Freaky first date

Canada
March 16, 2018 8:51pm CST
I met someone on one of the local dating sites. We hit it off right away and we have alot in common. A lot of shared interests. He made it clear to me that he likes my 'long tresses'. He even calls me 'Rapunzel'. One day I received a very strange request from him. We hadn't even met yet and he asked me if he could have a lock of my hair for himself to keep! Now I can't speak for anyone else, but I think there is something freaky about your blind date coming at you with the scissors! I refused his request and we ended the conversation. What strange requests ( if any) did your potential blind date ask of you? (Or vice versa)
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
17 Mar 18
What a shame he did that and you had to end it tho you had a lot in common. I never had any strange requests. I guess all in all, I never hit it off with anyone. But I shall be interested to see others responses to your discussion.
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• Canada
17 Mar 18
Me too! :-D
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@Shavkat (137201)
• Philippines
17 Mar 18
I haven't tried a dating site before. It sounds like a guy has a hidden agenda towards you. I think it is a good decision that you had stopped communicating with him virtually.
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@Shavkat (137201)
• Philippines
17 Mar 18
@Starmaiden I do think that he has a psychological problem.
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@Shavkat (137201)
• Philippines
18 Mar 18
@Starmaiden We do have with a good conscience.
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• Canada
17 Mar 18
@Shavkat I've come to believe that we all do...in our own unique ways. :-)
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
18 Mar 18
Can't say I have ever had anyone request that of me, what do you think he would want that for? Hmmm, odd.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
18 Mar 18
@Starmaiden OOOHH I didn't think about that, your right that is creepy.
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• Canada
18 Mar 18
A voodoo doll maybe. It was a very creepy request. :-)
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Mar 18
On a second date I was purposed too. I could not help but laugh.And no I did not marry him, I think he just wanted some and that line worked with other girls.
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• Canada
17 Mar 18
Its funny how some guys think they know what women want. :-D
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
19 Mar 18
That is strange. You do not even know him. So have you heard from him again and did he apologize?
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
20 Mar 18
@Starmaiden Good for you for blocking him Lucinda.
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• Canada
19 Mar 18
No. I blocked him. :-)
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• United States
18 Mar 18
Yeah, I think you made the right decision on that one. He probably was gonna go home and make a voodoo doll or altar of you and do creepy rituals.
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• Canada
18 Mar 18
My thoughts exactly! I figured it's the reason he's still single. :-D
• United States
18 Mar 18
@Starmaiden you're probably right, lol! I mean, he wasn't even clever with his approach though, smh
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• United States
17 Mar 18
That’s creepy I’d stay far from him lol I’ve never dated online or online meet ups
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
19 Mar 18
That's strange request. I never went on a blind date ever in my life. Definitely I would have too declined the request and ignored him like you did.
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@sabtraversa (12893)
• Italy
17 Mar 18
I never had strange requests before meeting someone. It might happen later during the relationship, but I haven't met anyone confident enough to ask me something that early. He sounded like some freak that keeps locks of hair as trophies.
@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Mar 18
That does seem like a request that is really strange. I have never been on a blind date before.
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Mar 18
That is creepy.
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@JudyEv (325584)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar 18
That does sound a bit different. I haven't had anything like that happen.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
17 Mar 18
Doesn't sound so weird to me!! He liked your hair and wanted a piece to cherish. He may have thought it was a compliment!!
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@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
17 Mar 18
I never went on a blind date but what happened to you is really freaky ! Reminds me of those psychos we see on homicide movies.
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