We had theatrics over the weekend

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Not the good kind either. We've been catching rats in the house lately and for that reason I've enforced a rule of making sure the sink is always empty of crumbs and dirty dishes. I asked my nephew, who comes over every weekend, to rinse his dishes thoroughly and load them into the dishwasher. He has never been made to do that while here, and according to him it isn't part of his chores at home. I asked him to do this while he was using his tablet, and so I made a point to repeat myself several times. He did not deal with his dishes when it came time to do so. I had to get him to do so and he made out as if it was a hardship for him to do. I had cooked breakfast for supper, which included biscuits made from scratch, and as such had been cleaning dishes as I went. He did deal with the dish but I made it a point to text his mother and let her know how he had acted. He is seventeen years old by the way. We got into an argument again later and he essentially told me that when people "repeat" things to him he forgets them, it's not something he intentionally does but it is just something his brain does. I am willing to believe him on that score, but I told him I was frustrated with the fact that he doesn't put his tablet down and pay attention to me. He told me his parents do it differently there, that they call for a meeting and when that happens he isn't allowed to use his tablet. I told him I do things differently here, he doesn't seem to understand that it doesn't matter how things are done at his house. I don't know, I get so frustrated with him and have for many years. I love the kids but it is obvious in many ways that he needs counseling for anger issues, stress and anxiety issues, as well as some of the things he says. His mother won't hear anything of counseling for him though. I just keep thinking to myself "when I was his age.." because he seems to have no respect, atleast none for me.