Does it bother you when people shorten your name?

@Icydoll (36717)
India
February 26, 2018 9:37am CST
Some people don't like shorten there names and calling them with short nicks.Most of the times it depends on the closeness of between the two people .But some even though feel uncomfortable when we shorten their original names ,they do feel that the meaning of their names changes ,like to be called with their full names. Whatever it may be im comfortable and happy if my name is shorted and it depends on person too,as long as it is bit meaningful sweet and short I like it. How about you friends?do you like your name to be called sweet and short :)?or it bothers you.
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@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
28 Feb 18
It doesn't bother me unless they are doing it to mock me. Then I might just punch them square in their face.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
@Daljinder is anyone lucky so far?
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@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
28 Feb 18
@Icydoll Obviously, We are adults not kids to mock each others name.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Feb 18
@Daljinder haha that's the best thing to do punch when you don't like .
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
26 Feb 18
No ..its doesnt bother me..and also it depends on the person too
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@prashu228 that's nice prashu :). Yeah you are right it depends on person too
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@Juliaacv (48415)
• Canada
26 Feb 18
For me it depends on whom is shortening it, and how and where it is done. My husband will often call me Jul, which I have never minded. My Dad used to use all 3 of my names when he spoke to me, and I loved that, from him, but wouldn't from anyone else. Julia is a short name, so there really isn't any need to shorten it further.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@Juliaacv definitely it depends on person too friend :). that's pleasant feeling when our parents call it too..thanks for sharing dear.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
26 Feb 18
nope does not bother me.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
That's nice of you friend.
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@RasmaSandra (73408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Feb 18
When I went to high school most everyone called me Ras or Rasy and I never minded.
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@RasmaSandra (73408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Feb 18
@Icydoll No one around. I live all alone with my cat Sid.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@RasmaSandra mm that's ok dear friend..:) thank you for sharing :)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@RasmaSandra that's cool nature of you dear..Do anyone else call it now ?
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
26 Feb 18
Friends they never call us by names.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
26 Feb 18
@Icydoll you better know how they call
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@mohit459 then how they interact with you
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
27 Feb 18
nicknames, hmm at first yes, because before and even if my family calls me at my first name but when I entered to my current company they call me on my second name
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll there are times my mom call me as baby LOL haha
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
It's pleasant to hear when our family members call us with sweet nicknames
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@tech40 same here... whatever even though we grown up for parents we are always small kids ...it's sweet to hear too
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
26 Feb 18
I absolutely hate it when people do that to me. They call me Court, instead of Courtney ans it irritates me so much. Like, I have a name for a reason.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll i hate my name, but hate being called Court even more.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Courtlynn yeah I can understand..being called court is not good enough..hope they will understand and stop calling you like that.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Courtlynn I agree with you.. it's not good to call where there is no meaning and you have beautiful name.., definitely no wrong when you hate it
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@Hannihar (129443)
• Israel
27 Feb 18
I was born with one name and I shortened so sometimes people call me by the name I was born with and not the name I tell them. It doesn't matter because that is my name.
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@Hannihar (129443)
• Israel
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll Yes definitely. That is my name here in Israel. My Hebrew name is Hannah and I shortened to Hanni so that is my name Icydoll.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Hannihar can I call you hanni? :)
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Hannihar hanni is cute to call..what's the meaning of your name?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Feb 18
I don't mind because others pronounce my name very bad. Lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Feb 18
@Icydoll My real name is Chatur, so I like it when someone calls me Cha, instead of the whole full name. Lol
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Feb 18
@JustBhem that's sweet name..can I know the meaning ?.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@JustBhem yeah some people feel pronounce difficult and pronounce In their way.I liked the cool nature of you..nice of you friend
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
26 Feb 18
My name is already short! So...
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Feb 18
@Daelii haha yeah it is short ..but some friends call short names tooo short ..thank you dear friend for sharing
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll Honestly speaking,I don't care.What matters is whethere people like,love or respect me.
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
2 Mar 18
@Icydoll No,they call me "Jai".My real name is Jaishankar.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
2 Mar 18
@Shivram59 nice name
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Shivram59 that's nice nature of you .so friends call you like shiv ?
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
27 Feb 18
My name almost can't be shorten and it is not easy to make a nickname from it. Whenever someone tries to shorten or create a nickname, I warn them in a funny way that it is not acceptable for me.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@anikoonline that's okay dear friend...by the way whats the meaning of your name ?.if you like tell me
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@anikoonline nice to know .thank you for sharing
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• Hungary
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll It has no meaning. Aniko was a nickname form of Anne. Later it became a separate name. This is why it can't be turned into a nickname easily.
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@Sundie (255)
28 Feb 18
Not really. As long as it would make them comfortable. But the problem is that my close friends always enjoyed to call me by a certain name that is much longer from the real one.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Feb 18
@Sundie so do you enjoy when they call with certain long name ?.is it okay for you?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
28 Feb 18
@Sundie that's cool dear :) enjoy the day
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@Sundie (255)
28 Feb 18
@Icydoll Totally fine with me. I found it so sweet and cute hahaha
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
14 Mar 18
Not really many of my friends Call me AK who are ofcourse from the college time, tody many people address as Doc, there is problem dear @Icydoll! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Mar 18
@Icydoll , Thanks have a great day! Had your lunch?
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Mar 18
@AKRao24 that's okay friend...I can understand even though some close friends call short names some people don't like...it's good to know there will first before calling or else they feel bad. Take care friend...God bless you
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
27 Feb 18
I don't mind. My christian name is Linda and many people shorten it to Lyn but my best friend calls me Lindy Lou so she lengthens it!
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
27 Feb 18
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@sprite1950 that's nice of you dear friend...that's a cute name Linda ..I call you Lyn :)
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
27 Feb 18
No it's doesn't bother me! I like when people call my name in short!
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll ha ha ..
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Teekaaaa my sweety same like me
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@Prdhan (587)
27 Feb 18
Acceptable only if it is logical.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Feb 18
@Prdhan that's nice...what's the meaning of your name?
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@Prdhan (587)
27 Feb 18
@Icydoll Pradhan
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
22 Jun 18
My name is already short, and I already go by a particular 'nick name' if you want to call it that. My name is James, and I go by Jim. Most people call me Jim.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
23 Jun 18
Jim sounds good..I have seen all calling you by this name...
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
18 Dec 18
People call me by name by name. It's rare for me to call me Nena. I like my nickname and I do not mind.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 Dec 18
Nena sounds cute .
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
19 Dec 18
@Icydoll Thank you and I like it.