what is like be lonely all the time even when with a group

Kingston, New York
February 6, 2018 10:03pm CST
What is being lonely like? for some people even when they are in a group they still can feel lonely and they are with friends, for me it hard to explain, I have a friend some how she rally understand how and what I am talking about when I talk about being lonely even when I am with friends, When I am with this lady I am not lonely just being with her make me feel good and we are just friends , nothing more. This one of my reason I like to be with her all the time, then I do not feel lonely , but I only see like 2 or 3 times a week and I rally like to see more of her I am not going to say her name but she know who she is and I know why she understand How I feel because some times she feel the lonlyness to . I hope down the road we both do not feel lonely any more no matter who or were we are with or groups,
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
7 Feb 18
I could feel you are in love with this lady whoever she is, am I right? Why not face your loneliness, gamble and try to win her, tell her what you feel for her, I think it's the only way to end all this loneliness, who knows you might get lucky and live happily ever after, or you get turned down then just the same you will have to face it.
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• Kingston, New York
7 Feb 18
We have a 20 year age difference I all ready try. I could of lye about my age And I would of have her but i do not believe in doing that. I do not look my age and i diffnely do not act. My age
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
7 Feb 18
@eagletrek2 it's not about age, it's about being true to yourself and being honest with your feelings.
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• Kingston, New York
11 Feb 18
@louievill she know how i feel about her
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@crossbones27 (48417)
• Mojave, California
7 Feb 18
I have my dogs and and my music. Brother and sister work also sometimes. Sometime they make me feel more alone. Really have to have a connection with someone of something to not feel lonely in this world.
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• Mojave, California
7 Feb 18
@eagletrek2 It does happen, one of my friends cannot hang with him at all, just is a jerk in that type of mindset. Says he is just speaking truth, I say you being a jerk with stronger language. Try to tell people all the time, do not need to be hard always, over their head, then the times I need them to be honest, straight do not say anything or lie. Can't win sometimes.
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• Kingston, New York
7 Feb 18
Yes when i am with other friend she make me feel more lonely then when i am by myself
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@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
7 Feb 18
I am a social person so I am not lonely often
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• Kingston, New York
7 Feb 18
Being lonely all the time is hard to explain
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
7 Feb 18
your more of a one on one person, not a group type of person.
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• Kingston, New York
7 Feb 18
I do enjoy being with groups But the lonley feeling there
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
7 Feb 18
never feel lonely. Loneliness is just a word. You can change loneliness into happiness only if you knew how to eradicate that word in your mind.
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• Kingston, New York
7 Feb 18
It does not work for me it like my soul is hurting
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@rheicel (7068)
• Philippines
7 Feb 18
You're not lonely at all because you have friends.
@Allamanda (154)
• Vietnam
7 Feb 18
I feel you. It's not an unusual thing to feel lonely even when you're not alone. You do not feel belong and those people drain your social energy. I have been there. You probably did not feel understood or the friends you're hanging out with did not really "get" you. That's the place for compatibility. True friends are not easy to find. Hope you and your friend will keep this going forever.