She was such a terrible maid!
By LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
Philippines
February 2, 2018 3:22am CST
I was responding to a post made by @carebear29 about toddler going potty. That sink my mind about my eldest nephew.
When He was young he used to poop when ever inside the house. I asked why is he doing that, turns out he was scared of going to the bathroom. Later I learned the previous maid scared him and been traumatized since. I also learned that she threatened to tear up the family, she she got fired!
Another thing though is that I never saw them buy a potty bowl for toddlers.
The next maid they have now is okay, its been around for years. It turns out she's a relative of our relatives's wife. So, that makes her a relative as well.
We don't have maids anymore because of huge trust issues.
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16 responses
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @jstory07 Yeah, don't bother because you never know what they can do. You know some of those were also from the agency.
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
That is true @mydanods they're just not made to do this kind of work, we have to be careful hiring maids.
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I hated anytime I had to be away from my kids when they were little as I had very few people I could trust.
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
@shaggin Lucky for you to have a very reliant cousin.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @shaggin At least you got a few people that can be trusted, it's hard when they are on the wrong hands.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
6 Feb 18
@Letranknight2015 absolutely that's the reason it's always better to investigate about them before keeping them on the job.
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @sjvg1976 some becomes part of the robber scheme, they pretend to be maid but as a spy for her group mates on how to infiltrate the house.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
we don't call maids as 'maids' per se. for me, it is somewhat degrading.
we call them, or her, 'kasama ng bahay' or 'kasambahay', or in English, house helper.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @ridingbet Well, I didn't know any other term besides maids or baby sitters or domestic helpers. I guess I forgot the terms, that's the term I will use from now on. But I didn't think it was degrading.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
@ridingbet Wow that's just terrible, I guess she was kinda socialite or something.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
@Letranknight2015 a deceased aunt called her servants/maids as 'muchacha', and that word is more degrading than maids.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @JustBhem I'm not familiar with that video. The only videos I have seen in facebook were ofws complaining about abuse from foreign employers.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
@JustBhem yup probably I didn't see that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Feb 18
@Letranknight2015
I see, maybe not in your news feeds.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @Sreekala Oh, well we are done having maids. The last maid rumored some hateful statements causing in laws almost to hate each other.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
2 Feb 18
Can't imagine not having a maid around. And we are just fortunately that we could normally trust the people we hire. One of my maids have been with me for about 16 years now.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @toniganzon You are one of those who also got a lucky and trusted maid.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
3 Feb 18
Same issue encountered by many. In the case of my sister, the nanny of her child went home last december for christmas vacation and didn't go back thereafter without telling my sister about it.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @cttolledo Wow not even a decency of telling her employer good bye. That's just really sad.At leas they didn't steal anything right?
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Feb 18
thanks for the mention. i hope things get better.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
Hello @carebear29 well, it was a long time ago and now they got a better helper now.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @rakski I agree they are very rare now a days, but before we used to have responsible ones.
@KnehKnah (3584)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
What kind of maid was that to scare your nephew that much? That trauma will be in his for life! Bad maid!
But am happy for the better relative maid of yours. We need more of her kind! And yes, it's difficult to find better maids these days!
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @KnehKnah She probably just joke around but he was far too young to understand the joke so it scared him a lot back then.
@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
2 Feb 18
No maid...rarely even a babysitter. My children learned where it was appropriate to do their business. All five were out of diapers by the time they were 2 years old....no one was traumatized.
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @Morleyhunt Well, they were both working and Grandma just can't afford to care for the both of them.
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @Daelii he's going for college soon, and this was a long time ago.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
2 Feb 18
oh thats pretty sad ..i have heard of some stories
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @prashu228 yeah, they are other stories similar to this, I just couldn't believe it. Glad the kids have grown up and they got a maid that's good for them.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
2 Feb 18
That was the best thing to do, fired up!
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@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Feb 18
Hello @jobelbojel They just told me the story and I was shock because I didn't see it myself.
