I want to get old.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 5, 2018 11:01pm CST
I remember before when I was still groovy and fun-filled human being, it's not that I am not now. Lol, Let me say I'm not that active type of human being anymore because of my illness but as much as possible I tried to be as lively as I can be. Before, I don't want to get old. I don't want to get wrinkles or white hair. Most of the people will tell me, I don't look like my age. I'm 34 and someone will still be mistaken me for 25. Is that cool? Is it a compliment to me? Maybe. I was chatting with @thelme55 and she gave me ideas on what to discuss here. And I am thankful. She too wants me to get old so that I can see my nieces and nephews grow. Do you want to get old or still want to be young? The photo I grabbed from Google.com
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@JudyEv (325345)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Mar 18
I am old but I guess I don't mind getting a bit older.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
8 Mar 18
Judy, I am old and do not want to get older.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
I think getting old is one of our biggest achievement because not all of us will live that long.
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@JudyEv (325345)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Mar 18
@Hannihar No but getting older is better than the alternative, don't you think?
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
6 Mar 18
Just like Judy, I already am old. I would be glad to become a bit older, not too much, I do not want to reach the age of 100, but I would like to live some more years. I don't have wrinkles, you can dye your hair and people can mistake you for a lot younger woman.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
6 Mar 18
@JustBhem You can get old and still look beautiful, do not worry.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
But then I want to get old just like you so that I can still see the beauty of life and see my nieces and nephews gets old too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
@LadyDuck I don't mind if I will still be pretty ( as if I'm pretty ) okay, I will pretend I'm pretty. All I want is to get old and be with my love ones.
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• Philippines
6 Mar 18
You should take it as a compliment, and be careful what you wished for. I've long desired about growing up but if I knew what I know now I would have had enjoyed my childhood more.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
If only I know I will get sick, I will get married right away and have kids. You know that kind of thing.
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
More years for you Bhem. :)
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@vandana7 (98731)
• India
7 Mar 18
Nice way of wishing her long life. :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Thank you, Sol.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
6 Mar 18
I never want to get old, but getting old sure beats dying. Yes you do look younger than your age. That usually is a compliment. And yes, we all want you to grow old!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Thanks, @Courtlynn, I sure want to get old.
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• New Delhi, India
6 Mar 18
Wanna be young and strong
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
You can and you will.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
7 Mar 18
I am already old and want to get a bit younger
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
We can still do that. Be old and live younger.
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
6 Mar 18
Nobody wants to get old. I myself I don't want to get old but old age is what we are saddled with. It's a time we should embrace when it comes because it comes with it's own challenges.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
6 Mar 18
@JustBhem Sometimes so soon that we didn't know when it came.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Getting older, we can't undo that. It will come to us soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
@mydanods Yes, just live the normal.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
I am one year older than you. I used to get that comment before. Not anymore now because I looked stressed.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Stressed makes us old, I know that because that's how I feel. Let's fight back.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
I am one year older than you. I used to get that comment before. Not anymore now because I looked stressed.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
Stress is everywhere. I guess you need to get some rest.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
7 Mar 18
@jobelbojel You off work on Thursdays and Fridays or something else?
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem I will be resting on Thur and Fri.
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
I am turning 52 this April and I am thankful because i have reach this age. I still hope and pray that He will give me more years to live so that i can still feel and see the beauty of life especially the happiness of being a grandmother...
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
8 Mar 18
@JustBhem thank you for that... i am hoping for it too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Mar 18
@magallon Let's grow old together.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
God will give you more years @magallon because you are kind.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
6 Mar 18
I just want to rewind the time
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@vandana7 (98731)
• India
7 Mar 18
Black and white movie!!!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
If only we can, I will do my best to change everything.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem sometime we can't
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• United States
6 Mar 18
There's a song lyric from Hall and oates I am reminded of, I don't wanna be wise, I just wanna stay young! Love this one
Daryl Hall & John Oates' official music video for 'So Close'. Click to listen to Daryl Hall & John Oates on Spotify: http://smarturl.it/DHJOSpotify?IQid=SoC ...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Yay, thanks for sharing this one.
