Can you please stop being so darn fake....and selfish....and stupid....oh and....UGH!
@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
Perth, Australia
March 8, 2018 9:05am CST
I don't know what it is but my tolerance for people nowadays are becoming thinner and thinner.
For as long as I can remember I have been way too understanding. Making excuses for people being the way that they are. Giving them too many chances to get away with it.
"Maybe they are greedy because they weren't given much in life." "Maybe they are a cow because they are having a rough time." "Even though I helped them, maybe they can't help me because they are too busy." "Maybe they are patronising me because they just don't know how to teach me in a more nice way." "Maybe they are being rude because they feel so strongly about their opinions."
You know what? I am sick of it! I am willing to give people ONE chance now. If you hurt me or are rude I will still wonder if everything is ok with them in regards to their life but if they keep being a poop over and over well screw it! I will just label them as an A HOLE! Because people are! Have you noticed it??
I have noticed them on social media constantly contradicting themselves making out they are a nice person when really, they are not!
I have noticed people who say they will be there to help you out but you never hear from them unless they want something from you!
Or those bloody people who keep on patronising others! Whatever happened to people just asking "Are you ok?" or "Do you need help?" Or giving friendly advice. Why do they have to look down on you when you already feel like crap?
Sorry my thoughts are probably all over the place right now but I just have to vent this now before I explode on the actual people who are being total cold hearted morons!
Trust me, I am not perfect either. NO ONE is but goodness sakes! I feel like I am becoming a b*tch because of these people! I honestly feel like my once kind nature is being tampered with.
I UNDERSTAND that everyone is different and people can have a day of not being themselves because they are going through something. But for how long must excuses be made for them for being a turd every single time they open their mouths?
I feel horrible too. I don't wish to hurt anyone. While tying this I am already feeling guilty about speaking badly of people. I am sick of being hurt or being treated like scum. And don't get me wrong please! I am also directing this at every single person out there who is being the best person they can be but also get treated in such a horrible way by some people.
I don't understand why people need to be the worst person they can when someone is trying to treat them the best way they can.
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7 responses
@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
8 Mar 18
Would it be too much of me to say that it excites me when you finally do let it out?
One of the most annoying thing (
) about you is that you are annoyingly polite even though the situation doesn't demand it. Being polite is not something bad. Only there are situations where I wish that you lose your politeness for a moment. 
I swear I often fist my hands to stop myself from typing to scream "AHH... Screw politeness! Tell'em what you really feel. Damn it!!!". LOL! 
It seems like all fun and games 
But I really do wish that you lose your censor once. Just once for a whole day! I think I might start looking for a shooting star from now on. 
) about you is that you are annoyingly polite even though the situation doesn't demand it. Being polite is not something bad. Only there are situations where I wish that you lose your politeness for a moment.
I swear I often fist my hands to stop myself from typing to scream "AHH... Screw politeness! Tell'em what you really feel. Damn it!!!". LOL!
It seems like all fun and games But I really do wish that you lose your censor once. Just once for a whole day! I think I might start looking for a shooting star from now on. 2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
11 Mar 18
@Daljinder lol I love your answer. Even though I can understand your frustration, I still found this sweet and giggled to myself. But still, thank you!
Thing is though! I know that I come to you often and lose my cool and speak of things that I don't usually let out on other people but thing is, is that when I am explaining myself to people who have bothered me, I just somehow manage to cool down and explain without losing my cool because like I said before, I believe points can be made without swearing, being mean or turning the conversation into a heated one.
If I do happen to lose my cool then that just means they have pushed me to the very edge.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
11 Mar 18
@Daljinder LOL! I honestly can't help it! I mean it's not like I have a pole up my butt. I know how to have fun and let loose. But if we are discussing something that's meaningful to me or to the other person then the only way I can act on it is by being me. I don't know if this is how I would have naturally turned out OR maybe I am this way because I watched my parents fight over the most stupidest things that only caused heartache for them and those watching. ( me )
HAHA! Well that kinda brings me to the same point as above. My parents used to fight over stupid things and then escalate it by doing stupid things or saying stupid things that only made it on going. When it could have been resolved hours earlier by staying on point. I can't say I know how they felt in the process but the yelling, throwing of items, occasionally smashing them, the crying and frustration said it all. And not only that, it was how I felt. I don't want to be involved into such an awful argument if it can be sorted in a more mature and less hurtful way.
lol! I miss playing with water balloons. 
