I can't be serious...

By Toni
@toniganzon (72317)
Philippines
February 8, 2018 4:56am CST
I can't be serious here in mylot at all. Don't expect me to write really serious stuff like politics or religion. I simply can't. Mylot is an escape from my reality. My people are intimidated by how serious I am in the office. They have to address me properly, and they can't make jokes in front of me unless I would start a humorous conversation. I just have to be that strict boss (but they know I have a kind heart and friendly too once they get to know me). So yes, I admit, I have a multiple personality. And I'm fine if you call me crazy. Are you the same person in and out of mylot?
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@m_audrey6788 (58487)
• Germany
8 Feb 18
Gosh! I used to be kind of afraid talking to people out of mylot but then I realized when I started schooling I changed and was like the childish me in mylot became the same out on mylot
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• Germany
8 Feb 18
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
@m_audrey6788 Are you sure you're old enough to be inmylot?
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
The childish you came out.
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
9 Feb 18
Is that chocolate on your face? I'm pretty much the same on MyLot as in person.
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
10 Feb 18
@toniganzon So it' s mud that makes you so beautiful. When the snow melts in May I will try to get some mud. Keep having fun!
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@1hopefulman Just make sure it's mud that contains lots of antioxidants.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Would you lick it if it was? It's moor mud! Not me. I have inhibitions in real life. I don't in mylot hahahaha. As you can see, I can be pretty silly, naughty, and bad in mylot. But can't be that in real life. I can be silly in really life only when I'm with friends.
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@shaggin (71573)
• United States
8 Feb 18
I definitely good around a lot more outside mylot then I do on mylot as I feel most things here should be family friendly.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
I agree.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Feb 18
I am the same person here and offline. =) I am an open book and I love sharing my love for God with everyone here.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
I share my beliefs in my interaction. I just don't use it as a topic in my discussion. As I know we are all different here with different beliefs.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
@LovingMyBabies I love my family and we share the same faith. That's all that matters to me.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon I believe we should share our faith with those we love. I want others to share in the joy and peace God has given me!
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@LadyDuck (454954)
• Switzerland
8 Feb 18
No, I am not the same person here in myLot. I am also very serious when I work, serious and precise. I cannot stand a work not well done. Here I would never write anything concerning religion and politics, unless the politic is humorous and funny.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
Mylot is just like another world.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
@LadyDuck Right and just enjoy life and take things easy. Anyway, this is just a virtual world.
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@LadyDuck (454954)
• Switzerland
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon I agree, a virtual world where to come and have fun.
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@nela13 (55684)
• Portugal
9 Feb 18
I am more relaxed here online and I have never mentioned Mylot at the office.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
Just like I said other members, we are more free in mylot. Nobody judges us here.
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@nela13 (55684)
• Portugal
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon that is quite true
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@AKRao24 (27427)
• India
9 Feb 18
I also come here to vent out my feelings and to nurture the child hidden in me! Because of protocol or say ladder in the office or at work place we need to have a mask of seriousness on our face without which your personality don't match with your post. While doing so and acting so we are unknowingly accumulating lot of stress and we need to vent out this stress. The best thing is to come to place where no body knows us and every body is being treated equally irrespective of age, gender, religion and origin and vent it out in a fun loving way! And I think Mylot is the best place to do so! Thanks dear @toniganzon ! have a nice time!
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@AKRao24 (27427)
• India
10 Feb 18
Yes that is very true dear friend @toniganzon as we don't interact here face to face and while writing we are bit careful and decent than when we talk when we are angry or in bad mood! Thanks!
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
We actually have more freedom here in mylot than in real life.
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
9 Feb 18
I feel like I am more serious on myLot but it depends who I talk to.
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
11 Feb 18
@toniganzon oh, right. Well, I tend to start topics that are serious in nature, issues that can be otherwise confronting if not for my attempt at making it slightly satirical to dampen the seriousness somehow. For example, I post topics about career struggles but always end it on a funny note. I don't know if other people find it funny or not though.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Talking about discussions we post not interaction.
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
I must admit, some people are intimidated when they see me. But once they get to see my funny side, they loosen up too. I laugh out loud even alone in the office room. I don't care what my officemates will think. I laugh at simple funny jokes and sometimes makes a joke on myself.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Even when I was a child, people got intimidated by me. In fact, one of my closest friends told me that when we were kids, she was too scared to be near me, until she got to know me.
