An auction sale of family items

@JudyEv (325255)
Rockingham, Australia
February 4, 2018 1:00am CST
We’ve been away for two nights staying with my sister in Narrogin, Western Australia. The Lions Club of Narrogin organised an auction sale of my brother’s tools and machinery. Much of the furniture in the house was put up for auction too. They also took a number of items from ‘outside vendors’ including ourselves. The Lions Club will take 20% of the proceeds with the remainder going to the Royal Flying Doctor Service. I thought I was okay with all this after the death of my brother in late September. He had remained in my mother’s house after her death in 2014. But I found it a bit distressing to find so many of the things I was so familiar with being offered up for auction – the china cabinets which held my mother’s treasures, the desk my Dad had created by adding a top to two chest of drawers, one of his first bar stools and all the tools and ‘good sh*t’ that my brother had kept in case he needed them. But the sale was very successful and it’s all over and done with now. The photo shows part of the four rows of items which were lined up in the paddock. The auctioneer went up and down each line knocking down each to the highest bidder.
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@xFiacre (12609)
• Ireland
4 Feb 18
@judyev that would certainly be a hard thing to see.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
It wasn't the most fun I've ever had.
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• Preston, England
4 Feb 18
must be tough seeing memories and heirlooms being sold off but great to know it was for such a worthy important cause too @JudyEv
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• Preston, England
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv yes, with so much wilderness they are quite an essential service there
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• Preston, England
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv great that they have such reponibilities - they are like our paramedics
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@arthurchappell Once it was only for outback emergencies but the service has expanded and now any serious traffic accidents may be attended by a RFDS helicopter.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
5 Feb 18
I have begun to get detached as we all have to say goodbye to our possessions dear to us. I am in the process of reducing clutter - not exactly clutter but there are items we have no use for. Ddid you not get the urge to go for any of those things from your late brother's collections?
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv When I started building up I too eyed for those items that belonged to my in laws and my mother but today I am in the process of reducing useful clutter.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@allknowing I say we're decluttering but as you say it's not so much clutter as things we don't really need and/or use any more.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
My sister and I have both had plenty of opportunity to keep what we wanted from among the items. Neither of us have room or the need for any more.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
Why do those things have to be auctioned?
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@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
5 Feb 18
I'm having the same question @toniganzon
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@Maria24 @toniganzon I've written more about it. We did keep a lot of things but couldn't keep it all. My brother left it this way in his will.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv Yeah I read your new discussion about it.
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@Juliaacv (48246)
• Canada
4 Feb 18
I'm sure that seeing items like that from your past being outside and in a row for sale to strangers was a bit upsetting. But at least you know that they'll have a new home and be useful to another family.
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@Juliaacv (48246)
• Canada
5 Feb 18
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
It was nice to see people thrilled to bits because they'd been able to purchase something they really wanted. And I'm over the 'sads' now.
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@just4him (305367)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Feb 18
Sounds like a sad event. I'm glad it was successful.
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@just4him (305367)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv That is very good. I'm glad the sale went well.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@just4him Thanks.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
The money went to two charities but they did really well out of it so that's a good thing.
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@GardenGerty (157463)
• United States
4 Feb 18
I am glad it was successful. It sounds as if it was another grieving occasion all over again.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
Not quite that bad but nearly so.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
4 Feb 18
We are also going to sell everything that can be sold, but most things will be donated.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv Thrift stores accept very little things in Italy.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
The things that were passed in have been given to a thrift store.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 18
I can understand you being upset. Was your brother not married?
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
I guess it is mostly the fact that it is the end of an era. My brother never married and now there is just my sister and me. Soon she will move and then we will then have no real reason to travel back to our old home town.
