She likes to have a heated argument with everyone.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
February 17, 2018 12:44am CST
Last Wednesday evening, one of my friend in the center who is also a patient asked a favor to me. The favor is to send him his girlfriend's post since his girlfriend blocked him in her Facebook account. As a friend, I screenshot her wall and send it to him. After 4 hours, I saw his girlfriend's wall post pertaining to someone who needs to mind their business and not to screenshot someone's post. I was offended because I was the only one who screenshot her wall in favor of her boyfriend.
I messaged that friend and told him to explain to his girlfriend the favor he asked for me. He said that he didn't know his girlfriend login to his messenger and saw our conversation. He said he will talk to her and everything will be okay. I thought everything is okay then.
Then on the 14th, that was Valentine's day. The girl posted another post stating about me, though she did not mention any other name. The post says, why I need to level myself to a certain person if I'm educated enough and do the favor asking by that person and meddle her life. I was offended again because I know I did not do anything wrong. Beside she reads our conversation if she was able to login to his account.
I messaged the girlfriend and told her my side. That she should not judge me based on her own doing, and I did not meddle in their relationship because at first it was not a good movie to share with anyone, and I'm not interested.
I heard so much about this girl who always likes to have a heated argument with anyone who strongly has a connection with her boyfriend - who is our friend in the center. She is jealous whenever someone talks to his boyfriend.
I guess there are some people who like to be on top of everything and easily judge people based on their own understanding. And I don't even like her.
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10 responses
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Feb 18
It's pretty common among couples here to give access to their loved ones. It has something to do with trust issues. I think the boyfriend made a mistake as well. And he should be the one fixing that.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Feb 18
I think the boyfriend made a mistake as well in getting you involved. You are actually involved now. The boyfriend of all people know what type of person his girlfriend is. He should have anticipated that. He knew that his gf has access with his messenger, so he should have done something about it. You may hate me for saying this, but the girlfriend has a point.
Next time he asks you a favour involving anybody in his life, you can tell him you can't be involved again.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
18 Feb 18
@Letranknight2015 I'm blaming the boyfriend more. There's always a reason for someone to act like this and the boyfriend of all people should know how her girlfriend is and shouldn't let his friends be involved in whatever dung they are going through.
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@Letranknight2015 (51511)
• Philippines
18 Feb 18
Very obsessive girlfriend in my opinion and has trust issues! but you're right she shouldn't gotten involved.
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@Letranknight2015 (51511)
• Philippines
18 Feb 18
I think you need to talk to this GUY and let GO of this woman. SHE'S BAD NEWS!
If she can't love and prefer to hate his friends then she's not the girl for him. I swear she will make him miserable for the rest of his life! That is not just jealousy anymore, that's obsession!
Save him now and convince him to let go of this woman before it's TOO LATE!
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
18 Feb 18
Personally I think if someone blocks someone it is obvious they do not want that person to see what they write so it is rude for someone to screenshot what they write and show the blocked person. Next time it is best to just stay out of it and tell him you have enough stress to deal with of your own.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
17 Feb 18
But why did her boyfriend ask you to post the screenshot, and he should have told her as he asked you , if she is jealous or whatever s their problem they should handle it..
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Feb 18
in my own personal opinion, you should have asked permission from the girlfriend. that is already a private setting.
i once got angry with a colleague because she gave my cell phone number to one of my students. i talked to my colleague and she was remorseful. even phone numbers are our private property.
just my thoughts.
