Happy home...healthy home

@prashu228 (37526)
India
February 28, 2018 9:54am CST
There is nothing wrong in having a big house in fact all should have a good house according to their interest. Recently me and my friends went for one of our colleagues house inauguration. Its a big house, they have spent a large amount on interior decoration. We all felt really happy about that, but my colleague keep on boasting about how much they have spent on the interiors , not once of twice its been months now still the same. we all just smile, because we know she just keeps boasting but not happy they always have some quarrels in her house..some ego problems. she keeps comparing her house with other colleagues who comparatively have smaller house, after listening to her for few months today my TL (team leader) just said it , " no use of having a big house when no one is happy"..she was hurt and left the place. I don't know what will be her reaction from tomorrow ... friends, what do you think about this? is my colleague wrong in boasting about her house and comparing with others ? I feel there is nothing wrong in boasting about her big house but should not hurt others feelings by comparing her house with others...what do you say?
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6 responses
• Cuddalore, India
28 Feb 18
A Team Leader should not interfere in internal affairs of others.They should not go beyond the limit.
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• Northampton, England
28 Feb 18
a very indian comment.lol
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• Cuddalore, India
28 Feb 18
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
It's not team leaders fault at all...upto what extent can we bear some one..who is showing others down
• Philippines
1 Mar 18
Well, He was right about that. What's the point of having a big house when the family isn't happy in it. I would rather have a small house with happy siblings that gets along just fine. Maybe she shouldn't have bragged in the first place.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
1 Mar 18
yes ..she thinks others dont have a big house like her so she can say anything
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
6 Mar 18
@Letranknight2015 we are not blaming her ..infact we dont talk anything about her, she is the who pokes into everything..so she should mend her ways..
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
@prashu228 You can't blame her if she doesn't have good family situation over.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
28 Feb 18
People who boast about material things use it to hide the lack they feel. They discover that material things don't buy love and won't give happiness.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
That's true..may be that's the case with her
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@Shiva49 (26196)
• Singapore
5 Mar 18
Everything should be in balance and comparing with others material possessions leads to unhappiness. When one works hard, he/she is entitled to the fruits but others may have different priorities. I had a friend who tried to put down others with sarcastic comments about how wealthy she was to an extent to make sure it hurt others! siva
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
5 Mar 18
yes..so true. , but the sad part is they don't realize how they hurt others
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@Kandae11 (53679)
28 Feb 18
Some people do boast about their possessions , especially when they are not very happy in other ways.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
That's true with her..but she can't bear others pointing out her fault
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
28 Feb 18
Ya...one much watch their mouth and words.... Uttering anything
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
It's not team leaders fault... problem is with the colleague who keep on taunting and showing others down.. there should be some one to keep a check..so TL did it
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
1 Mar 18
@mohit459 The question is not about administration system here...
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
1 Mar 18
@prashu228 yep... But our administrative system is poor... Not efficient
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