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 18
It is hard to see all those things go. At least you had plenty of opportunity to keep things you wanted, and it was your brother's decision so that makes it easier I think.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
Yes, you're quite right. I do have all the things I wanted to keep so I've very lucky.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
4 Feb 18
Glad to hear that the auction was so successful. I'm sure it was very hard on you.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
Thanks. I have had more enjoyable days but it could have been worse.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
5 Feb 18
I am sure it is a bit upsetting but it should be done I supposed.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
@thelme55 This will be sad time for you all. I hope it is trouble-free.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
@thelme55 I don't think Westerners have a time period to wait before disposing of things. Do you have a brother? Would it normally be the male who would be responsible or is it always just the oldest?
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Feb 18
@JudyEv I have 2 brothers but it is always the task of the eldest child to do that. They have to wait when I come home in summer. I have to distribute the things they choose from my fathers things. The things are in my Philippines house anyway as my parents lived in my house.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
5 Feb 18
Where is your brother going to or did he live elsewhere?
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@Hannihar Thanks.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv Judy, I am so so sorry.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
6 Feb 18
@JudyEv You are welcome Judy.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Feb 18
Wow. Thank God it was a success. And why they need to auction them?
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
I'm not sure what you mean. I guess an auction is the easiest way to get rid of items. My sister and I both have fully furnished houses so we didn't need any of the items.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
@JustBhem Yes, thanks. It was very successful.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv I mean the auction that you have was a success, right?
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@Shavkat (137188)
• Philippines
4 Feb 18
I think it is all paid off. It was a successful one.
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@Shavkat (137188)
• Philippines
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv I think they will be happy with that amount money.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
@Shavkat Especially the RFDS as they didn't have to do anything towards the sale.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
The Royal Flying Doctor Service will get about $16,000 dollars so they should be happy.
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@moffittjc (118347)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 Feb 18
Sometimes it's sad to see our family treasures get sold off, but sometimes it's necessary in order to pay the bills, or get on with our lives. Sad to see those family heirlooms gone, but I know you will still cherish all those memories in your heart. I would have loved to have bought that scale off of you in the forefront of the photo.
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@moffittjc (118347)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Feb 18
@JudyEv I don't know how common they are in the US, but I have seen them here before. In our youth football league (American football), we have to weight all the players before every game to make sure they are still in the same weight classification (a safety issue). We use a digital scale, but the players keep breaking the digital scales. I guess that can be expected when you have 150 kids to weight every Saturday before their game! That's why I would have loved to buy that scale from the auction, as it looks like it is built tough and could withstand heavy use.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
@moffittjc It would be slow going unless you had a maximum (or minimum) weight that everyone had to meet - or not! Otherwise it would be fiddly getting an exact weight for each person.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
You have scales like that in the US? I used to weigh myself on these, putting the various weights on the other end and adding up the total. It's a collector's item now and bought $280 which seemed a really good price for it.
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• Eugene, Oregon
5 Feb 18
It must have been very hard to see those items that hold good memories sold off like that.
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• Eugene, Oregon
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv I am sure it is hard to witness such a thing.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
We've been able to take whatever we wanted but of course there was much too much for my sister and I to keep everything. To see it all sitting out in the paddock was a bit of a shock although I knew that's what was going to happen.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
4 Feb 18
Thats a lot of stuff and so many memories, it had to be disheartening, I'm sorry. Did you not get a chance to get a couple of things you may have wanted to keep of your family
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
5 Feb 18
@JudyEv I understand that, glad you got to keep some of your memories
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
We have been able to keep a lot of things but there is a limit to how much we could take, especially as my sister is down-sizing and we're trying to declutter.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
4 Feb 18
Although it was a successful one, I know it feels bad to see some of the things that you have treasured for long being given up
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Feb 18
I didn't ever live there but we visited often and everything was familiar to me. I have many small keepsakes that I will treasure.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
9 Feb 18
@JudyEv Thats great
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
5 Feb 18
I can understand your sadness..is your brother now gone as well? So sorry to hear all this.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
Thanks. My brother passed away in September. He was my sister's twin.
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@JudyEv (325255)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Feb 18
@Courage7 Thanks.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
6 Feb 18
@JudyEv So sorry RIP
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