Do you think first love marriages work?

United States
September 10, 2006 12:16am CST
My fiance and I have been together for 9 years and seen our share of troubles but conquered them(so far).As you know the statistics are against us but I think it will work after all we have 2 kids. I think we will prove them wrong after all LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!
29 responses
@rakleen (566)
• India
11 Sep 06
Ritu Level 1 i cant say that love marriages are successful but i can say that those love marriages r successful which couples understand to each other , care for each other , and their love not for show they attached with hearts yes these love marriages r successful.
@starr4all (2865)
17 Dec 08
Actually the US and Japan have been allies since then. No hatred between the two countries.
• India
14 Dec 06
yes i think first love marriages work.
• India
7 Oct 06
people who are really commited will get it to work it out properly
• United States
6 Oct 06
I do think that it works if you really love each other. I think love conquers all as well, if its mutual. I am sooo glad that I didnt marry my first love because he treated me bad. But I sometimes wonder, what might have been..ya know. You never forget your first love. I know I wont.
• United States
6 Oct 06
I do think that it works if you really love each other. I think love conquers all as well, if its mutual. I am sooo glad that I didnt marry my first love because he treated me bad. But I sometimes wonder, what might have been..ya know. You never forget your first love. I know I wont.
• United States
6 Oct 06
I do think that it works if you really love each other. I think love conquers all as well, if its mutual. I am sooo glad that I didnt marry my first love because he treated me bad. But I sometimes wonder, what might have been..ya know. You never forget your first love. I know I wont.
• United States
14 Sep 06
I don't know. My sister and her first love dated since high school and they just got married a year ago. i think they'll make it because they want to not because they were their first loves.
@nelson77 (107)
• Nigeria
13 Sep 06
yes it can work if the will of god is there and the love
@Duvessa (914)
• United States
13 Sep 06
yes I totally believe that 1st love marriages can work if both people truly love each other.
• United States
13 Sep 06
Absolutely! I have been married to my first love for 23 years and counting.
@aindnow (165)
• India
13 Sep 06
good for you man congrats
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
12 Sep 06
I think that Love marriages do work more than arranged... as in love marriage the persons get time to know each other... understand each other well... share same sentiments, feelings... they love each other.... trust each other..... So its a total recipe to Happy Life and Fun
• India
12 Sep 06
i agree with SSH.. he is telling right.....
@maya123 (74)
• South Africa
12 Sep 06
If two people are fmeant to be together and don't allow interfernce in their relationship, I can't see why not. Unless they were just in love and needed more..for instance to still go out and party, then, like with any other marriage, it won't work. If I look back on my life, I don't think my first love would have worked as a longlife commitment...but on the other hand..it might have...difficult to say :;
@pwille (20)
• United States
12 Sep 06
I think that first love marriages work just about as well as any other marriage. You marry because you are "in love". Love is an emotion and over time it changes. It is then that marriage becomes about committment.
• India
12 Sep 06
All amrriages depend upon the mutual trust between the persons.Love marriages wud be better because u know the person whom u r gonna marry.
@vimal2k6 (391)
• India
11 Sep 06
yes it work....
@aziz1104 (14)
• India
11 Sep 06
he u know,i also have a girl friend and my situation is also same.we were having an affair for last 7 years and after all problems between both families,but at last we got engaged,but at next day she gone to dubai and after that we have not seen eachother for last 3 years,but u know we still love eachother.their is some kind of understanding between us,you know his dad tried to bring many good proposals over there,but she said no to all.we both r just waiting when we will get married.but u know what similar btween us,is that our love is everything for us.and that same to u guys.just one simple advice.u lover eachother na and their is trust and understanding between u na.then everything is going to be alright.nothing can make u both seprate.and that's the power of love,trust me.and if love eachother truely god will also help u.that's all i wanted to say to u guys.hope u get very cute babeis.bye.
@satbirsk (400)
• India
11 Sep 06
They say : Marriages are made in Heaven and happen on Earth. Nature has made different ways for everyone to find his/her soulmate. Marriage is based on mutual respect, understanding, absolute trust and on felt needs will be an everlasting association. Its a bond between two families.
• United States
11 Sep 06
I don't think it can't survive. I do know for some reason they don't. when you see those couples make it for years. Then they get married and life changes. I would hope you 2 could make it thru it all. Give it a chance that is how you will rellay know.