Putting it into her hands

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So many that have read my discussions know that I homeschool on pacyber. Today I decided to put it into Tessas hands more. I finally figured out I can not sit for 8 or more hours in stress trying to get her to do things and get her thru them. She needs to grow up some and want it for herself. Today has been rough to say the least. The first part was not her doing, took 2 hours to get her stupid printer to work. Then she had 3 assignments due in Language Arts and I cant even figure out how to turn one of them in. All 3 have reading to them. 3 pages and she still isn't done. Keeps asking me to read it to her. NOPE! Time to concentrate and just do it. Yes I know she hates reading especially when it isn't something she likes. Welcome to life. Calling her advisor tomorrow to see how the other part of school called Calvary works totally. Right now we do Blended class which is where we are basically on our own. We have done that for about 3 years and each year I think she will grow up some and it will get easier and it hasn't. IF anything it is harder. Not just because the work is harder as we are for a lot of the stuff just seemingly redoing what she did last year in some of the classes but because she just doesn't want to. She took a test with her teacher and the teacher was so happy on how much her reading has improved so it isn't that. Hoping I'm doing the right thing here but my and my health really cant do this anymore. If you have and advice feel free. At this point I just see a little girl that thinks mom should do it, a little girl that just doesn't want to try.