How do you Eat an Elephant and the Zeigarnik Effect

@josie_ (9763)
Philippines
February 1, 2018 6:53pm CST
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step" ~ Lao Tzu We all have favorite TV series that we binge watch. On the cliffhanger season finale, the words "To be continued...leaves you in a state of suspended animation, and until the new season brings resolution to the mystery, questions about what happen remain ticking away in the back of your mind. This is the Zeigarnik effect. A Russian psychologist, Bluma Zeigarnik notice an odd thing about the waiters in a Vienna restaurant where she dines. They seem to remember only orders which they were in the process of serving. But after their customers have been served, their memory of those orders were completely forgotten. After further research, Zeigarnik theorized that our mind refuse to let go of unfinnish tasks until it's completion. When people manage to start something they are more motivated to complete it. However, don't start with the hardest part. We get so wrapped up thinking about the difficulty, often a sense of foreboding can lead to procrastination and discouragement. Instead, nibble away at the easiest parts. Once started, something inside our brain will keep drawing us to complete the GOAL. Just like "eating an elephant" which I use as a metaphor for difficult situations, problems or task. Take it one bit (bite) at a time. What is your mindset when completing a task or project? Do you do the difficult part or the easier ones first? This discussion with all the suggestion of eating and dining out is making me hungry so I'll take a break to nibble on something. (No, not a pachyderm).
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Feb 18
Sometimes I go with the easier task and mind-blowing with the difficult after.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
2 Feb 18
The only time I can think of when we should do the difficult part first are with relationship problems but most cop out and find the easiest way out.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Feb 18
@josie_ And I agree with you.
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@LadyDuck (457965)
• Switzerland
2 Feb 18
I thought immediately to "one bite at a time" reading the title. I usually try to make the hardest part first, so I can relax finishing the job.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
It's always nice to get the hard part done and not have to worry about it but my motivation is like an old car engine that takes a while to start up.
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@LadyDuck (457965)
• Switzerland
5 Feb 18
@josie_ This morning my engine it's not starting up.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
Well it depends what needs to be done first. If the one or another has a deadline to finish, I will start with the first deadline. If there is none, I will start at the easy task.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
@josie_ I hate being time pressured but I think I work best with it. how ironic?!?
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
Some people work better under time pressure. Are you one of them? I don't work very well in those kind of situations.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
2 Feb 18
I read your title and said out loud....one bite at a time. Then I I had to read your discussion.....it sounds like when we built our house (30 years ago)...I would tackle different task...people asked, how did you know you could do it. I always said...how would I know I can't do it if I don't first try it...I managed to complete whatever task I set myself to.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
2 Feb 18
The only practical way to eat an elephant. That was a challenging task building your house but the pleasure as well as the economical savings must have been well worth your effort.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
2 Feb 18
@josie_ it was. That house was home in a way that no where else we've ever lived was home.
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
2 Feb 18
I didn't know this had a name but I have noticed the effect before. I love to clear out all the easy stuff when I have a task to complete, that way I can focus more on the harder parts. It works. Once I'm done, I'm done.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
2 Feb 18
Some people have the attitude of doing the hardest first then the rest comes easy. But for people like me , it's the starting which requires getting out of a state of inertia and into the doing which is the difficult part. I find it conducive to do the easier parts of the task.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Feb 18
A pachyderm? You had me googling the darn thing...only to realized you are still on the elephant topic. Thanks. I feel it's like a new day a new word! I tackle the most difficult parts first. If I can get through the hurdle then all other tidbits can be fill in later. I have a constructive and problematic mind. And sometimes my brain kicks in with a spurt of creativity too. So for me is 100 scenarios running through in my mind...at top speed. I think in 3 dimension. I ponder, weigh, fix, break, reconstruct, analyse and speculate down to the very anatomical structure ...Then I project, visualized and imagine the situations and the applications of what i am doing. Motivation? Well you just heard it Having said that, and after I have invested so much of my time and energies, once completed I walk away. Even if I never get started, I have a sense of completion!
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 18
I never nibble on any snacks but what I do everyday often nibbles away at what I have to fall back on.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
Try stretching that which you have to fall back on with less snacks and more will power instead?
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@jstory07 (134426)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Feb 18
I like to start with the easy part and than go to the hard part of the project.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
6 Feb 18
I also find it easier to "get into the groove" of the task by starting with the simple and easier part.