really shame...

@Prshnth (921)
Bangalore, India
March 8, 2018 10:40am CST
You know what's the hardest thing in life . failing in exams. not once not twice but thrice.... you know how it feels when when you know that your father have no hope on you but you have to do something greater to prove that you are not a waste body....i can never convince my father unless i really in a good position in life.... I am caring what my father thinks of me more than what i am thinking of my self..
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@TheSojourner (17306)
• United States
8 Mar
Our parents only know what they no and what they think is best. But that doesn't make it easier for us as children. But when we are an adult child, we have to figure out who we are aside from what our parents think of us. And I know how difficult that is. I lived that.
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
yes tough days
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@nomus24g (24406)
• India
8 Mar
Who failed in exams? which subjects?
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
me in engineering
@nomus24g (24406)
• India
10 Mar
@Prshnth which field?
@AKRao24 (20672)
• India
8 Mar
Obviously for a father his son is the person who will fulfill his unfulfilled dreams of his life dear @Prshnth! So i don't find any fault with him ...yes please don't get dejected and pay some attention and clear your exams for your self and your loving father! God bless!
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
what you are saying is right ...but if i ever become a father i would not put my weight of expectations on my son
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@AKRao24 (20672)
• India
10 Mar
That is the exact way I used to think when I was of your age dear @Prshnth ! Today luckily my son is well placed as an Professional person who is married now...but then I know what all I had to do for him to keep in the flow..that was not for me but that was for him and for his bright future! He also must have thought about me in the same fashion as you are thinking now fpr your father! This is a vicious cycle happening in every generation....we come to understand about these things only when we become father and take the responsibility of the our kid's future! Thanks!
@iridion9 (9159)
• Philippines
9 Mar
What exam exactly? medicine? bar exam? engineering? what?
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
engineering....
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@anikoonline (3208)
• Hungary
8 Mar
I think it is not the hardest thing. Of course failing is painful and starting again is also hard, but there are many worse things in life. Don't give up, next time you will succeed!
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
thanks for the kind words
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@Icydoll (23496)
• India
8 Mar
Failures are steps of success and everyone tries their level best in exams .. sometimes it does not work out..it doesn't mean you not capable of doing anything..be strong and try to put more effort ... definitely you will be a proud son to your father...never give up .
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
thanks for the words...
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@Corbin5 (113055)
• United States
8 Mar
I think most of us what to please our parents with our achievements, but sometimes our parents expect too much from us. It is best to achieve to please yourself, in my opinion.
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
i also think like you....but i don't want my father to be unhappy either
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@Kandae11 (40293)
8 Mar
Don't give up - just do the best you can.
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@Prshnth (921)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar
yes i am doing
@kanchan10 (3138)
• Kolkata, India
8 Mar
that is so sweet of you.
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