Are You Desperate like Me In Mylot?

@AKRao24 (21432)
India
March 9, 2018 12:31pm CST
I become desperate the moment I post a discussion or respond a discussion and I immediately start checking my notifications. I become restless if I find no notifications there in my notification box. Then after waiting for a while, when I go to notifications again, I again become desperate to answer all the notifications what I get there! Do you think that my nature of this is giving a hint that I am becoming an addict again to this site? Are you as desperate as me to check your notifications and replying them? Your responses will be highly appreciated! Thanks!
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40 responses
• Russian Federation
9 Mar
Hello! Notifications are the second thing I open in here. The first thing is private messages. MyLot is opened in my browser whole day, so I just refresh it from time to time... I do not think that you have an addiction, just some free time
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks a lot for thinking that I am not getting addicted to this site by looking at mydesperation dear friend @MashaVickina! I hardly get any private messages so there is no anxiety about that! Have a great time! Stay blessed!
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
9 Mar
@AKRao24 and sometimes, some addiction is not bad.
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@marlina (79655)
• Canada
10 Mar
@MashaVickina , For sure, we have to have some free time, otherwise, we could not be here at all.
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@nomus24g (25173)
• India
9 Mar
No I am not...at times, I check those notifications by EOD...
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks to know about it dear friend @nomus24g ! Have a great time ! Stay blessed!
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@nomus24g (25173)
• India
9 Mar
@AKRao24 goodnight
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Good night dear friend @nomus24g !
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@anikoonline (3258)
• Hungary
9 Mar
Maybe it sounds like addiction. Take a break!
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks I think I must do that, if this thing persists dear friend @anikoonline! have a great time! Thanks!
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• Hungary
9 Mar
@AKRao24 Have a great time here, too (with some breaks)!
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Yes I understood now @anikoonline ! Thanks!
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@Sreekala (23749)
• India
10 Mar
Two days earlier I felt the same way, I have posted my responses and till evening there was no notifications for me. I also surprised then I left the site. Usually I am getting notifications soon or within half an hour. So do you know what I felt, may be beginning of the month and members may not in a hurry so all become bit slow.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Yes, may be you are correct, people are relaxing right now before tightening their belts to get into the race after midway of the month dear @Sreekala! Thanks!
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
14 Mar
@AKRao24 I avoid being in a hurry here but enjoy. However last few days, I have been quite involved in some lengthy comments and discussions here.
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
14 Mar
@AKRao24 yes and since even with big acceleration, we would not be able to make big amounts here, it is better to enjoy here.
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@deena123 (27)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
10 Mar
I have just joined the site, but i think unless it give you negative impact addiction is not bad.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks a lot for your kind views dear @deena123! Have a great time!
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@mydanods (6747)
• Nigeria
10 Mar
I also think addiction is not bad.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks @mydanods , agreed, have a nice time!
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@Corbin5 (119556)
• United States
9 Mar
I am not desperate regarding notifications since the notifications eventually come my way.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Nice to know about that dear friend @Corbin5 ! I think I must compose myself to be patient! Thanks!
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@Corbin5 (119556)
• United States
9 Mar
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks @Corbin5
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• Cuddalore, India
10 Mar
Not only for you ,actually many of them
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks for the information and updating me dear friend @Lignitecityabishek96 ! Now I am comfortable that I am not a person like this here!
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@ridingbet (60719)
• Philippines
10 Mar
i would like to zero in my notifications. what i did before was, i finish all my notifications then make new discussions, that way, my notifications will all be fresh.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
I also do the same thing dear @ridingbet! That makes our lives easier here on Mylot! Thanks!
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@iridion9 (10806)
• Philippines
9 Mar
No, but I'm happy when I saw my comments or posts have replies. I'm here to improve my English this is my primary reason.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks @iridion9 for the response ! I sincerely appreciate your primary reason for being here on this site and wish you best of luck!
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@houda28 (380)
• Tunisia
9 Mar
I only spend an hour or two per day in Mylot and when I do I usually check my notifications ! So no, you're not addicted.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks a lot dear friend @houda28 ! I have got no fixed time so may be because of that I am behaving like That! god bless!
