How to not have enemies in Mylot

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On my first few years in Mylot I gained a lot of enemies but now I don't have any. Maybe there are some people who don't like me but I never had an argument with someone for a long time. In fact a person I had a fight with here are actively talking here while being civil. I actually think that person forgot we fought before. 1. You can debate people for difference in opinion but do not turn a non debate topic into a debate. Why would you debate someone blogging about mourning her grandma's death or debate someone who is talking about how amazing her day. Yup there are members here who wants to start a drama in a topic that is not even a debate. 2. Don't comment on topics you are not interested in. You will just ruin that person's day. Why comment on a topic about Game of Thrones if you if you dont watch game thrones and hates game of thrones. Why comment on a discussion about how delicious strawberries are and just stop by to say strawberries are gross . In short don't be a Debbie Downer and ruin a topic you have nothing to contribute. Focus on things you are interested to. 3.Stay civil in debates- Do not insult a person because they have a different opinion, If you want to debate someone, talk about that person's opinion instead of calling that person names. 2. Do not Whine about being blocked, If you got blocked, move on, there are so many fishes in the sea. Stop playing victim and make a topic about it. 3. If you think a person did a violation, just report that person instead of publicly humiliating that person by calling them out publicly. My first 3 years in Mylot became hell because there was this person who kept accusing me of doing violations. 4.Do not comment on a topic without reading. I made a topic about a criminal who did a disgusting crime and someone just stopped by to praise me without reading my discussion. The person just stopped by to say the criminal is handsome. 5. Try to Understand someone's comment before replying, There are fights in Mylot that happened because of language barrier. I do admit in my first few years I had arguments here that were results of language barrier. 8 years ago a person and I fought because I used a figure of speech and that person didn't understand. He thought I was insulting him. He didnt know bad ass is a positive term, 6.Do not discriminate people , I remember person from a country with a conflict with another country, insults people from his country's rival. 7.Do not Generalize people. -There use to be a member here who ask Asian members if they eat dogs. Way to make an impression Amigo. 8. Dont be defensive of you violations- Some people here plays victim and defensive if their topic is deleted. 9.Do not be creepy- If you have a favorite member and you want to comment on that person's discussions, Go ahead but be subtle and not be a creepy stalker. I remember someone confessing his love to a member like a stalker.