Not the news I wanted.

Defuniak Springs, Florida
February 4, 2018 5:50pm CST
Last night I talked to my oldest friend. We have known each other since elementary school and have been friends ever since. We were really close in high school and right before I left Oregon to move to Florida. Hes probably one of two or three people from that part of my life that I still talk to. Anyway last night he messaged me to tell me his cancer was back, for the third time. He was diagnosed the first time almost three years ago at twenty five years old with colon cancer. It came back about a year ago and we thought he was doing really well. About a week ago he went in to see his doctor and found out not only is the cancer back but this time it has spread to his lung. They are going to do chemo again and try to get it, but he's really worried and upset about his new diagnosis. Which I don't blame him. When he told me I was upset too.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Feb 18
Utterly chilling news. There are no words.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I didn't know what to say when he first told me. I was angry and then sad. Really sad, but then I realized I need to be there for him and try to be supportive as he gets ready to do chemo again.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
5 Feb 18
Sorry to hear that. Hope they can finally get rid if it this time.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I hope so too.
@snowy22315 (169619)
• United States
5 Feb 18
That is sad...he is so young too! I guess all you can do is hope and pray for the best. Where in Oregon are you from? i have family there.
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@snowy22315 (169619)
• United States
5 Feb 18
@thislittlepennyearns That is where my family lives. I have visited both places. I used to have a friend who grew up in Salem too.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
@snowy22315 There good place. Not somewhere I want to live anymore, but they were fun wheni lived there.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I grew up in Salem/Portland.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 Feb 18
Oh my gosh @thislittlepennyearns and he is sooooo young. Hopefully with the new technology where they use pin-point lasers, it will turn out well.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I have my fingers crossed that he will beat it this time. And he is very young for such an aggressive cancer.
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@franxav (13598)
• India
5 Feb 18
Sad to know. May God give him strength!
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
5 Feb 18
I am so very sorry to hear of the cancer in your dear friend. It is such an insidious disease. I wish for the best outcome for him.
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@GardenGerty (157485)
• United States
5 Feb 18
Of course you were upset. I will pray for him, and hopefully they can find a good treatment protocol for him.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
I hope so too and thank you
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Feb 18
Sorry to hear for your friends. Our prayers and wishes for him. Hope he gets better soon.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
Thank you. I hope that chemo or radiation is able to get it all, and that they found it in time.
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
5 Feb 18
That is so sad he beat that and now has to go through it all again and it’s in more then one spot. That’s not good. I hope he can stay tough and strong and beat it a second time. So young to have to go through this.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I hope he can beat it this third time as well.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
5 Feb 18
so sorry. i have been plagued with it since i was nearly 50 yrs. had it 3 times also. each time gets scarier. I hope they finally get it all. it helps to stay upbeat and believe you will be okay. i will pray for him. that also helps.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
6 Feb 18
I'm glad you've beat it. And thank you that means a lot.
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@LeaPea2417 (36391)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Feb 18
I am very sorry to read this. I promise, I will keep him in my prayers.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
Thank you.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
4 Feb 18
How sad for your friend. That big C is hard to beat.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I really thought he had beat it for good the last time, but I guess not. Hopefully he can beat it for good this time.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
5 Feb 18
I am sorry for your friend, its a hard life treating cancer, living with cancer that many times.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
Its a very scary cancer for someone as young as he is to have.
@NJChicaa (115915)
• United States
5 Feb 18
Unfortunately when it keeps coming back, it usually isn't a good thing. I'm so sorry for you and your friend.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
I know tha it doesn't look good. But all I can do is hope that they caught it in time, and hope for the best possible outcome.
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@KristenH (33351)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
5 Feb 18
I'll send prayers to him and his family.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Feb 18
Thank you.
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@KristenH (33351)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
5 Feb 18
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