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• United States
6 Mar 18
@JustBhem no problem
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Hi. I want to get old and see my grandchildren but still have that heart of a child.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
We can do that. We can be old and young at heart.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I'm 34 and will be 35 by July. And yet I'm still wearing sneakers. Lol
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Mar 18
@JustBhem i bet it would be fun.
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@just4him (305532)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Mar 18
I am old, but I feel young.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
I can see that @just4him, you are such a lively person.
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@just4him (305532)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem I try to be lively.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@just4him And thanks for sharing your aliveness with me.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
6 Mar 18
I have not regretted getting older. Each birthday that comes is a blessing. Age to me is a state of mind.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
6 Mar 18
@JustBhem I have a lot of health issues so every day is a blessing to me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@HazySue Same with me. Yes, every day is a blessing for us.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 18
Of course, but for a sickly person such as I am, the only thing I want to do is to get old.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
my sister-in-law had her 3 kids borne in 3 successive years. now, she, my brother and their 3 kids are like siblings because the children grow old with their parents. me? i delivered my son when i was 32 years old.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem right on that. how about you? when you feel well, don't you have plans to raise a child? the miscarriage that you had, as what you explained in a discussion of yours, i think will make you stronger as a future mother.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@ridingbet I wanted to be a mother and have a child my own. When I got pregnant, the emotions are mixed up and a lot of what if's. The boyfriend was too young and I was the only one working while he is still supported by his parents. To be honest, I didn't know what to do. I was overwhelmed by the idea I will have a kid someday that I forgot I am sick already. During those times I have high blood and I already have my maintenance. When the Doctor said I need to have it abort right away, I got hysterical because I know the baby still lives inside me. If ever miracle happens to me like my Kidney will function again, I will have a lot of kids and I promise myself to take care of them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
The good thing is you were able to have him.
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@kobesbuddy (74430)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Mar 18
As I grow older, it doesn't bother me at all! First being a daughter, then became a mother, a grandmother, and now a great grandmother. Getting older is something I don't mind, one bit!:)
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@kobesbuddy (74430)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem My parents lived to be 90(Mom), (91)Grandma, and 92(Dad). They were remarkable people:)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
Definitely. How I would love to experience the same.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@kobesbuddy Oh and I envy them if only I knew I will be like this. I would have my own Family at an early age and have children.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
7 Mar 18
I also do not look my age. I never did and that is nice but since I am no longer young I feel my age more and more these days. I do not know why someone would want to be old. It is not fun.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem Bhem, what makes you think when you get old you will live longer?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@Hannihar Because that means I can have Birthdays more when I get old.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
I want to get old because that means I live longer. For those people who are still able, a sure thing being old is not for them.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
7 Mar 18
I'm a Senior Citizen. Can't say that it came suddenly, though some days it feels like it. The magic is to live as happily as you can for the day while planning your future. Old age will definitely come when it does, be ready for it. Know when to get your Social Security Benefits, see what other benefits America has at benefits.gov. Life should be enjoyed today and the rest of your tomorrows. You'll grow old one day, but not tomorrow. There is an old American adage...there are 2 things in life you can be sure of taxes and old age. I would love to grow older, keep my mobility & senses forever and my good health please, thank you!
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@oahuwriter I always pray that I will get better or I will be okay.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
Thank you for sharing this. Yes, I want to get old. I want to have more life since I'm sick I don't know will God pull the plug for me. If in the case given a chance to get old and have more years, it would be awesome for me.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem You could pray to Jesus for a miracle cure? Along with your doctor there are prayers too that heal and cure too if you'd like to go this route. But you got to see which one is right for you with a little research online you can pick one that's right for you. Prayers are a good thing and so is the doctor that is trying to cure you too and together I hope for a miracle for you. Take care!