expenses with the income these days.
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@Sreekala (34314)
• India
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem Without work it is not possible to meet up the bills. I do hope the family members, who are earning, may understand your situation.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@Sreekala My two Brothers doesn't have a stable job, they can only have a job if there is a need to travel with my 3rd Brother to canvass pig in the province.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, it would be good if I have income but nope, I don't have work. So that would be pretty awesome for me.
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@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
How much is your total electric bill?
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
A total of 1,800. We are two households, my 2nd Brother lives on the other side of our house and they connect with us. Before we agreed to pay half of the bill every month, but when 2nd Brother loses his food business and has trouble with financial. They can only give us 500 or 700 and that's not right. So I will be the one paying most of the bill. I understand them and I cannot do anything about it. But sometimes I end up the bad guy.
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@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem what a terrible situation to be in plus the medical expenses
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@louievill Well, I guess I was born unlucky.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
I'm so sorry you have that burden. But those who carry all the burdens. Life is never easy but be strong and hold on to what's left.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem Do it for yourself. Someday, everything will be ok.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Thank you, Miss Toni, for this encouraging words. I will hold on to what's left of me, love for my Family.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@toniganzon Thanks, Miss Toni.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
30 Jan 18
ohh too much expenses these days, its the same more bills than earning
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, a lot of bills than earning. It would be okay if I have work.
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@LadyDuck (453738)
• Switzerland
30 Jan 18
This is not correct, everyone has to pay for the bill.
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@LadyDuck (453738)
• Switzerland
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem I am sure they would not have an amnesia if they had to cash money.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
@LadyDuck Hopefully, they can add something.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yes, that's what we agreed to. But looks like they forgot about it like they are having amnesia or something.
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@aureliah (24340)
• Kenya
30 Jan 18
Sorry about all that. Maybe someday you can foot them without feeling a pinch
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@aureliah They should be, but they are troubled souls who only know about themselves.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
I don't know. I will take it as long as I can, but I know time will come.
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@aureliah (24340)
• Kenya
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem But they should do their best to assist you
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@shaggin (71564)
• United States
31 Jan 18
Do you all live together?
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@shaggin (71564)
• United States
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem wow and you have to pay for all those bills yet are so ill and cannot even pay for the surgery you need. They should be trying to help take care of you.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Feb 18
@shaggin Nah, they are a bunch of lazy people who don't want to get a regular job.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
Yes, I live with my pathetic and very irresponsible Mother, and 3 troubled Brothers and one nephew.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 18
It really gives me the cringe about having a relationship or marriage when ever bills comes to pass. Although our bills is a lot higher, I don't think I can afford it with out the help of our commercial business. Don't give up, keep on praying and look for other online business.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem You are still blessed compare to my Dad who's a lot older now.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Feb 18
@Letranknight2015 Yeah, somehow I am.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
Thanks for the encouraging words, my friend. I am very comfortable being here because I get to receive good responses and it's encouraging.
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@jstory07 (133459)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Jan 18
Everyone should pay their share of bills.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
They should be but they are not. And I get used to it already.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
30 Jan 18
Iv been their, all I can say is keep your head up and dont pick up on anybodys slack, we all have bills and things to pay. Sorry you feel suffocated like that
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• West Haven, Connecticut
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem Hopefully they are considerate as to how they use the light. Im always turning off light bulbs and fans in my apartment lol
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@BACONSTRIPSXXX No, they are very abusive when it comes to using electricity and water.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, I understand. I think I can handle this since I've been doing this every month. Thanks.
@ridingbet (66861)
• Philippines
31 Jan 18
you are too considerate and selfless that you are always 'abused' by your siblings, and it is a fact that you are sick. i hope you will be able to do well with your financial problem now.
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@ridingbet (66861)
• Philippines
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem does your SSS pension cover all your medicines and needs at home?
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@ridingbet Not all. I can only get medicines on Lingap and PCSO. My SSS pension is good for the bills here at home.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
I think about this if I will not do it, who will do it for me? Thank God I have my SSS pension, it falls every 4th of every Month. That's been helping me with the bills. The fundraising I have it's for my Operation mainly.
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@Courtlynn (67002)
• United States
30 Jan 18
You shouldnt have to pay all or even most of the bills. That makes me very mad
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@Courtlynn (67002)
• United States
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem thats not supposed to be on you.to figure out. You arent the head of household.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@Courtlynn My Mother is also sick, and I as the eldest is also sick. My 3 Brothers doesn't have any decent job or regular job. And I am thankful because I use to get my SSS pension every month. Which helps me in paying our bills every month.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, but If I'm not going to pay who will pay? I think I was born no lucky and it's sad
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@Hannihar (129022)
• Israel
30 Jan 18
I am very sorry that it is hard for you.
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@Hannihar (129022)
• Israel
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem Bhem, I understand when you have no choice.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@Hannihar I wish a have choice to just let it go.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
It is for me, but I don't have a choice.
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@JSAph8888 (949)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
Are you the one who pays all the bills ever since?
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, before I can only pay whenever I want. But I take full responsibility for it.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@JSAph8888 My share is very high compared to them and it sucks because that share will be a big help for me.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem Everyone has to pay for the bill. Why don't you give your share to them and let them pay the bills in the bank/payment center, etc. At least you've done your share. It's up to them when they will pay the bills. You know the consequences when you pay the bills past the due date.
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@KrauseHome (36449)
• United States
31 Jan 18
Oh how I can relate. It seems no matter how hard you try, it is just always never enough to go around, and so many never want to understand
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
Yes, they refuse to understand my situation. I am sick yet I am responsible for paying all the bills here, I mean most part.
@allknowing (130092)
• India
30 Jan 18
My mother always had problems with bills but we are spared as we are comfortable when it comes to finances.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
That's good to know. Unlike with us, no one likes to do their responsibility. I am the one who is sick here but I am responsible for all the bills here. I pay Internet, Electricity and Water bill.
@renicemae (4873)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
I feel you girl. I have that responsibility too and it's frustrating sometimes.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
Yeah, that's awful and I wanted to cry. But I cannot maybe because I've been doing this every month.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 18
@renicemae Yeah, I think I will do that.
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@renicemae (4873)
• Philippines
31 Jan 18
@JustBhem Let's just not look at it as a burden but an act of kindness..helping.
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@sw8sincere (5206)
• Philippines
30 Jan 18
I feel sorry for you Bhem. I wish they get to realize that it is you who needed the money the most so they shouldn't atleast let it shouldered by you and also by the way, may I as well ask where are you going to get the money which you are going to use to pay all those pending bills?
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
I have my Monthly Pension from SSS. That's what I use in case of emergency. The funds that I'm raising in my Operation, I did not touch it because it's for my operation. Plus I have the boyfriend who in case I can lend a money too.
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@Mshafeeq (1445)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jan 18
Thu should share all its not good at all.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
We should, but they are very irresponsible.
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@Mshafeeq (1445)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jan 18
@JustBhem truely
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
30 Jan 18
So sorry no one is helping you
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jan 18
I use to get this always.
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