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@sprite1950 (14496)
• Corsham, England
10 Mar
I usually post a discussion and leave it for a while and there are nearly always some when I come back. Sometimes I have lots and sometimes not too many. It doesn't stress me out though.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
@sprite1950, nice to know that you are balanced here as far as the responses are concerned! Have a great day! Thanks!
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@sprite1950 (14496)
• Corsham, England
10 Mar
@AKRao24 You should try it. Just go away and leave a discussions. Sometimes people are sleeping, sometimes they are working on other posts but they will get round to yours in their own time
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
@sprite1950 , yes I am realizing that now ! I will give a try to that also! Thanks!
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@sharon6345 (142374)
• United States
9 Mar
The page is open at all times. I see the otifications as they pop in. What I find myself waiting on is new posts. But that often is time for me to just go else where.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Thanks dear friend @sharon6345 to know about that...many a times they don't pop up in my notifications that is why I become desperate! Have a nice time!
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@sharon6345 (142374)
• United States
10 Mar
@AKRao24 Mine were missing too until I adjusted my notifications. Which is getting on my nerves. I have double notifications that make removing them even harder work for me.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
That is too time consuming and also confusing to get rid of those double notifications dear @sharon6345 ! Thanks!
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@marlina (79655)
• Canada
9 Mar
No, I am not desperate at all concerning this.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Nice to know that @marlina ! Now will also try not to get desperate! Thanks!
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@marlina (79655)
• Canada
10 Mar
@AKRao24 You have to relax and enjoy the process.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks for the advise @marlina !
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
9 Mar
Yes even I have some addiction as the days when I cannot come to Mylot, I feel as if I am missing it. But then after a few days, we have to get over this addiction, and think of enjoying whatever time we can spend here.
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
14 Mar
@AKRao24 and I had an involuntarily break for 2 days
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@ptrikha_2 (10845)
• India
14 Mar
@AKRao24 yes and after work it is very tiring as well.
@Shiva49 (14251)
• Singapore
10 Mar
When I post a discussion I am anxious to reply asap to the responses. So I keep checking whenever I can for the notifications. I think this is a natural thing to do - siva
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
So, you mean my anxiety is not abnormal one dear friend @Shiva49 ? Thanks!
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@Shiva49 (14251)
• Singapore
10 Mar
@AKRao24 To be anxious is quite normal as that shows our interest for the responses - siva
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Just I was kidding that is very true dear friend @Shiva49 ! Stay blessed!
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@allknowing (70809)
• India
9 Mar
That red number takes away my desperation (lol)
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Agreed but some times that fails to appear which makes me desperate @allknowing ! Thanks!
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@allknowing (70809)
• India
10 Mar
@AKRao24 If you refresh that page the number will appear
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
That is the time when I get desperate @allknowing ! Before refreshing! Thanks!
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• Philippines
10 Mar
before but not these days as im busy with my other sites
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Nice to know that now a days you are busy with many sites and doing well dear @Strawberry18 ! Wish you all the best! God bless!
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• Philippines
10 Mar
@AKRao24 thanks same to you
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@mohit459 (12017)
• Haldwani, India
10 Mar
When I post something then I too.. As I want more people must present their views
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
Thanks dear friend @mohit459, it is natural for any one to expect the responses back! God bless!
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@mohit459 (12017)
• Haldwani, India
10 Mar
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@Icydoll (26027)
• India
9 Mar
No I'm not addicted to notifications.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
9 Mar
Nice to know that...I normally rely on that to check who all have responded and I need to reply them...as i don't want to do injustice to the members supporting me dear friend @Icydoll! Thanks ! God bless!
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@Icydoll (26027)
• India
9 Mar
@AKRao24 I do reply...but don't wait for notifications..:) God bless you too take care
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@snowy22315 (54337)
• United States
10 Mar
I wouldnt say i am desperateay desperate, but I am disappointed if it takes morebthan 10 orb15 minutes to get a response.
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@AKRao24 (21432)
• India
10 Mar
@snowy22315, you ae also like me ....we either want a response or want to know why didn't get one so far! Thanks!
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