Date of death - to be advised
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325693)
Rockingham, Australia
February 9, 2018 1:22am CST
Regular myLotter @xFiacre wrote recently about how his aunt’s ashes were mixed with potters’ clay and made into six commemorative mugs. The link is at the bottom of this discussion.
Fiacre asked what the reader would like to be made into. We recently paid to book a niche in a columbarium at our former parish. A columbarium is also a name for a dove- or pigeon-cote and I’ve written about them before. Here’s a link: http://www.mylot.com/post/3136188/there-are-columbariums-and-there-are-columbariums
Our ashes will be put in a casket and sealed into one of the holes in the wall of the columbarium. The only added extra expense for our boys will be the plaque. If we don’t die for ages, the price of the plaque might go up. Indeed, it is almost sure to. So we thought we could get around the problem by paying for the plaque and some nice words on it to say who we were and how much we’ll be missed.
We could put our birth dates but, as we won’t know our date of death, we could just have engraved ‘TBA’ (to be advised). What do you think? And it’s meant to be a joke, folks.
The photo is of a dove-cote in the German town of Osterwieck where my ancestors came from. Although a dove-cote, this looks nothing like our columbarium. There is a photo of a pigeon columbarium which looks more like a person one on my other post. But it’s an interesting photo isn’t it?
This is a photograph of my aunt. When she was cremated her ashes were added to some potters clay and a set of six commemorative mugs were produced from what was...
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
9 Feb 18
That is a good plan. It was a nice idea to mix the ashes in making the mugs. I want my ashes to be buried in my mother's tomb.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Feb 18
I wouldn't want to be made into a mug. It seems a bit weird to me.
@xFiacre (12595)
• Ireland
9 Feb 18
@judyev thanks for the mention. I don’t really care what’s done to my leavings once I’ve gone, but it’s a good idea to leave instructions so that your family doesn’t have to make decisions. My aged parents have paid for their arrangements and given me instructions.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Feb 18
Ours is decided and paid for now. But the link to your post about your aunt isn't working it seems. I don't know why not.
@Orson_Kart (6108)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 18
If I could afford it, I would be cryogenically frozen and when reversing old age became possible, I could be revived and live forever. Sound good?
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Feb 18
Sorry. I don't know why that is. It's Fiacre's post. I'll add it here but I don't know if it will work.
This is a photograph of my aunt. When she was cremated her ashes were added to some potters clay and a set of six commemorative mugs were produced from what was...
@cintol (11261)
• United States
9 Feb 18
I love buildings like this one and I have never seen anything like having your ashes made into cups and such. Different idea though. My husband and I ashes will be mixed together and he wants them spread over the ocean since he was in the Navy and loved the water
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
11 Feb 18
Question marks would have been funny as well!
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
I've never heard of making something from a person's ashes before.
@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
10 Feb 18
We will be cremated, that is all I know, although I have seen the offers to become starter pods for trees. That would be nice.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
We almost chose to have the ashes buried in a rose garden. There are many options.
@snowy22315 (169929)
• United States
9 Feb 18
I don't want to be "made into a tea cup" I would prefer my ashes be scattered over a body of water, and maybe a plaque with my name on it at the base of a tree would be good.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
There is a lot of choice nowadays isn't there? On the Busselton jetty in Western Australia, also every post along the pier has a plaque commemorating someone who used to fish from that place. The old fisherman all had their favourite spot on the jetty from which to fish. Most have had their ashes scattered at that place.
@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
10 Feb 18
I think I don't want to be cremated. Ashes made to mugs sounds a good idea maybe a flower vase is good too
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
9 Feb 18
We will be buried in our family plot in the parish cemetery. My great-great grandparents are there and my great grandparents as well. I plan to be cremated before I am buried.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
That's nice that you have a family plot. It is an obvious choice for you.
@LeaPea2417 (36438)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Feb 18
I will probably be buried. I am not sure about cremation.
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
Cremation is very common here but there aren't a lot of towns that have crematoriums - only the big ones.
@RasmaSandra (73408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb 18
I would love to feed the fishes in the sea...
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