What Do you Call With This Kind of Friendship?
By Firefly
@cttolledo (5460)
Legaspi, Philippines
February 11, 2018 11:16pm CST
We currently having issues with one of our friends. One incident triggered us to realized that this person is really have a difficult attitude.
What do you think is the problem with this person?
She hates her boss.
She get jelous everytime we go with our boss for lunch, because my boss is a close friend of her boss
She hates people (not part of group) to party with us ( regardless it is our teammates or my boss)
When she hates the people, she will hates them forever and those people connected to that person.
So hard to understand her attitude. We just realized that she's been like that even before and we've been trying to understand her through these years because she's our friend.
What can you say?
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7 responses
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
I don't what it's called but I think there is a reason for doing that. Maybe a loner?
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Feb 18
We really don't know where she is coming from. Sometimes her actions is like an immature and childish attitude
@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
12 Feb 18
Well, I don't know what's wrong with your friend the hater or people and their friends, but I know that prayers work. Maybe to pray to God, about it and give him the problem to solve the pitiful friend of yours the hater will be released of her hate and find out life is really too short for hating. I have a facebook page that Rev. Roberts and his wife gives us lectures and prayer videos. One day his wife LIndsay, had a video prayer and she lectured on letting God reckon with problems that arise that we don't have much control over. I took it to heart, and it works.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Feb 18
That's a good idea. Prayer will help to enlighten her of what she's doing.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Feb 18
I hope that thing crossed her minds, but I think we must teach her a lesson
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
13 Feb 18
You will be better off without this person in your social and professional circle.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
13 Feb 18
Actually , that's one of my realization lately. I want my life happy and free from negative people.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
Did any of you confront her about her attitude?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
@cttolledo an advice is different from a confrontation. Don't ever tell that kind of person to change. They hate that. But point out their mistakes and how it all made you feel.
That's why I admire my foreign friends because they could tell me what I did wrong right in my face. So I try to do the same with my close friends. They will get mad at me during the confrontation, but after realising what's really wrong, we are still friends. Real friends do that to each other.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Feb 18
A friend from our group throw some advices but she's a typical stubborn one.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Feb 18
Actually that's how I describe it, she's a self centered type of person
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Feb 18
@Shavkat as many said that we have to choose positive people to have positive influence
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Feb 18
@cttolledo I really stay away from these people. I can't endure seeing them.
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@levis2020 (171)
• Philippines
22 Feb 18
It is hard to change others. If it is hard to change ourselves, how much more with other people.
