I don't care.

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@Kandae11 (53601)
March 7, 2018 2:00pm CST
Perhaps there aren't very many here who think the same as me, but I must admit that I really don't care what the members I interact with look like. If a member wishes to post his/her picture - that's fine with me - if not - that's fine with me too. The most I would be interested in is whether the member I am interacting with is male or female - otherwise, I'm cool. Members here want to feel relaxed and at ease, so it is up to them to remain a mystery lady or man if they so desire. What do you think?
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• Preston, England
7 Mar 18
my picture is on my profile - I don't mind if others don't share their images
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@mydanods (6514)
• Nigeria
7 Mar 18
Same with me.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
The choice is theirs yes.
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@much2say (53664)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Mar 18
I've never posted a photo of me here (in fact, I've never changed my avatar at all here!). But I do hope people realize that I am "female"!
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
You have been here long enough for one to know from your posts - and your profile. Though it isn't mentioned in the profile of some members.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
I agree with you, but sometimes I mistook some members for a woman or man because of their names. But it doesn't matter if they want their identity to be private, it's their choice.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Mistaking male for female has happened to me countless times.
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@JustBhem (70601)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I think we can't avoid it, right. And I don't think it is a nice to ask them their gender. Do you think?
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
@JustBhem Not when responding to a post, but it should be there in the profile at least.
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@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
Yeah, me too. I don't care about what ever they look like. I'm looking for the conversation, and the connection to the topic.
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@mydanods (6514)
• Nigeria
7 Mar 18
Right on from me too.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Right on.
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@Icydoll (36725)
• India
7 Mar 18
Yeah most of them come here to feel relax and me too.I also don't bother about other things.its upto their wish..
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Most definitely.
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@Prdhan (587)
8 Mar 18
Thank you.
@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
7 Mar 18
It is the very least of my worries about pics here.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Yes, it should be the least.
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@Courage7 (19635)
• United States
7 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I like all the pics too
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@allknowing (130088)
• India
7 Mar 18
I am only visible on Face Book and there my page is open only for friends.
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@allknowing (130088)
• India
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 Not a close up
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
You did post a picture here once or twice?
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
@allknowing like my avatar which is a sketch of myself. If I published a real picture it would be me many years ago - not that there is any big difference now, I even weigh less than I did in my twenties.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Mar 18
I don't mind either way personally. =)
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
That's great - either way, it's fine.
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@Madshadi (8853)
• Brussels, Belgium
7 Mar 18
I am more interested in what people write than how they look
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Same here.
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@marlina (154183)
• Canada
7 Mar 18
I prefer to stay a Mystery Person.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
I like a bit of mystery.
@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 18
It is the same with me. I do not mind to see a picture, I prefer to know from which country the people are and if I am discussing with a man or a woman. Knowing the country is important when people start a discussion talking about habits and customs. Sometimes I have no idea what they are talking about.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 The country is enough, I do not ask for the name of the city or the village.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
Or which region at least --- not a complete blank.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
@LadyDuck That is true - especially when one lives in a vast country with a population of many, many millions.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
7 Mar 18
I don't care. I honestly prefer ambiguity on the internet. I really dislike Facebook because it demands a picture. I love the mysterious age of the internet, and I would like to see more of it. My avatar is indeed me, but a me from 2004 or so. Back when I had hair and only destructive energies swirling about. I was very unbalanced, and easily corrupted by dark energies. Perhaps I will let people see me as I am now... eventually. Sadly, the pieces aren't in place yet for a grand reveal.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
7 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I thought you'd like that part. :) I like to have fun with images, so my reveal will coincide with an event that will take place in the future. Right now, I'm still building the pieces before I can put them in place. It makes life a little more fun! I like your drawing. I used to draw portraits in the past, but I couldn't do it now. I had tons of practice back then.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
Ha ha - a grand reveal. My avatar is a drawing I did of myself some eight years ago - I like a bit of mystery.
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@Icydoll (36725)
• India
7 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I really liked your drawing...is it only pencil sketching ?.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
8 Mar 18
Even with some photos I have had difficulty deciding if it's a male or female. To each his or her own.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 So true!
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• United States
8 Mar 18
I had to laugh! True!
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
You are correct - some photos turn out not to be real also.
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@JohnRoberts (109865)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Mar 18
It's supposed to be about words and what we say not image.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
7 Mar 18
My feelings exactly.
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@snowy22315 (168401)
• United States
8 Mar 18
That's the cool thing about the internet, you can remain anonymous. I used to be in a chat room where everyone wanted everyone else to post their picture. I never did. It isn't that I look terrible..I just don't think it is necessary.
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@snowy22315 (168401)
• United States
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 Exactly, I feel like my photo is available "on request" I'll decide whether I want to give it to the person or not.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
I am more interested in the person's mind - how they think. I would go to a dating site if I am looking for someone to date.
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@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
7 Mar 18
Yeah to each his own, we must remember that there are a lot of different personalities here and so long as no guidelines are violated it's just fine with me.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
Me too.
@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
8 Mar 18
I don't care if the person is male or female with whom I am talking too here.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 hmm..That happens sometimes.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
Depending on the subject under discussion, I can make a better response if I know.
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@db20747 (43406)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
15 Mar 18
I'm going to post a pic of me really quickly, but y'all better get a good look quick because I'm going to delete in two minutes!!!
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@db20747 (43406)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
15 Mar 18
@Kandae11 please do!! And let me know when!!! Send me a message!!! That's very artistic, your drawing of your face
@Kandae11 (53601)
15 Mar 18
I am tempted to post a real cute one of me in my twenties.
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@nela13 (55684)
• Portugal
8 Mar 18
I really don't mind if people have their own picture or not, their age or their race as long as they are good fellows here.
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@nela13 (55684)
• Portugal
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 So do I
@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
Learning, interaction and having fun - with the bonus of being paid something - I am happy with that.
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@mlgen1037 (29901)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Mar 18
Hi! I do not mind as long as they are here for clean fun and interaction. That is way better than fighting. People want peace and serenity.
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@Kandae11 (53601)
8 Mar 18
That's what I think. If the member is not comfortable showing his or her face - then that is quite alright.
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@mlgen1037 (29901)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I agree.