The Day I Learned to Quit
@mlgen1037 (29886)
Manila, Philippines
March 10, 2018 11:13pm CST
Hello! When I said quit, it is not about quitting about life. It is about quitting the things and people that are no longer helping me grow better as a person and having freedom to do what I love. It is freedom from pain, hurt and regrets. I have no time for people who have no time of thinking about other people's feelings. I no longer want to run after those who will just drag me down. I am loving my life and it is getting better. Thank you. 
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
11 Mar 18
what are you able to do now that you love that you weren't able to before?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
I can sleep better, I can make my own decisions, I can write more, I can travel with just paying for myself and most of all, loving myself the better. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
I agree. I am not that young anymore not to be able to discern those people who will just use you for their own benefits.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
@FrancoisBezuidenhout Yeah. It may be too late but better late than never.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Mar 18
Now you are getting wiser and you did the right thing.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
Thank you @toniganzon. So much for people who only think about themselves. 
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 No problem., This is a place we can find solace in the comforting words and help from our co-members here.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Mar 18
Yes. I can relax better and not get so stressed out anymore. Thank you! I appreciate it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
Yes. I should have done it before but then I get so soft when they apologize. But now I am so fed up that I do not like people dragging me into their negativity and selfishness. Thank you!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
Yes, there is always an adjustment. And I know you are a strong woman.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Mar 18
Thank you @JustBhem. I can do this. Just a little adjustment and I am good.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Mar 18
@JustBhem Thank you for the encouragement. I am happy to meet people who give support and encouragement to others.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
Great! Even I stay away from negative people and all negativity that makes me dull or makes me feel saddened. I am a person with lots of positive ideas and love to stay with positive persons which increase my faith in people and things going around me.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
27 May 18
Hi Suny. That is the reason why I like you. You full of optimism and you make me smile.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
6 Apr 18
WONDERFUL!! Good for you!! I am happy for you!! .. No need to hang around with stagnant energies .. CELEBRATE YOU!! that is your sacred duty!! ..
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Apr 18
I WILL, Bess. And I am not stooping down to their level. Hehehe
My happiness is my what matters most. Thank you, my good friend. I will remember your kind words. Greatly appreciated.
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
Thank you @DianneN. I appreciate it. I will continue to keep the attitude.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
11 Mar 18
i have quit and eradicated a person out of my life and now i can sleep 'more peacefully' as well.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
12 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 right on that. but we must also think about the adage that "quitters never win and winners never quit". i think i won when i quit(ted) that person out.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Mar 18
@ridingbet I agree. Thats great. We need to quit a certain person so that we can win ourselves for the better. I appreciate the words of wisdom. Thank you, my friend.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
I like that sleeping soundly and peacefully at night. I just do not want to bring myself more pain that I need to quit. Quitting is the only option for circumstances such as this.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
19 Mar 18
Yes. Thank you. I need it to keep my sanity intact. Still, keep the cool and be civil.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
12 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 don't worry I'm here...
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Mar 18
@mohit459 Really? I take your word. 
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Mar 18
I agree. I still wish I could find those kind of people. They are really rare.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Mar 18
I believe so too. Need more positivity in my life. Thank you, @JudyEv. I will remember this.
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@Metsrock69 (3492)
• United States
11 Mar 18
it is good to love life. you should always take care of you first.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Mar 18
Thank you @Metsrock69. I will always keep that in mind. I appreciate for the words of wisdom.
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@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
11 Mar 18
It lessens the burden from our shoulders that do not belong to us in the first place. When you no longer relate with people around you that means that you are growing and moving on to better things that enhance your life intellectually, mentally, emotionally, etc..
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Mar 18
Yes. The weight on my shoulder lessened when I quit on those people. I know I had to di something for my well being. I appreciate the words of wisdom, my friend. Thank you.
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