Strangers Who Want To Get More Personal.

@nitirrbb7 (4317)
India
March 4, 2018 4:01am CST
I am sure no one is comfortable disclosing their personal information to strangers specially on sites like myLot or other social media websites. But there are few we encounter every now and then who are very keen to know who and where you from. I have come across a few and if we try to avoid them they try get over your nerves Have you met someone like such who tried to get personal with you?
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@kavinitu (5535)
• India
4 Mar 18
I totally agree with @Icydoll, I do not like to share my personal information with strangers, Why should I? These people get into our nerves asking the same question again and again even when they very well know that we are ignoring them.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
Yeah that's true there are a few who just can't take the ignorance and start getting on your nerves asking the same silly question until he is marked of as a
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
4 Mar 18
@kavinitu yeah Kavi they keep on asking and give trouble..I simply avoid ..it's best thing to do dear.
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@kavinitu (5535)
• India
4 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Yes Absolutely
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
4 Mar 18
It doesn't really bother me as I am usually thousands of miles away from most of the people here anyway. I don't mind disclosing little things about myself as long as they don't ask me for anything financial.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
4 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Maybe but we only have to give what we are comfortable disclosing and not answer anything too personal.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
Yeah some are comfortable to a certain limit of disclosure but at times it doesn't seem to satisfy the stranger.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
@sprite1950 Yeah that's also true, its upto us also
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
4 Mar 18
They can ask me all they want but the last say if I want to answer or what info I want to give or share is still mine, I fully understand that when I join a site like Mylot, there would be lots of people with different traits, personalities, peculiarities, education etc... beides the more they ask the more I earn. Go ahead ask me all you want but if I do not answer you should understand what it means, it's your own lookout and thanks in advance for adding to my bank
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 just the same don't answer the stalker, you have the control of the game, you earned something there, he or she did not make anything. Hope you got the message across to the person by then.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
That's also done if we don't reply that person should understand that we are not interested but, I had someone who was very keen to know and even posted on another of my discussion that you din't reply to my question in your previous post
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
6 Mar 18
@louievill Yes I very well did and straight away blocked him to avoid more.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
4 Mar 18
Well, I guess I am one who may push to know more about a person than they wish to tell. I don't ask to try to bother anyone. I just like to know who I am talking with. I am sorry if I have invaded your privacy, Nitin. I will not do it again.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
4 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 No, Nitin, I saw your discussion and felt you meant me. I know I ask a lot of questions but I like knowing the person I am talking with. I really like you or I wouldn't bother teasing you so much. Please, if you ever feel like I am being too nosy, tell me.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
Please DE you would be the last person on the earth whom I would ever point fingers too Each time I see you in my notifications I am super excited to know what you got to say You know I just missed you pulling my leg lately when you weren't here
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
@DaddyEvil It was certainly not you DE and believe me I never felt you ever got that personal with me or in other words I never felt you were a stranger to me I would be really be bothered if you stop being nosy with me
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
4 Mar 18
Asking someone to mention the name of the country where they live is not getting personal. It's a sad fact that many posts don't make sense if the reader doesn't know where a member lives. I once read a post with the sentence, "It's raining here." No idea where 'here' was.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
Yeah actually asking someone the country if its not displayed is normal but I had encountered someone who knew from which country I am but he wanted more in-dept where in the country the exact location.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 That would be like asking for too much.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
@mydanods Yes he was very
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@Hannihar (129431)
• Israel
4 Mar 18
I am a private person and really do not trust to let everyone inside my world. I am not sure who is going to use it against me.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
I do agree with you.
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@Hannihar (129431)
• Israel
5 Mar 18
@mydanods thank you Nnaemeka.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
That's true the word trust is just word of the past, now its being used as a weapon to destroy others dignity.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
5 Mar 18
It is very simple. Just ignore those questions. I do.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Yeah I did and this guy again pops somewhere else "you din't reply"
@LeaPea2417 (36431)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Mar 18
I will discuss things with only a few online friends who I have gotten to know over the years and who I consider friends.
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@LeaPea2417 (36431)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Yes, those who want to know so much very well could be scammers.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
I agree with you on that if we have been communicating with each other online for long and the trust is developed between us then sharing is alright but there are few who come along and want to know every bit of your life in detail.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
6 Mar 18
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
4 Mar 18
I do not reveal personal details. If some questions annoy me, I delete.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Not to enter into arguments, the best is to delete the comment.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
That's would be the right thing to do get personal and your deleted.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 18
I haven't had any problems yet so I hope I don't run into such people in the future. I'd just move on and perhaps block them if I really felt they were getting too annoying.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
I wish you don't ever come across any and if you do you very well have the right choice
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@Shiva49 (26200)
• Singapore
5 Mar 18
I keep away from busybodies; it is second nature to them to make themselves a nuisance. Some are curious to know how much others earn and even ask point blank at the first encounter - siva
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Seriously some are really that interfering and they are only bothered to gather information at their first interaction.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
4 Mar 18
The fun of mylot is the anonymity...Haven't had anybody getting personal
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Nice you din't come across anyone such, and hope you won't have to
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
4 Mar 18
Yeah they are everywhere..specially on Mylot too.if I'm not interested to reveal the details I just ignore them.its no wrong knowing about ones country other than that one should not cross the limit.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
4 Mar 18
Yeah there are many over here who really want to know more than your country and if we ignore them they take it as if we have attitudes
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@dya80dya (33510)
4 Mar 18
No. I never met such people here.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Good of you that you never, and hope you never do
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 18
Yes I come across such people and what I do is ignore such people .
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
That's the best policy, just ignore them
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@DianneN (246710)
• United States
5 Mar 18
I haven't run across anyone like that here. If I did, I'd report them, then block them.
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@DianneN (246710)
• United States
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 Thank you and I certainly know what to do.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
I wish you never ever, and even if you do you very will know whats the right choice
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@just4him (306079)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Mar 18
Not in a while, but yes, I have.
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@just4him (306079)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 It is.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
That must be really irritating moment for you.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
4 Mar 18
One would feel more comfortable disclosing certain information when the avatar does not show one's face.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
I would agree with you on that disclosing information to a limit is alright if you are not displaying your original profile picture.
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
4 Mar 18
Till now I haven't...as I don't have an account in much social networking except Insta...
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
6 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 good morning... Now I'm not on any social networking... Deleted insta account yesterday.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
7 Mar 18
@mohit459 that was pretty quick you just deleted it
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Good you haven't and hope you never, its really frustrating at times
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• Philippines
4 Mar 18
yeah i've met but not in this site.. and i blocked them right away.. it's so annoying!
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
Oh you had experience it, good you blocked him right away, it certainly is irritating
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
5 Mar 18
@Betxie1221 I guess you did the right thing blocking
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
@nitirrbb7 yeah! so annoying like we chat on office hours and do chat like a maniacs! grrrrrh! it really piss me off!
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