Parents have been fighting a lot

@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
March 14, 2018 4:58am CST
What advice would you give to someone whose parents have been fighting a lot? He says they are now fighting over everything in their lives. Recently they fought because one of the sisters brought her boyfriend home. Even the meals the mother cooks for which nothing is said before now makes them fight.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
14 Mar 18
If parents are always fighting it isn't good at all for the family, they should talk each other and try to solve things in a pacific way.
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
That's true but when they have been fighting how can they talk to each other again? They already have bad blood between themselves. Would it be wise for me to intervene?
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
@nela13 I think so. They can be scared emotionally.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
14 Mar 18
@mydanods Do you think children can be in danger?
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Fei Shao
@fei1125 (607)
• Chengde, China
14 Mar 18
Maybe it is the way they are for living.
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
If that is how they want to live, they should think about the effect on their children.
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Fei Shao
@fei1125 (607)
• Chengde, China
14 Mar 18
@mydanods Maybe they did not realize this
Fei Shao
@fei1125 (607)
• Chengde, China
14 Mar 18
@mydanods BUT Parents always love their kids.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
14 Mar 18
That's their life, that's part of marriage anyways. Which is something I hate and not sure I want to experience.
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
It's something I also hate. The young man wants me to intervene. Should I?
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Mar 18
This is very sad. It is hard to give any advice that would help.
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
15 Mar 18
I have not been able to come up with one myself.
ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Mar 18
can't they just stop fighting for a while?
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
They fight all the time for even the littlest, insignificant thing. The little boy reported to me. I wonder what to say to him.
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
16 Mar 18
@ridingbet We don't divorce so easily here. Couples try to resolve their problems and if they can't, they involve the extended family.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Mar 18
@mydanods if it is disadvantageous to the kids and there is no more love between the 2 of them, i guess a divorce is the last possible option
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Abishek S K
@Lignitecityabishek96 (7110)
• Cuddalore, India
14 Mar 18
That's a big mistake .You should inform your family before bringing your boyfriend to your home
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Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
14 Mar 18
That is the truth. What can we say to help the young man?
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Abishek S K
@Lignitecityabishek96 (7110)
• Cuddalore, India
14 Mar 18
@mydanods I can't understand
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