~Going To Court-Need Prayers~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
Valdosta, Georgia
March 14, 2018 9:54pm CST
Good evening everyone. I hope your day has been lovely! =)
Things are good here. God is so good!
So, my friend called me a bit ago while in tears. Her ex husband is taking her to court for custody of their children. He's trying to prove she's an unfit mother which is not the case. Her lawyer told her to get someone she can trust as a witness to the abuse she suffered from him. That someone is me...
I have never been to court before so I'm nervous but we need prayers for the case. This is a great mom who's on trial here because of a spiteful man. He started this because she wouldn't sign full custody over to him, and he admitted that through text.
I don't trust the system but I DO trust God! =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Plethos Yes she saved all texts of his threats and abusive ways.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Plethos She has a ton of evidence against him and it was proven today in court. =)
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
15 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies - she better screenshot and save them on paper, computer, usb, sd, anything.
i think he just wants the tax money for having the kids and to ruin her, out of spite.
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@Tina30219 (81540)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Mar 18
I hope things go well for this lady. I hope they can use the text as proof I know from what I have seen on television they normally are not able to. Hopefully you testifying will help her and any other proof she has against him.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@Tina30219 The judge did allow text messages and she won the case!
@Tina30219 (81540)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies That is great. I hope he gats nailed and has to pay her big in child support.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48937)
• United States
15 Mar 18
Good luck.
let us know what happens.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Mar 18
So I read down through the comments and see that the case turned out in her favor, as it should of in this case. But when it comes to custody battles, I really don't trust the system. And this is me talking from a father's position. The courts are notorious for siding with the mother a majority of the time against the father, even in situations where the father could better provide for the children. I've seen many good fathers painted as a bad parent in the court system, when it's the furthest thing from the truth. Thankfully, the system is changing, and more and more fathers are gaining custody of their children, or are at least getting 50-50 visitation rights.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Mar 18
@moffittjc I absolutely agree with you but I know this couple personally and the father is a very controlling and abusive person. My family lived with them for months. He doesn't treat his ex wife well or the children. If they don't do everything he says he leaves bruises on all of them. It's really bad. =(
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Mar 18
@moffittjc I agree with that too but because he's a firefighter apparently he gets special privileges. It's crazy.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies That guy deserves to be locked up. Lock him up and throw away the key. Nobody should ever hurt a woman or a child.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Mar 18
As you know, I don't trust the system either.. most the time. And although I don't know either of them and can only go by what you say of them.. I trust you, so I hope all goes in her favor. But in the end, whatsever best for the children.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Courtlynn I lived with them so I know first hand it is true and I have seen the bruises as well.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Courtlynn Thank you. She's a great mom and her children would not want to live with their dad either. He's controlling and abusive. =(
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
15 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies very terrible if true.
Sadly though, behind closed doors, more are that way than not.
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@thislittlepennyearns (58134)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
15 Mar 18
Just tell the truth, the rest will work itself out.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Mar 18
I hate spiteful men and situations like this. I bet she is so thankful that she has a friend like you.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies ......I am so glad the judge didn't fall for any of his lies.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@Celticeagle It back fired on him today. The judge was angry, told him he was a waste of their time, the judge ordered him to pay all court costs and attorney fees and put it in his file that he is not a credible person!
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
15 Mar 18
I hope all goes well. That text will be useful to show/bring to court.
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
16 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies Glad to hear the issue resolved quickly.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@infatuatedbby Thanks, everything worked out well-she won.
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@LeaPea2417 (36438)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Mar 18
I pray your friend wins in court.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Leapea2417 Thank you, she did!
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Ladyduck Thank you very much.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
15 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies Good luck to your friend.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@andriaperry It did! She won the case. =) I wrote a follow up to this one about it but basically the judge told her ex he wasted everyone's time today and he was so angry!
@kobesbuddy (74553)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Mar 18
He's just being spiteful, that's such a mean thing to do! This man doesn't want to end of paying child support, that's what he's worried about! Saying that she isn't a good mother, will prevent the courts from dipping into his money! That's his first concern, it's not their kids at all.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@kobesbuddy Well it back fired on him. He made the judge very angry since he had no proof of anything and he called it an emergency hearing. The judge told him he is a waste of time and not a credible person. He also got stuck paying all court costs from today. And that's going to be their judge for the remainder of the case so he buried himself.
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@kobesbuddy (74553)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies 'HA HA HA', to that creep! Imagine, lying to make her look like an unfit mother, to keep from paying child support! Your friend is lucky to get rid of him, that's for sure
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
15 Mar 18
Is this the friend who had to flee in the middle of the night?
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@spiderdust Yes! I can't believe you remembered that!
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@spiderdust Yes! They are safe, happy for the most part and healthy. =)
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
16 Mar 18
@LovingMyBabies I remember how worried you were about them. I'm glad to hear a good resolution to the story.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
15 Mar 18
Hopefully they can find a happy medium where all involved will benefit. God knows our needs and provides in the best way suited to them which may not always coincide with what we think we need. Good luck to all. :-)
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@Starmaiden She won the case and the judge was very angry at her ex for wasting the court's time.
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@snowy22315 (169963)
• United States
15 Mar 18
I hope he court case goes well..it is hard to get a fair deal sometimes. Let us know what happens
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@snowy22315 Thank you it went great! She won the case. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@Madshadi Yes and they would choose to live with their mom if given the choice.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 18
@Elizaby It worked in her favor. =) Thanks for praying.
@levis2020 (171)
• Philippines
15 Mar 18
Tell the truth to the court. That would be it.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Mar 18
@lynnief Thank you very much for praying! That's exactly what I want as well.
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