Have You Ever Been In An Argument On MyLot?
By Nitin
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
India
19 responses
@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
28 Feb 18
I try to resolve it if it is a misunderstanding. If not, I ignore the post and sometimes the mylotter.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
I actually tried resolving a misunderstanding but it led to something else so I also ignored and moved on as you do
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@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
2 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 You canĀ“t be friends with everyone. Not online and not offline.
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@LadyDuck (457925)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 I try to discuss politely with people. If I notice that it is impossible, I stop discussing and I let go.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
3 Mar 18
@LadyDuck You are really polite in addressing others, have learnt a few things from you that I had no knowledge about
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
I am positive you really handle things that nicely Anna
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
That would be the most polite argument I must have ever heard of
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
Yeah I really loved it at the first glance, great you never had an argument
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
Yeah that's true Icy, mostly when I smell that my response could just wind up in an unwanted war of comments I just skip it
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
1 Mar 18
I agree with you it is more of failing to understanding the response or misunderstanding rather than argument ! I try to explain the persons with simple logic in a healthy way while taking care of their egos dear @nitirrbb7 ! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
4 Mar 18
My dear friend @nitirrbb7 I always like one to address in that way...well people said that they don't mind if I call fellow Indian as my dear friend here so I have taken the liberty to call you as My dear Friend!
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
3 Mar 18
Yeah you certainly do that my friend, I guess you don't mind me addressing you as My Friend or Dear Friend
I read that conversation
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
12 Mar 18
I haven't been here long enough to have an argument and I hope I never will. I don't like confrontation but if I think someone is getting at me I will say something.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
13 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 If someone is blatently rude to me I will probably say something although not in a nasty way. I will just let them know that I don't think it's appropriate to speak to someone that way.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
13 Mar 18
Not everyone is bugged here, but there are a few who just can't themselves away from messing things up with others. I hope you don't encounter any
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
13 Mar 18
@sprite1950 I appreciate that, keeping control over ownself is more important than to act impatiently
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
28 Feb 18
No i never had any arguments .. I won't usually involve in any
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
1 Mar 18
I am certain about that, you wont involve yourself in something like that
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
20 Mar 18
Yes, I have!! There is this guy named Nitin who always wants to start fights all over myLot!
Have you run into him yet?
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
20 Mar 18
Yeah not here on myLot but in the mirror everyday
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
21 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Wow! I am so sorry that happens to you, Nitin! (Especially since I would send you a poster sized photo of DE! You could put him up over your mirrors! )
I have helped several people on myLot avert or abort arguments they unintentionally started. Usually one of the people don't read/write English very well...
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
21 Mar 18
@DaddyEvil Thanks DE I would really like to have you on my mirrors You really are one of the nicest person I have come across here on myLot. Even though my English is also not good but you never let me feel about that
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
9 Mar 18
@Swayamsiddha Yeah a couple of times and things got really out of control and they were our own fellow men, sometimes I believe what others have to say about is true
@Swayamsiddha (4358)
• New Delhi, India
9 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Did u ever fall in an arguement
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@MashaVickina (2184)
• Russian Federation
28 Feb 18
No, for me it is difficult to even imagine it in here
But I am extremely dangerous and evil in argumens
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@levis2020 (171)
• Philippines
13 Mar 18
Yes, twice already. It was clear how my view clashed with the views of two mylotter's here. My style is that I pushed my arguments and my point of view and backed it up with common sense reasoning. I even went to the extent that I attacked directly their views and branded them as false. Of course they were offended, and they counter by saying that I lack brains or something like that. That will really insult you if you are sensitive. But for me, once I presented my argument, that would be enough. Nothing personal just self-expression.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
14 Mar 18
Wow you are one straight forward person that I have come across here
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
15 Mar 18
@levis2020 That's true arguments often lead to quarrels and specially egoistic person never except the fact even though they very well know that they are wrong. I just let of nowadays because it no use they will bring you to their levels.
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@levis2020 (171)
• Philippines
14 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Arguments often lead to quarrels and hurt feelings or ego. I never go to the extent of name-calling. It is only an exchange of ideas, and interaction between two opposing views. We can argue on some topic but we can agree on other things.
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Mar 18
I was attacked verbally by another member, with anger and wrath. Did I fight back? No, she had misunderstood what I said.
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 I just left her alone, to spew out her angry words.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
28 Mar 18
Misunderstanding that's one of the biggest reasons that people get aggressive here at times. I honor that you kept your patience and din't retaliate back or else it would have lead to nothing but more misconceptions.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
14 Jun 18
That means you either have not been in any or you don't keep anything in mind if you have ever been in an argument with anyone ever
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