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@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@toniganzon Some people judge other by their looks. Looks can always be just a facade of a soft heart inside.
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@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
11 Feb 18
@toniganzon Yes, i agree.
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@jobelbojel (34731)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
I don't talk about what I do online in the office. And I can be as serious and funny too.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
8 Feb 18
I never mentioned mylot in the office. When I'm in my computer, my people are afraid to even bother me thinking I was busy. They didn't have any idea I was mylotting.
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@jobelbojel (34731)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon I can't mylot all day in the office. I have to make sure no one behind me is looking in my monitor. And have to mind my stats. Haha
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
@jobelbojel Nobody watches over what the boss is doing. So I can mylot when I'm not in a meeting. As long as I'm seated at my desk and not signing any documents, I can do whatever I want in the office. Just like now. I"m in the office waiting for my 5pm meeting and mylotting.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
9 Feb 18
What you see is what you get from me. When I was a teacher and college professor, I was strict, but fair, and still knew when to add humor. I feel strongly about my religion and political beliefs, but they won't often show up on social networks.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
I can't be who I am here in mylot. I am such a flirt, crazy, a bit naughty sometimes when I'm here. Can't be that with my employees. I do humour them sometimes, when the situation calls for it. But can't do that all the time or they would be too comfortable and might step on the line of respect.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@DianneN That's more freedom.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
10 Feb 18
@toniganzon I don't work anymore, so I can do what I want, where I want, all within reason, of course. I'm very happily married.
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@kobesbuddy (73891)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Feb 18
I do have many moods but not two personalities. I'm basically the same, boring person, in the home and in a public place. I'm actually not very exciting, just like my Dad was, an Introvert. On My Lot? I act up as much as possible!
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
See? Everybody seems to be more free when in mylot lol! I am only serious at work. I have to be. Holding the president/ceo's position isn't that easy. Have to maintain a proper decorum.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@kobesbuddy exactly because nobody joined mylot to judge others. We can be free here and just have fun without having to worry about people judging us.
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@kobesbuddy (73891)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon I like being on My Lot, because I can act stupid and nobody really cares.
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@Hannihar (129074)
• Israel
9 Feb 18
I think a lot of us have murliple personalities. One day we may act one way and another another way. You have an important job. Glad you have someone to come to be yourself. Love the mask by the way.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
Thanks. It's a moor mud. it's very relaxing.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@Hannihar It detoxifies my skin.
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@Hannihar (129074)
• Israel
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon I am glad it is relaxing.
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9 Feb 18
Hey.. don't call yourselves crazy. Even I have multiple personalities. Sometimes I'm serious and obedient. And sometimes I'm careless. It matters where and when we should let these personalities out.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
I love being crazy!
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
@Sly_queen We will see....
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon great.. then I believe we would become really good friends..
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@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
9 Feb 18
I think for me MyLot is a space to be myself. I am able to express my truest ideas and feelings.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Exactly! Coz nobody knows you here and nobody judges you here.
• Greece
9 Feb 18
I haven’t been online for a long loooooong time, cause I had a child! Well, I used to be the same person in myLot and in life, but now with the new responsibilities, I really don’t know anymore!!
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• Greece
10 Feb 18
@toniganzon thank you very very much!!!!
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Congratulations and good luck with your new life and responsibilities.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
9 Feb 18
We have to be a tough personality in the office otherwise people start using us.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
Well nobody would dare use me in the office. Or they get fired.
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
9 Feb 18
funny, serious , religious, flirty, bully, kind, mysterious, sensible . That's too much of me
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
Oh really?
@Icydoll (36725)
• India
8 Feb 18
Yeah I'm very jovial person.make people around me laugh all the time playing jokes.i like it .even me too can't post serious discussions..lol
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
I'm fun when I'm with friends. But not at work.
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@Icydoll (36725)
• India
9 Feb 18
@toniganzon yeah if we be fun at work our career life becomes fun.im also serious at work
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@Bullshark (3479)
• Netherlands
9 Feb 18
Let's say your people joined myLot and they say things to you they don't normally say or make jokes that are not appropriate. Would you address them in the office the next morning? Would they have to fear for their jobs?
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
None of them have an inkling what mylot is. And if that really happened, I think they wouldn't have a face to show me in the office. I have my real profile pic here so they definitely would know it's me. And that depends on what you mean by inappropriate. If it's a joke, then it's just a joke.
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