Is marriage a contract?

@amadeo (111948)
United States
February 20, 2018 12:07pm CST
Good afternoon there. So marriage is a contract.Well I never looked at it that way. Not sure what they mean by contract.Does this mean a mutual agreement ? I for one have not sign a contract.Know many young couple today sign some sort of mutual agreement. Was that a new trend a while back.His and Her signed a contract of the do's and don't's? I am sure that this is still going on today. photo online
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
21 Feb 18
In Italy the marriage is not considered "a contract" but it is a "Legal Act" that gives you rights and duties. In fact you have to file for a divorce if you do not want to continue the marriage anymore.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@LadyDuck thank you for the information there.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Feb 18
We didn't sign any contracts. They weren't 'in' when we got married and neither of us had anything of value anyway. although Vince did have a fridge!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@JudyEv there you go he will want the Firdge
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• Eugene, Oregon
21 Feb 18
A step up huh? Hey, he got a good deal.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Feb 18
@JamesHxstatic Did you start married life with very little? We did but all our friends were in much the same boat. Nowadays it seems many newlyweds want a fully furnished place complete with new furniture before they'll take the plunge. Till then, some are even happy to sponge off Mum and Dad while they save up for their dream home.
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
20 Feb 18
I am not sure what it means really. I do know my husband and I both signed a marriage certificate. I think marriage is a lifetime commitment. I was very upset when my marriage ended. I went into marriage for it to be forever.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@shaggin I see.So sorry about this.
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• Cuddalore, India
20 Feb 18
In this generation its going on like that only. No true love.Only murder and money everywhere.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@Lighntecityabishek96 interesting way of looking there?
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
20 Feb 18
Yes contracts or pre nups are the usual now
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@Courage7 correct there.
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• New Delhi, India
21 Feb 18
I dont believe that marriage is a contract. It is just a beautiful thing in itself. Its about two people becoming one for ever. Its about sharing love between two people.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
22 Feb 18
@Swayamsiddha Here in the states most people do.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@Swayamsiddha Many people sign contract to protect their investment before tying the knots.
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• New Delhi, India
22 Feb 18
@amadeo I have not heard about in my area
@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
21 Feb 18
well in a sense maybe! I guess people have certain expectations.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@snowy22315 yes they do.
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 Feb 18
No we have no contract but these days it is often wise to protect what you come into a marriage with.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@Bellestarr yes we so many people getting divorced they need to protect what they have
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@Tampa_girl7 (48929)
• United States
21 Feb 18
For me it is more of a commitment
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@Tampa-_girl7 for some it is Marie
@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Feb 18
You didn't fill out any paperwork when you got married? I remember doing so. That's the contract.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@just4himOh yes we did.Your right on this.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
21 Feb 18
I have only heard of a prenuptial agreement between two people if there is a lot of money involved but never a contract.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@cintol I see.Well you sign a marriage certificate Like a contract.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
22 Feb 18
@amadeo I guess you could look at it that way, I mean your marriage certificate is saying you will stay loyal and faithful to one person so I guess that would be a contract of sorts.
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
21 Feb 18
that is how divorced people.look at marriage. to them its like taking a lease out on a car.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@PIethos very well said there.I loved it.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
21 Feb 18
Dont really think about it that way but I guess it is considered that from the early days.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
20 Feb 18
I don’t think of it that way but I did have to sign paperwork and give my thumbprint on the marriage certificate.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@NJChicaa I see that is interesting there.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@NJChicaa that so wonderful there.Yes he did buy a time sharelol
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@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
20 Feb 18
@amadeo I got married in Mexico. We had to have 4 witnesses, the whole ceremony was in Spanish. . . it was a trip! My husband still says that he bought a time share.
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• Eugene, Oregon
21 Feb 18
Marriage is kind of a legal contract that can be broken by a violation of the vows. Some today sign pre-nuptial (before marriage) agreements that protect the assets of each in the event of divorce. I would bet that Trump had Melania sign one.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@JamesHxstatic I think so too.You may be right.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
21 Feb 18
My understanding is that historically a contract was formed between two families when their children got married. One of the definitions of marriage is that it is a contract. Signing the marriage certificate shows acceptance of entering upon this contract. Marriage as we view it today is so different to what it used to be; love was rarely a reason for entering marriage in times long ago.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@Popplicious very well said there Liz.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Feb 18
I have no idea.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Feb 18
I think it's a contract between you and your partner. That you are agreeing to whatever circumstances running your way.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
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@Prdhan (587)
21 Feb 18
It is not only contract.It is one kind of holy Garden.Where my generation of flowers to appear.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@Prdhan thank you for this.
• Lagos, Nigeria
21 Feb 18
marriage is the union of man and woman or vice versa. marriage should not be a mutual agreement; marriage should btw two love couples with love, well understanding, tolenrance and well schedule plan for themself and there offspring.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
21 Feb 18
@joseprince123 That is when.No now