Too harsh - or justifiable ?
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (53679)
February 10, 2018 10:22am CST
I read in the Caribbean news that a pastor has been sentenced to 40 years imprisonment for having sexual relations with a fifteen year old girl he was counseling. The forty-six year old pastor who headed a large congregation will have no chance of parole until he has served at least thirty years.
It is the view of some that his sentence is too harsh while others believe it should be heavier - what do you think?
The above photo is of my young son who is now an adult . Up to age nine - he was hardly ever out of my sight, except during his school hours - I was a very protective parent. Are you - or were you a very protective parent? Can we really protect our children from sexual predators?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
10 Feb 18
I wish the photo was clearer but I know, it is a photo of a photo and they are never clear.
I was also very protective. I remember my daughter coming home from school and when she told me that a man in a car had exposed himself and I went looking for him but never found him.
No matter how protective we are, things can happen. In school the monks would often molest the students but at the time we never realized what was happening.
As for this pastor, what he did is heinous to say the least and the law dealt with him and I would leave it at that. It goes to show that no one can be trusted.
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@vandana7 (98796)
• India
10 Feb 18
@Kandae11 In our world, there are hardly any liberties that the court enjoys. There are predefined limits within which the court has to act, and the Parliament keeps the rights to come up with laws. It boils down to a male dominated society talking about justice.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Feb 18
Things are going in a very wrong direction as far as kids protection is concerned! How can we ensure the security of our kid while sitting at our place? As far as the Pastor is concerned let the judge decide what treatment he should get as he is learned and professional in his own right! Thanks for initiating this thought provoking discussion dear @Kandae11 !
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@vandana7 (98796)
• India
10 Feb 18
@Kandae11 Even the best of parent cannot always be around because more often than not, it is somebody the parents trust who turns out to be bad. I'd say lucky ones do not have such experiences, the unlucky ones are caught. Unlucky ones are usually the vulnerable ones; the ones who have no parents or one parent, or parents who are rather strict in the name of being "disciplinarians". Pedophiles have a great way of knowing which child is under stress from parental orders, and invariably take the child's side when parents are trying to scold, which makes the child start trusting his or her only ally. It is often too late when the child realizes that something is wrong. There are times the child may instinctively distrust the person but still go along as a way to show parent that he or she does not like him or her and then it becomes too late.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
11 Feb 18
Anyone who commits a crime deserves to be punished, whether a religious person, a politician or a billionaire. People this days bring disrepute to their calling by committing crimes and expecting people to just allow them go scot free because they are so and so.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
11 Feb 18
People have told me a lot that I am over protective but I don't think you can ever be to careful when it comes to our kids! I do think the man should be punished harshly but I don't know about 30 years. Hopefully he will be an example to others not to do something like this ever!
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
11 Feb 18
Your son is very cute I too was very protective of my children until they were in college , even then I would be constantly in touch with them..it takes just one ugly incident to ruin a young life . Thankfully in Mangalore where we live , we have not had a single rape case so far like in other major cities of India .But now with more software companies and other industries coming up here , there are a lot of outsiders and the locals fear that things might change.
As far as the punishment is concerned , I feel that it may be too harsh . But again the court would have gone into all the details of the cases and know what they are doing .
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@vandana7 (98796)
• India
10 Feb 18
Over the years, I have realized that when you group a set of criminals, they are going to share their skills and evolve better methods. Prison does that. In any event, you are punishing him in a way that people do not see him suffering. So the next pedophile is likely to take chances. After all, for every 1 that gets caught, there are more than 10 that get away with it. Punishments should be harsh (not within the purview of human rights because violating another person's human rights should be interpreted as willingness to surrender the human rights ...those rights are for humans not for those who keep their animal behaviors while claiming to be humans). As I said, they need to be punished in a way that everybody gets to see them, and shame them, and shame them regularly. Not merely some tasks to do in prison. That actually saves the guy some rent and gives him some employment too. Get him lynched, and then have his face and hands and legs filled with tattoos mentioning the nature of his crime...set him free. Let him go through what victims go through for the rest of their lives.
That said, somewhere I read that some of these behaviors are ingrained as we were animals and the evolved ones have the better gene, while rest of us try to behave but can be criminals.
I also need research on such people to evolve methods and medicines that can stop such behavior.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
11 Feb 18
That is not right in the eyes of humans and in the eyes of the Lord.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
11 Feb 18
Until Pretty was 15 she was not out of my sight unless she was with her mother. She didn't even sleep over at friend's houses until she was 17. (I threw parties and sleepovers for her friends often. But they always came to our house and spent their time, not the other way around.)
I see nothing wrong with the sentence. The only improvement I would suggest is that he be castrated, as well.
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@everwonderwhy (6697)
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11 Feb 18
If the allegations against that so-called pastor were true and factual backed by evidence, that animal should be locked up for good for violating a child!
Yes, I am a Mrs Mama Bear, a fierce one, for my children!
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@popciclecold (35085)
• United States
10 Feb 18
I had three sons, and forty years ago, things were a lot different. I now worry about great grandchildren.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
11 Feb 18
Pastors are supposed to be protectors. This pastor was just the opposite. Do you have any doubts that he should be pardoned?
Today thanks to the Internet parents have no hold over their kids. Remember Blue Whale?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
11 Feb 18
I think he should be jailed, especially if this is not the first time he has done this. Even once is too much. I love that hair, oh my, now that is a head of hair lol
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@LeaPea2417 (36434)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Feb 18
He deserves the prison sentence. I was a very over protective parent.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 Feb 18
He should serve 50 at least. He is no Christian and deserves no mercy.
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