Don't miss trying to tie them though! Oh that was a pain! There is this new toy though that allows to you fill up about 10 ( I think ) water balloons at the same time AND it ties it for you instantly!!!! 
Don't miss trying to tie them though! Oh that was a pain! There is this new toy though that allows to you fill up about 10 ( I think ) water balloons at the same time AND it ties it for you instantly!!!! 1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
11 Mar 18
@VivaLaDani13 ............and the rant continues.....
Another annoying thing about you is that you are annoyingly reasonable and logical. I sometimes wish that you just chill out a little bit. Not be too serious about everything especially when you are trying to talk me into being reasonable. I want to stomp my foot and scream "I want to be unreasonable, Damn it!"
But the even more annoying thing about you is that "You are bloody right. Make a lot of sense!" And guess what? That means that your annoyingly reasonable points are working! 
Slinks away to put the water balloon grenades away since I am thinking reasonably now.
Another annoying thing about you is that you are annoyingly reasonable and logical. I sometimes wish that you just chill out a little bit. Not be too serious about everything especially when you are trying to talk me into being reasonable. I want to stomp my foot and scream "I want to be unreasonable, Damn it!"
But the even more annoying thing about you is that "You are bloody right. Make a lot of sense!" And guess what? That means that your annoyingly reasonable points are working!
Slinks away to put the water balloon grenades away since I am thinking reasonably now. 1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 18
@Courage7 I don't blame you. But at the same time, it's a shame how people can make us feel this way. I am sorry you have been dealing with these types of people.
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@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
8 Mar 18
@Courage7 wow You sure met some pricks to make you feel isolated. 
Some people are just unbelievable
I hope myLot is treating you well
Some people are just unbelievable
I hope myLot is treating you well2 people like this
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 18
same here, I rant a lot to my mother and father.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
11 Mar 18
@wongchoiyee I am glad you have your parents to talk to about people who annoy you! Always good to vent. 
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
8 Mar 18
I'm so sorry that you've been on the receiving end of such behaviour Dani. Unfortunately there will always be negative people around, some of them downright nasty. The trick is to try to avoid them or just ignore them. I know that's easier said than done.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
11 Mar 18
@jaboUK That is true. Some days I can handle it and other days I am just stunned with how people can be. Loving your advice. Thank you. 
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@Shiva49 (26200)
• Singapore
8 Mar 18
I have had people taking me for granted and letting me down when I least expected them to do.
They have made me to be wary and not depend on others at all but we still do not know what help we may require from whom.
The biggest issue that we face is lack of time and attention and regard for others. Everyone seems to be busy mostly with gadgets and human interactions are not a priority now. And the older generation are playing catch up not to be left on the shelf!
It is a different world and a different attitude generally with people more flippant towards others - siva
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 18
@Shiva49 I am so sorry people have treated you so unkind! I don't understand why so many people are like this!
I understand what you mean and agree with you completely!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 18
@deba12 With all due respect, but I am sorry but I think you're not understanding my view completely. My temper is because of these people. What I am saying is, there is only so much one can take in regards to being treated badly. Which I am not doing so. It is others doing it to me.
My temper is because of these people. What I am saying is, there is only so much one can take in regards to being treated badly. Which I am not doing so. It is others doing it to me.1 person likes this
@deba12 (2951)
• India
8 Mar 18
@VivaLaDani13 Sorry, I got you wrong. If others are treating you badly, I think you have no other way out but to avoid them.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
8 Mar 18
@deba12 No harm done! Just thought I would explain in a different way. I like your advice! 
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@scarlet_woman (23465)
• United States
9 Mar 18
easy.you're getting older.my fuse is about 2 seconds long anymore.
but then again,i never really had one in my 20's either..
but then again,i never really had one in my 20's either..1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60347)
• Perth, Australia
11 Mar 18
@scarlet_woman lol that's fair enough. 
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