Always Arguing With My Mom.

Aurora, Colorado
February 18, 2018 6:54pm CST
My mom and I are always arguing. I tell her I want to go to counseling and get help, but she just says "you're the one who needs help." What do I do? She's putting all the blame on me.
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@LeaPea2417 (36399)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Feb 18
Tell her how counseling will be very good for you.
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• Aurora, Colorado
19 Feb 18
I've tried, she doesn't listen.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
are you required to both go? if the counselors can see you're ready, can they not start with you first and teach you how to deal with your mother?
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@Shavkat (137189)
• Philippines
19 Feb 18
I think you can have a heart-to-heart talk. However, if it doesn't really work out, then it is about time to have a counseling.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
19 Feb 18
Maybe you should both go, tell her you can't handle fighting all the time with her and you would like to go talk to someone who is outside the house and knows nothing about either of you so they can be open to everything. There will be no judgement and that maybe it will help you both figure out what you need to do to fix it because you love her.
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@franxav (13598)
• India
19 Feb 18
Both of you go to the counselor. This way you will help your mother and in turn will be helped.
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@Maria24 (2661)
• United States
19 Feb 18
It reminds me of my dad. He always blaming things on me
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@marguicha (215178)
• Chile
19 Feb 18
It depends on what the argument is about. It is not about blame many times. Maybe she is trying to do her best to bring you up. Why donĀ“t you try to talk without arguing?
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Feb 18
You dont need counseling, ou need to move out or find a way to not be around each other so much
• Aurora, Colorado
19 Feb 18
Okay, well considering that you didn't ask my whole situation before telling me what I need to do, I'm feeling disrespected. I can't move out.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Feb 18
@HannahLeigh518 -how so? You posted a discussion asking "what do ido?" You coulde just either explain as to why you cant move out, or just say somethi g totally different. You jumped straight to defensive mode and then victimizaion. No need for that. Now i understand a little more as to why you to are always argueing.
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@db20747 (43425)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Mar 18
I had similar problems with my family. Don't let it go on!! It has to end now!!! Do not argue back!! Say your peace and leave. Tell her that you have said your peace and leave!! It take two to argue!!
@peachpurple (13880)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 18
Counseling could help you to become better