Will You Change For Your Wife/ Girlfriend

India
February 5, 2018 6:11am CST
I just remember a clip from a movie in which the Guy wasn't any good and have many bad habits but in the end to get her girl back and he amend his ways and became a very successful person. My question is will you change for your better half? I Do Please share
8 people like this
9 responses
@sw8sincere (2371)
• Philippines
5 Feb
I think a person who is in love doesn't have to force his or her beloved to change. Loving is accepting the kind of person you wish to be with. No one is perfect by the way. You got to love his or her imperfections. =)
3 people like this
• India
6 Feb
Why don't we try to be better
@Courage7 (4824)
• United States
5 Feb
I dont have a wife or gf and no I would not change
2 people like this
• India
6 Feb
Nice to know
1 person likes this
@Courage7 (4824)
• United States
6 Feb
1 person likes this
• Philippines
5 Feb
hard to change if its youre nature already
2 people like this
• India
6 Feb
Thanks
1 person likes this
• Philippines
6 Feb
1 person likes this
@JohnRoberts (48966)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Feb
I don't have any to begin with.
2 people like this
• India
6 Feb
Thanks
1 person likes this
@tzwrites (4392)
• Romania
5 Feb
I change but only a bit. I don't think my partner wants me to change too much...he hasn't mentioned anything specific.
2 people like this
• India
6 Feb
That's nice then
1 person likes this
@Plethos (9051)
• United States
5 Feb
If you have to change for a person to love you, then its going to fail. She wouldnt be acceptig you for who you are on the inside, she would only be in love with the facade you are pretending to be. You wont behappy wih yourself.
1 person likes this
• India
6 Feb
So do you mean we don't need to change for better
1 person likes this
@Plethos (9051)
• United States
6 Feb
@thesupersingh - how is it for the better if yourchanging just to be loved by one? Does that mean you are now risking being hated by those who love you now? Why cant the other love you for who you currently are? In order for two to love each other, you both need to be yourselves and build on that. Youcant force love.
1 person likes this
@Plethos (9051)
• United States
6 Feb
@thesupersingh - the expression, misery loves company , comes to mind with that scenario.
1 person likes this
@cttolledo (4032)
• Batangas, Philippines
5 Feb
Not change maybe but I can compromise. Like respecting each other's personal way of life, but both must do each obligation to each other and to the rest of the family.
1 person likes this
• India
6 Feb
That's true
1 person likes this
@prashu228 (25797)
• India
5 Feb
It happens only in our movies, if a person is bad why to opt for them , we can go for a good person . There are many people in our society who are influenced by such movies , they think that people change after marriage but instead they end up suffering...so its better to choose person according to our taste
1 person likes this
• India
6 Feb
Thanks
1 person likes this
@deorahul (231)
5 Feb
Be yourself and if she accepts you,loves you the way you are then yes you have to change because you love her and wanted to make her feel special.
• India
6 Feb
Thanks
1 person likes this